Is innocence an attractive quality in a girl? guys please answer this question and explain why???

[tamana]

is innocence an attractive quality in a girl? guys please answer this question and explain why? men pick up on that quality with me and I wonder how it makes them feel...

[Littletad]

Yes, but it's also the most attractive to pedophiles.

There is nothing wrong with innocence, some girls grow up only with female friend and have little to any experience with guys. That's understandable. But keep in mind that males will not care. They will act on your innocence, and most likely take advantage. You do not want this. I don't mean to ridicule my own species, but by majority, men do take advantage of a seemingly innocent girl. Not just in surrounding, but situation and in confidence.

Your best bet is to increase your social skills. Go out in double dates, or even become a third wheel if it helps. Get out there and become social. I don't mean to go all wild, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a little more social rather than an innocent aloof.

[smith2267]

She's 25, Tad. Look up the definition of a pedophile sometime. They don't like grown women, or even teens.

(Someone who likes teens is called an ephebophile).

Anyway, anyone attracted to her would, by definition, not be a pedophile.

[smith2267]

I hate the popular misuse of language, when it carries consequences in terms of peoples thoughts. Like the nimwad on this site a few days ago who called marijauna a narcotic.

Someone who likes a 25 year old is not a pedophile, pot is not a narcotic, and why the hell doesn't anybody use a dictionary anymore?

[Littletad]

Knock it off. If you want to talk about definitions, then let's talk reading and understanding. She said she's got an innocence quality. This could be pertained to her appearance, or other. My answer clearly was going in one direction and not in several. Innocence IS a quality that pedophiles look for. I graduate with a degree in English and I have keen sense of vocabulary sir. Please go bother someone else in need of your nagging.

[doubleoh]

Smith, this is the internet. You take it so damn seriously it makes it kind of seem like its your life. Go outside.

[good-looking-geek]

Yes it is good because it indicates that a girl has morals, integrity, intelligence, and discipline. If she is so called "innocent" when she is in her 20's it means she probably avoids unhealthy behavior deliberately.

I am not interested in a girl who is a drug adict, an alcoholic, or is promiscuous. If she is any of these things then she is not likely to have much common sense or ambition to do something productive in her life. It's not about the fact that a girl has done these things; it's more of an indicator about her character as a whole.

[redheadbabygirl]

it's different for every guy.

I'm a pretty innocent person, and if a guy sees that as a defect, I won't see him as boyfriend material.

[tex151]

I think a lot of women pretend that they are really innocent and in fact they are quite the opposite, the innocent looking ones are usually the kinky ones, just because you have a cute face, and act like an angel doesn't mean you are one, then who am I to judge I'm no saint myself.

Maybe it an opposites attract type of thing, me being the bad one and her being the innocent one, somethings bound to happen, I think they look at the bad one go hmmm I wonder just how bad he really is, something about him, and a guy would go hmmm I bet you anything she's not as sweet and innocent as she looks but hell she sure can play it off. I have met many of those type of girls, who are the nice and sweet and caring and friendly, you would never imagine just how wild they really are.

[Mallo]

If they're innocent then you can be pretty sure that she's not a whore, also, like other answerers, that means that she has morals, dignity, and isn't too pressured by society. Also, for someone who has been hurt over the years and plagued with worry about school and things, its nice to see somebody who's not so dark yet. I'm not sure, but I go for the good girls.

[Dragonblood21]

Undoubtfully innocence is a quality that is attractractive to me. However faking innocence is the exact opposite, and is repulsive. Innocence can not be obtained, or grabed from the jaws of a lie. You are either innocent or not, there is no middle ground.

Sorry I can't really explain why is attractive. Maybe that it's a step close to shy and that I also find attractive. I also find "naughty" very unnatractive as well, which could also have some contribution.

[Anonymous]

Yes, definitely in my case. It shows she has self respect and dignity, a very big plus in my books. I have every right to be this way, since I consider myself to be innocent, thanks to my morals and values. I won't date a whore or a wanna-be innocent girl.

[Anonymous]

Yes, because I get to corrupt her.