Why has he asked me to send him non sexual pictures of myself?

[Anonymous]

This guy I have been talking to for a few weeks has just started asking me to send him pictures of myself not sexual ones, just last night he told me to send him a picture of myself with the art work (I draw as a hobby) I was working on last night. He said that I looked cute and then later on called me that night and told me that he would really like to see me this Friday. Before we got off the phone he asked me to send him another picture of myself.

Is this guy a pervert or something? I mean he has started to become a bit aggressive in the sense that he is making it quite obvious he likes me. I am starting to get that kind of vibe but I don't want to be too quick to judge as well. He does call/text me everyday. He sounds like he is genuinely interested in me but I just want to be careful.

So what do you think?

Does it sound like he genuinely likes me or is he after a quick fling?

[billy_young]

It seems a little weird to so openly ask you for pictures, but I don't think you should judge him on it (as I know you're not).

If he was after a quick fling, it wouldn't really make sense for him to ask for non-sexual pictures of you, unless he's hoping that you'll start with non-sexual ones then soon start sending him sexual ones. But that seems fairly unlikely.

However, I can't really see any need for him to have photos of you if he's not after a quick fling either. If you're really hot/pretty he might be showing you off to his friends or something. If you're not, he might be asking his friends if they think he should bother or not. But if he seems like a decent guy, then both of these are quite unlikely.

So basically, it's a bit weird, but I really have no idea why he's doing it. Just meet him on Friday and then you'll have a better idea of what he's like and what he's after :)

[Asker]

Oh, I asked him why and he said since he doesn't get to see me often the pictures are the next best thing. Turns out he just misses my company when I'm not around. lol

[Anonymous]

I think he likes u, but he is a little weird. He may be showing people what you look like(which may be fine) or he just might be doing creepy things with the pics. But he is definitely not after a quick fling.

[Asker]

That's what I'm worried about. He's a cool very outgoing guy but since he started asking for my pictures I'm like...WHY? It'd make more sense if he was asking for racey pics. But I don't think that's why he wants them. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

does he live with his parents? is he close to them? maybe he wants to show them, that's my only thought. That or he has a very nice collage of you in his closet

[Asker]

Oh, no I don't think he's doing that. LOL But he just might want to show them to his mom and dad he does live with them. And yes from what he has told me about them he is very close with them.

[Opinion Owner]

thats it then, he is a very family oriented man, and you should husband him asap

[Opinion Owner]

Like, I am close to my uncle and aunt, and I would show them pics of a girl I am into that are very proper, or cute pics. Not necessarily Facebook pics of her drinking.