I don't use jealousy intentionally with flirting. I'm too awkward to be sly about such things. If I find multiple girls cute I'll naturally give more attention to the one that's reciprocating. It's not a very complicated system, and one that is very easily taken advantage of by the girls I'm flirting with if they knew. :P
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No, it just makes us mad. She was probably flirting with you before and just waiting for you to make a move. When she saw you talking to another girl, she would feel like she needed to make her feelings more obvious. Maybe it could be helpful to find out if she likes you, but I think most girls can't stand it when guys try to make us jealous.
Jealousy doesn't work for everyone. If a guy tried to make me jealous to get me to pursue him more then I would back off 'cause I'm not into people who play mind games like that.
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i don't know about other girls, but I know that if a guy who I'm interested in or who flirts with me flirts with another girl, particularly in front of me, I lose interest. it makes me feel like I'm not special, so why should I even bother anymore? to me, it seems like a preview of what might happen if a relationship were to happen. if a guy really wanted me, he'd focus on me, just like how I'd focus on him :)
For girls, the one you like and others flirting This is intolerable, and if she does not like you then this is the thing does not matter. Also to say that not always the best, if she is only jealous because vanity
it depends on a girl btw..sometimes yeah it really work that is if you wanna know if she cares for you or not..
so now that she putted her attention to you when you start to fling with other girls yeah its worth trying haha!
people are like that.. they ignore but when they notice you start ignoring them that is where they start to notice you...
hope it gives you a lot of thoughts haha
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Not on me personally, if they do that to me I basically hate him after that.. I don't like games and won't put up with them
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it only works if she's interested in you and the flirting isn't taken too far but yeah it can work...just like it works on guys sometimes. Has to be done in just the right way though and she has to have at least *some* interest in you already.
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yes and no. Yes to an extent it definitely makes you think about him more but after a while a girl will probably give up on you and assume your not interested or a player.
its sad to say yea if she likes you but if she doesn't then no it doesn't
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I think so! my ex started flirting with my best friend and it's getting under my skin. But keep in mind, this girl has to at least be a big part of your every day life to get her to notice.
sure you do like pigs can fly *being sarcastic* you say that but you might going back for more drama like all the others because bad guys who make you jealous by flirting with other women/girls in front of you= you want him and you think nice guys are so boring not challenging enough
if I'm lying to you then answer this. Do you want him to agree with you everything with you say not once disagree with you even though he disagree with you do you want him to kiss your ass 24/7? Do you want him to buy you everything do you want him to be your little puppy dog do you want him to call you daily do you want him to tell you how she feels about you asap and finally do you want him to revolve his life around you?
I want a good balance , I don't want him to be my puppy or be a jerk either . I've been with a jerk before and I am NOT trying that again , if you like me don't flirt with other girls just like I won't with other guys , if you do I will leave .
BTW it does work with lots of girls , I'm just talking about me , I hate competing , I have low self esteem so seeing you with any other girl just makes me walk away because I would go "he probably likes her better , she's prettier etc" why the attack ? chill
like I told you I am only being sarcastic because whenever girls and women say no drama but they always go back for more drama and friend zone us nice guys I only being sarcastic with you when I act like I don't believe you
hehehe , I thought you were the jerk who LIKES the jealousy method , seriously I LOVE nice guys , I fell in love with a science geek who blushed while talking to girls.
OK and what about computer geeks/computer nerds I ask because I am both nerdy and geeky you know like I'm 50/50 and I love computers and computers is one of my favorite subjects
It really had nothing to do with "science" it had to do with his passion about it and his "nice guy' qualities , but then he started to be a jerk to get my affection and I walked away , for a smart guy he was stupid enough to fall for the "be hot and cold jerk thing" when he was good , I wanted him .
and honestly I don't know if they like us nerdy geeky guys especially who is either computer nerd,computer geek or loves computers that's why I ask you this
EmmaWatson15, when you said that, you didn't say anything smart, to put it simply when you want open your mouth and speak about something like an intelligent human being, sh*t just flyies out of your mouth, not just one piece of sh*t many pieces of sh*t.
like a sh*tting goat how they poop little balls it like that, but yours is much more urgently and messy.
i think so.. its basic human psycology that we want what other people have, it might be a "turnoff" at first but in the long run, she'll be more attracted to you.
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I don't use jealousy intentionally with flirting. I'm too awkward to be sly about such things. If I find multiple girls cute I'll naturally give more attention to the one that's reciprocating. It's not a very complicated system, and one that is very easily taken advantage of by the girls I'm flirting with if they knew. :P
No, it just makes us mad. She was probably flirting with you before and just waiting for you to make a move. When she saw you talking to another girl, she would feel like she needed to make her feelings more obvious. Maybe it could be helpful to find out if she likes you, but I think most girls can't stand it when guys try to make us jealous.
Amen!
No- if I see a guy who I've been flirting with, flirting with another girl, it makes me dislike him. I'm not flirting with anyone else
With some young girls it can. But generally, it only works on the emtionally immature.
So in other words, all women.
@iXenomorph -Good job.
I agree.
Right on, brother!
Lol all the guys that responded for some reason reminded me of the He Men Woman Haters Club from the little rascals X]
deserves a BA.
Jealousy doesn't work for everyone. If a guy tried to make me jealous to get me to pursue him more then I would back off 'cause I'm not into people who play mind games like that.
i don't know about other girls, but I know that if a guy who I'm interested in or who flirts with me flirts with another girl, particularly in front of me, I lose interest. it makes me feel like I'm not special, so why should I even bother anymore? to me, it seems like a preview of what might happen if a relationship were to happen. if a guy really wanted me, he'd focus on me, just like how I'd focus on him :)
For girls, the one you like and others flirting This is intolerable, and if she does not like you then this is the thing does not matter. Also to say that not always the best, if she is only jealous because vanity
it depends on a girl btw..sometimes yeah it really work that is if you wanna know if she cares for you or not..
so now that she putted her attention to you when you start to fling with other girls yeah its worth trying haha!
people are like that.. they ignore but when they notice you start ignoring them that is where they start to notice you...
hope it gives you a lot of thoughts haha
Not on me personally, if they do that to me I basically hate him after that.. I don't like games and won't put up with them
it only works if she's interested in you and the flirting isn't taken too far but yeah it can work...just like it works on guys sometimes. Has to be done in just the right way though and she has to have at least *some* interest in you already.
yes and no. Yes to an extent it definitely makes you think about him more but after a while a girl will probably give up on you and assume your not interested or a player.
its sad to say yea if she likes you but if she doesn't then no it doesn't
I think so! my ex started flirting with my best friend and it's getting under my skin. But keep in mind, this girl has to at least be a big part of your every day life to get her to notice.
Once I see him ith someone else even if I did like I would totaly forget about him , I hate competing and I hate drama so I just leave
sure you do like pigs can fly *being sarcastic* you say that but you might going back for more drama like all the others because bad guys who make you jealous by flirting with other women/girls in front of you= you want him and you think nice guys are so boring not challenging enough
if I'm lying to you then answer this. Do you want him to agree with you everything with you say not once disagree with you even though he disagree with you do you want him to kiss your ass 24/7? Do you want him to buy you everything do you want him to be your little puppy dog do you want him to call you daily do you want him to tell you how she feels about you asap and finally do you want him to revolve his life around you?
I want a good balance , I don't want him to be my puppy or be a jerk either . I've been with a jerk before and I am NOT trying that again , if you like me don't flirt with other girls just like I won't with other guys , if you do I will leave .
BTW it does work with lots of girls , I'm just talking about me , I hate competing , I have low self esteem so seeing you with any other girl just makes me walk away because I would go "he probably likes her better , she's prettier etc" why the attack ? chill
like I told you I am only being sarcastic because whenever girls and women say no drama but they always go back for more drama and friend zone us nice guys I only being sarcastic with you when I act like I don't believe you
hehehe , I thought you were the jerk who LIKES the jealousy method , seriously I LOVE nice guys , I fell in love with a science geek who blushed while talking to girls.
OK and what about computer geeks/computer nerds I ask because I am both nerdy and geeky you know like I'm 50/50 and I love computers and computers is one of my favorite subjects
It really had nothing to do with "science" it had to do with his passion about it and his "nice guy' qualities , but then he started to be a jerk to get my affection and I walked away , for a smart guy he was stupid enough to fall for the "be hot and cold jerk thing" when he was good , I wanted him .
and honestly I don't know if they like us nerdy geeky guys especially who is either computer nerd,computer geek or loves computers that's why I ask you this
again has to do with your passion about . I like guys with passion
OK thanks,thanks for your time and thanks for your answers
np :D
yes. one time I became so obsessive that I masturbated to the guy 3 times in one night. it drives me wild, but I hate it :)
lol I knew it why girls and women deny it it don't work but in reality it does work
It's because girls are natural born liars
In some situations yes, but then again jealousy is a major turn off.
No, I would think you're a flirt and you're not serious
Yes I do actually and they're mostly Mexican so it makes it creepier.
Whoa, what does being Mexican have anything to do with it? And why do you consider it creepy?Because they are Mexican?
Racism is a lovely thing. :D
EmmaWatson15, when you said that, you didn't say anything smart, to put it simply when you want open your mouth and speak about something like an intelligent human being, sh*t just flyies out of your mouth, not just one piece of sh*t many pieces of sh*t.
like a sh*tting goat how they poop little balls it like that, but yours is much more urgently and messy.
i think so.. its basic human psycology that we want what other people have, it might be a "turnoff" at first but in the long run, she'll be more attracted to you.
Hahaha yah, because girls are just bitches to each other :x