Do attractive girls just get approached all the time?

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There’s a girl who’s in my class and it seems like A lot of guys would stares at her or try to get her attention so is that common if you’re attractive? Do these people get approached all the time and stuff?

MysticAngel5000 · Accepted Answer

Not necessarily. I mean yes, they get attention... but that doesn't mean they're going to be approached by men a ton. Some guys are shy. Some guys are really nervous and intimidated by an attractive woman. Some guys are really unsure of how to make a move. Others just simply fear rejection. They think "wow, she's SO beautiful. She'd never be into ME."

Girls are the same way, guys. Even if a girl is really pretty, that doesn't mean SHE believe that. She may be thinking the same thing you are - "he's SO cute/hot! He would never like ME. He probably already has a girlfriend."

We are our own worst enemies and our own biggest critics. Have some confidence and shoot your shot! You never know unless you try! If someone does reject you, cool. It isn't that big of a deal. Just brush it off and keep trying!

Also, be mindful of HOW you go about this. The way you approach someone says a lot. You shouldn't be weird or creepy about it. Be casual and friendly, without seeming pushy. Test things softly and let it build naturally (if it doesn't, no sweat!). Be aware of how to read people's body language to judge if they're comfortable or not. And PLEASE don't approach someone when it clearly isn't appropriate to do so! Examples - don't ambush someone coming out of a bathroom, don't interrupt someone's meal, don't interrupt someone who is on the phone, don't bother someone who is on a laptop or reading, etc. These are people who are busy and not interested in a conversation. If someone has ear buds in, they probably can't even hear you. If someone is on a laptop, they may even be WORKING at the moment! Someone who's on the phone is already having a conversation and doesn't need interrupted by you! If you pounce as soon as you see an attractive person coming out of a bathroom, you'll come off as VERY creepy and weird... as if you were like waiting for them to come out or something (even if you truly weren't).

Good luck everyone! Always remember - you are AWESOME! You got this! Have some faith in yourself and don't be afraid to approach someone!

MoniqueTLC · Accepted Answer

Not necessarily. Attractive women get approached less because they'll come across as more intimidating, with more chance of a guy being rejected. They get more attention but less approach from men because they're deemed as 'high risk'

FilmGuy93 · Accepted Answer

No, actually. Many of the most attractive women I know are almost never asked out. People just assume the answer will be "no," I guess.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

Some do, some don’t, however all get stared at constantly.

Red-Blaze · Answer

Yes and no
I could say I do get approhed many times, but a lot of the time I spot them reverse or stay back
Most times sadly the once that do come by are the idiots that dont know fear or seen some "pick up" videos and think they know what there doing
I will say a lot more stares and fiddling then approches over all, but there is always at least one

Adaeva · Answer

Almost all guys would approach a pretty girl if they thought they had a chance. However, most guys learn by their middle teens that if they approach a pretty girl, they will be rejected and often harshly. Rejection hurts so they don't approach.

GurlMaster40 · Answer

I don’t know entirely. I would say I have seen some really good looking girls get quiet the amount of attention. I would also say that I can get some attention from guys but IMHO not that much compared to some girls I know.

FreyaRed · Answer

Not all the time but guys stare at you like hungry dogs on a ham and sometimes it's difficult to determine their intention.

KoolKita · Answer

I have a friend who is super pretty and she gets a lot of guys asking for her number. But she also has the Entertainer personality type so that might be why as well.

Sarahplus2 · Answer

I don't think they get approached all the time, but a lot. However i think many do not know how to start a conversation with an attractive woman or they feel she may not talk with them so they don't

Kaamraj · Answer

Most men cannot tell you what it feels like as they are invisible to women.

AviatorTom · Answer

I've had attractive single women tell me they wish more guys would ask them out, because the guys think that an attractive woman is out of their league.

InsertNameHerex · Answer

Nah. I have model friends and people just don’t approach em. I’ve heard people find really attractive people to be intimidating so they just don’t in fear of rejection.

EarthRealm · Answer

I don’t care If A Girl is Beautiful  It’s just Skin and a Human body  I would Rather Date a Female Wolf than a Nasty Human body.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

They get eyeballs but approached less often than you would think. Do you get approached or think she gets more attention?

comrade007 · Answer

Not always... Well it all depends on your thinking... If u r genuinely interested in getting into relationship U will recive approach

Xtendable · Answer

I voted B - sometimes they don’t get approached at all because guys get intimidated

justaguy520 · Answer

not necessarily, if she's too attractive some guys will be intimidated

serious · Answer

No, that is not always the case.

Avicenna · Answer

Totally normal at your age

Smallboobsgotohell · Answer

Yes i talk to them everyday to score

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, that's very common.

JohnK123 · Answer

Ya I would say it’s common

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Maybe online but not in person

strateguy632 · Answer

yess

Anonymous · Answer

yeah they do

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