Yes, they do. I'm friends with a few very attractive women. They aren't used to rejection, so it really does mess with their head if they aren't asked out or show interest and get rejected. Because it happens so rarely, sometimes these girls really start questioning themselves. This can happen with girls who have average looks two, but as they are used to rejection more, it seems more "normal" for them, than a girl who is rarely rejected by men.
Interesting story, I actually landed a really beautiful girlfriend by accident using this method. There was this absolutely stunning girl that was hired at a gym where I was working at in sales. There were about six other guys on the sales team, and no girls prior to the new one. These other guys at the start of the day were thrilled that hot girl was working with them, and started flirting with her like crazy. She didn't appreciate the attention.
I wasn't trying to even get with her, but here's where it got funny. I completely ignored her all day long, not even saying hi or anything. I sat at my desk, making phone calls, setting appointments, trying to close more sales. Towards the end of the day, she came over to my desk and introduced herself. She asked me what my "deal" was. I told her I was working. The less interested I seemed, the more she was interested.
By the end of the first evening that we worked together, she invited me out to go to the movies. I didn't have anything else planned for the evening, so I said, sure. That was our first date and we ended up staying together about a year a half. It turns out she did modeling on the side. She was that stunning. I later asked her why she asked me out. She said that guys are always fawning over her and was really turned on by the fact that I ignored her and focused on my work.
Bottom line, it is really hard to ignore the presence of a super hot girl, but if you can sometimes it works out for the best. I never planned on things working out that way, but they did. Life is strange sometimes.
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everyone gets rejected at some point, for a variety of reasons
My cousin is ver popular and she sometimes tells me stories about her friends. I think one of her girls got rejected by a really wealthy man after she slept with him. A lot of pretty girls get used for sex and then dumped. I know a guy who routinely does this... well not being one of his friends and only seeing him for a couple of hours a day, I've sometimes witnessed him hitting on 3 different girls in the same day and these girls are all MEGA MEGA hot and they like him too, but they don't realize that he lacks fidelity regardless of how good his other qualities may be.
Let me tell you something, the reason you always see really beautiful women with ugly men is because average to good looking guys never hit on them and they get lonely. So when mr below average is nice to them and actually asks them out they go for it.
i get rejected a tooooon.. usually because they guy doesn't wanna taint my "purity" or be a "bad influence" on me... I think I'm pretty and I've gotten told I am.. but it's my religious background that makes men say no.
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I have been told that I'm gorgeous multiple times and I have had random people asking me out at Starbucks etc. lol. But yeah I just got rejected by a guy for the first time and the most confusing thing is this same guy told me I'm so beautiful he can't take his eyes off of me a week ago. Yeah this is the first time I was rejected and it is pretty painful because he told to my face to leave him alone!
I personally just got rejected today, I definitely don't consider myself an unattractive person. I gave him my number and said he could call me if he wanted to grab a drink sometime his subtle "sounds good" was all I needed to hear in order to get the "he's just not into you" vibe. Never again will I be the more forward one, if a guy wants you he'll make it happen.
Yes, definitely. I'm not a great-looking guy, but I had an extremely attractive girl call me at one point to chat - and by extremely attractive, we're talking featured in Sports Illustrated. Really nice girl, but ultimately I just didn't have anything in common with her, and I ended the call pretty quickly to get back to work. I'm way more concerned about being with someone I share interests with than someone who's really "hot."
Though rarely, very rarely for me any way. I am secure and know that not everyone has the same tastes and is attracted to different types so it does not mess with my head at all.
yes a lot of guys tell me I'm hot but I've been rejected before multiple times. It didn't screw with my head though...i'm not that arrogant
hot girls probably have a hard time because everyone assumes that they're already taken
Let me be the judge of what you look like.
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