I don't think there is anything wrong with you, but I think you are completely disgusted with relationships and with dating. You've basically become apathetic to it all, and I think that is very wrong. Relationships are a beautiful thing if they are real. Perhaps, you just haven't found someone that really peaks your interest! I, not to be conceded, have been told I am a very beautiful girl. However, I also am very very shy when it comes to guys showing interest in me, and it happens so often that I sometimes become bored with it...to the point were I simply don't care and keep on walking...is that your problem? When I say that you perhaps haven't found the person that really gets you I really mean it. For example, 3 years ago I was at a friend's party and as usual guys were looking at me, trying to get my attention. I just ignored them and kept on walking. I walked into the kitchen and right as I was doing that I saw the most beautiful man I have ever seen walking in from the garage. I looked at him, he looked at me, and his eyes literally sparkled with excitement. I could not simply ignore him, and he could not ignore me. He came to me and right away started making conversation. We connected so fully and so amazingly that we have been inseparable since. Three years have passed and we are now happily engaged! Yay!
haha. yeah I plead the 5th. I just get a bit coyish whenever a guy gives me the "elevator stare" especially when he's damn hot! but that hardly comes around. so I just smile back ;)
Guys are naturally the chasers of the opposite sex and therefore will make it obvious when they find a girl attractive. Girls want to be chased so will often come across doing other things but will give out signals to the guys they like to approach them.
If you are not interested in guys and don't want a guy to bother you at all, then ignoring him completely is probably right for you. However if you wouldn't mind a guy in your life, by ignoring a guy you like will give him the wrong signals that you are just not interested and will then move onto another girl. If you ignore guys it is then down to you and no one else if you cannot get a boyfriend.
So its up to you if you wanna change and be a bit more warmer to guys. Ignoring them is not the best solution in the long run.
I only get girls checking out my eyes, but when I make contact with their eyes, it sometimes feels like a mistake because I sometimes won't be interested.
If I am interested though, I'll just give off a smirk or smile, because I don't think that I'd be able to spark up a steady and random conversation with someone that I just saw on the streets. Sometimes I wish that I could think of something to say to spark up a random conversation with a girl that I just saw once but never do.. When I'm not interested I'll just look towards another direction, so my face won't be towards the girl.
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Some girls are not logical about 'checking out': they do their best to wear the clothes they look best in, to wear a bra which pushes a bit up, gives cleavage, pants that are close fitting, they put on make up, all to look better, to be real sweet 'eye candy'' and when they're looked at some girls find it annoying, gross etc.
One would think those girls go through all those efforts only to make other girls jealous or envious.
The English poet John Keats wrote:
Endymion
Book 1
A thing of beauty is a joy for ever:
Its loveliness increases; it will never
Pass into nothingness; but still will keep
A bower quiet for us, and a sleep
Full of sweet dreams, and health, and quiet breathing.
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Stop playing games. Guys are wired that way in their heads. If you don't want them to look, why do you wear what you wear?
Guys are just looking for a good time with a girl... and no I don't mean just sleeping with them.
They DON'T want drama and they don't want game playing. If a guy checks you out... you should be flattered.
Life is too short to play these childish games... geeezzz and women call men "juvenile!"
Joe
I think there is
Not to come off messed up but girls and guys do this alike but more girls I believe. Why can't we just be real with each other. I think it's a game to see how hot you are or something because my friend doess this and the guys that comes up to her are really cool. All that I can say is that doing this you could miss out on a really great person and find a total jerk or guys we could end up with some evil girl.
well I thnk that's cool and it boosts confidence if they think I'm hot. now the whole point of the short clothes I bet you wear is to turn guys on and make them look so don't ignore them and get mad cause it would be ur fault for that. you remember that now
Sometimes we make it obvious so that way you know that we're checking you out and to see if you reciprocate.
i think I make ti obvious some times to show the girl I think she pretty
I don't understand why you do that.
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