Genuine question because my female friends completely disagree on this.
I was chatting with a coworker after work for a couple of minutes.
At one point we were standing a few steps apart when he suddenly said:
“You smell amazing.”
According to my memory, he then repeated it a second time and made a little playful hand gesture as if he was wafting the scent towards himself.
Then we just kept talking like nothing happened.
I’m not asking:
“Does he like me?”
I’m asking something much more specific.
From a guy’s perspective:
Would you ever tell a female coworker “you smell amazing” (and even repeat it) if there was absolutely zero attraction?
Or is scent one of those compliments that usually falls into a different category than saying someone has nice hair or a nice outfit
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I told a co-worker that she smelled great just last week, unprompted.
I just happened to be walking behind her and caught a whiff of her perfume. I never met her before, and there was zero attraction, whatsoever. It was just a random comment.
It's certainly possible to do so with no ulterior motive, and I would suggest that you can't use that, alone, as a basis to indicate any particular feelings towards another person.
Yes of course. Believe it or not men used to compliment women a lot whether it was on her dress, her shoes, her hair, perfume, etc. But these days we don’t as much because we don’t want to get hit w a sexual harassment. He may have related it because he thought you didn’t hear him. I’m not saying there’s a no chance he likes you, but yes men have complimented women on their perfume before w out being interested.
I would normally do that if there was at least some attraction or the perfume amazing. If it was someone I wasn't attracted to, I likely wouldn't say anything as I wouldn't want to have them think I was interested in them.
I am told several times each week by coworkers, and I know there is no real attraction.
Yea, I get those compliments from male co-workers quite often. They always come off as genuine compliments rather than flirtatious.
Not if I wasn't attracted to her. Then again I wouldn't say something like that on the job at all. It's not the place for that.
We compliment women all the time. It doesn't mean we are attracted just that we like something about her
A male would say that only if he was stupid and wanted to get fired.
Well there's at least a infinitesimal amount of attraction.
Wouldn’t do it with total attraction.
Probably not.