What exactly does it mean to be a TEASE?

[sweetynxtdoor818]

my ex boyfriend said I was being a tease when we met up and started making out.

does that mean he seriously thinks I am teasing him or is he afraid that whatever he wants to have happen is not going to happen because it didn't really happen in the past (sex wise).

i guess you can say I was leading him on but how do I show a guy that I am not a tease and I am for REAL...?

what does it mean to be a tease aneways ?

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should I go all the way to prove it ?

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do guys try and stay away from girls like me ?

[Little-Hippie]

You don't have to prove that you're not a tease to him.

But yes, pointing in the direction of sex without going all the way does make you a tease.

Guys don't actively avoid teases because a tease is hard to spot from a distance.

It's like a mouse that wonders upon a tantalizing piece of cheese, eyes illuminated with glee.

And it's everythign he's been searching for and more,

Until he thinks he's about to have his cheese and a spring-loaded metal bar comes down and severes him from his ambitions.

And in that split second of realization,

the only thought he can conjur is "THIS is not what I signed up for!"

More direct answer, he probably won't stop believing you're a tease until you have sex with him.

Sex is the only tangible form of currency to him.

Your other money is no good here.

[Anonymous]

I think it just means getting his hopes up sexually, then backing out. Or getting his hopes up emotionally, then backing out.

[Opinion Owner]

All you should do, is what you want to do. Who cares what you're called, if you only want to make out that's your choice.

[sweetynxtdoor818]

Thats true... but what if you really want the guy ?

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said, do what you want to do. If you want him, go for it.

[Jadelil25]

My understanding of this means that he thinks that you are being a tease in a sexual sense. You are not leading him on in a relationship way but you are in a sexual sense. You are getting him wanting it, wanting you, then you back off and don't go all the way.

[Anonymous]

when you lead someone on

but don't go through with what you're hinting

[Atomizer]

"Tease" means different things to different people.

It could mean you're deliberately leading him on and playing.

Or it could mean he wants more than you're willing to give.

You SHOULD NOT go all the way simply to prove you're not a tease.