Do attractive girls just get approached all the time?

[Anonymous]

There’s a girl who’s in my class and it seems like A lot of guys would stares at her or try to get her attention so is that common if you’re attractive? Do these people get approached all the time and stuff?

Yes

No

[MysticAngel5000]

Not necessarily. I mean yes, they get attention... but that doesn't mean they're going to be approached by men a ton. Some guys are shy. Some guys are really nervous and intimidated by an attractive woman. Some guys are really unsure of how to make a move. Others just simply fear rejection. They think "wow, she's SO beautiful. She'd never be into ME."

Girls are the same way, guys. Even if a girl is really pretty, that doesn't mean SHE believe that. She may be thinking the same thing you are - "he's SO cute/hot! He would never like ME. He probably already has a girlfriend."

We are our own worst enemies and our own biggest critics. Have some confidence and shoot your shot! You never know unless you try! If someone does reject you, cool. It isn't that big of a deal. Just brush it off and keep trying!

Also, be mindful of HOW you go about this. The way you approach someone says a lot. You shouldn't be weird or creepy about it. Be casual and friendly, without seeming pushy. Test things softly and let it build naturally (if it doesn't, no sweat!). Be aware of how to read people's body language to judge if they're comfortable or not. And PLEASE don't approach someone when it clearly isn't appropriate to do so! Examples - don't ambush someone coming out of a bathroom, don't interrupt someone's meal, don't interrupt someone who is on the phone, don't bother someone who is on a laptop or reading, etc. These are people who are busy and not interested in a conversation. If someone has ear buds in, they probably can't even hear you. If someone is on a laptop, they may even be WORKING at the moment! Someone who's on the phone is already having a conversation and doesn't need interrupted by you! If you pounce as soon as you see an attractive person coming out of a bathroom, you'll come off as VERY creepy and weird... as if you were like waiting for them to come out or something (even if you truly weren't).

Good luck everyone! Always remember - you are AWESOME! You got this! Have some faith in yourself and don't be afraid to approach someone!

[BlueStripedSoul]

Very well said. 👍

[MysticAngel5000]

@BlueStripedSoul Thank you!

[MoniqueTLC]

Not necessarily. Attractive women get approached less because they'll come across as more intimidating, with more chance of a guy being rejected. They get more attention but less approach from men because they're deemed as 'high risk'

[lucas262]

I still seem to have this curse, where my brain shuts down its almost impossible for me to ,, cold approach,, women. I do just fine after we're talking but the first few conversations are like chewing nails.

[MoniqueTLC]

@lucas262 Ahhh is that because of the built up of nerves before you cold approach them? Are you thinking about how the outcome will be even before you start chatting? I guess that could be the fear of them not wanting to talk to you, but once they show you it's going to be positive you feel more comfortable and at ease?

[lucas262]

Yea pretty much. I'd probably get to hello and that's it. I' mean I just wanna grab some coffee and chat but that seems like a lot to some people now

[MoniqueTLC]

@lucas262 Some individual can be extremely closed off, but also how you approach can have an effect on how responsive they are

[lucas262]

I guess we'll find out

[MoniqueTLC]

@lucas262 Let me know!

[FilmGuy93]

No, actually. Many of the most attractive women I know are almost never asked out. People just assume the answer will be "no," I guess.

[KrakenAttackin]

@filmguy93. The answer would be no.

[FilmGuy93]

@KrakenAttackin could be! lol You don't know till you try though.

[shaysh87]

if she is bombshell hot, she won't get approached much. if she is decently attractive such as a 8 out of 10, she will likely get approached. but understand that sometimes looks are subjective. what may be unattractive to you, might be attractive to someone else.

[ChrisMaster69]

Some do, some don’t, however all get stared at constantly.

[Red-Blaze]

Yes and no
I could say I do get approhed many times, but a lot of the time I spot them reverse or stay back
Most times sadly the once that do come by are the idiots that dont know fear or seen some "pick up" videos and think they know what there doing
I will say a lot more stares and fiddling then approches over all, but there is always at least one

[Adaeva]

Almost all guys would approach a pretty girl if they thought they had a chance. However, most guys learn by their middle teens that if they approach a pretty girl, they will be rejected and often harshly. Rejection hurts so they don't approach.

[bootieclapper9000]

no men are just deciding not to rape women thats simple

[Adaeva]

@bootieclapper9000 Even if that were true, it doesn't change the fact the very few men will approach girls that are clearly above their league in attractiveness.

[bootieclapper9000]

yeah cause women are shallow
women only want the top 15% of men

and if you know you are not in that league
why waste time?

[Adaeva]

@bootieclapper9000 That is not true. Women will accept men in the top 20% not just the top 15% as you claim. www.reddit.com/.../
Of course if a boy is average looking or even slightly above average, he needs to look for a big or homely girl because I'm not interested.

[bootieclapper9000]

you are assuming you are a super hot girl lol
no

women just want the worst of the worst
so I just let them go inside the snake

cause they would not believe
no matter what they saw

[KrakenAttackin]

@bootieclapper9000 Top 15%,, try top 5%.

[bootieclapper9000]

@KrakenAttackin

everyone has different numbers

and at the end of the day 70% of men get laid

but what women really want is a small percentage of men

cause they are retarded

[Adaeva]

@bootieclapper9000 I'm hot and my profile photo proves it. You are not hot and that is why you don't post your photos.

[GurlMaster40]

I don’t know entirely. I would say I have seen some really good looking girls get quiet the amount of attention. I would also say that I can get some attention from guys but IMHO not that much compared to some girls I know.

[FreyaRed]

Not all the time but guys stare at you like hungry dogs on a ham and sometimes it's difficult to determine their intention.

[lucas262]

I'd imagine a lot of that attention would feel good on one hand, and feel very disingenuous on the other. That would get old for me

[KrakenAttackin]

@freyared. Their intention is they want to fuck.

[lucas262]

Pretty much yea

[KoolKita]

I have a friend who is super pretty and she gets a lot of guys asking for her number. But she also has the Entertainer personality type so that might be why as well.

[Sarahplus2]

I don't think they get approached all the time, but a lot. However i think many do not know how to start a conversation with an attractive woman or they feel she may not talk with them so they don't

[Kaamraj]

Most men cannot tell you what it feels like as they are invisible to women.

[MagicHands]

This!

[AviatorTom]

I've had attractive single women tell me they wish more guys would ask them out, because the guys think that an attractive woman is out of their league.

[InsertNameHerex]

Nah. I have model friends and people just don’t approach em. I’ve heard people find really attractive people to be intimidating so they just don’t in fear of rejection.

[EarthRealm]

I don’t care If A Girl is Beautiful
It’s just Skin and a Human body
I would Rather Date a Female Wolf than a Nasty Human body.

[BarryLiverstone]

They get eyeballs but approached less often than you would think. Do you get approached or think she gets more attention?

[comrade007]

Not always... Well it all depends on your thinking... If u r genuinely interested in getting into relationship U will recive approach

[Xtendable]

I voted B - sometimes they don’t get approached at all because guys get intimidated

[justaguy520]

not necessarily, if she's too attractive some guys will be intimidated

[serious]

No, that is not always the case.

[Avicenna]

Totally normal at your age

[Smallboobsgotohell]

Yes i talk to them everyday to score

[Wise4myage]

Yes, that's very common.

[JohnK123]

Ya I would say it’s common

[Luckycharms12]

Maybe online but not in person

[Grubhub]

Exactly. People who say the opposite don’t know that it only happens sometimes. Dudes are scared of attractive women and when they do get approached it’s not by average men