When a girl says yes but backs out?

[Anonymous]

I asked this girl for coffee and she agreed . However on the day of our date when I called her asking what time we should meet , she said she had to go work and could'nt make it . So a few days later I called her and again set up a date and again on the day of the date she said she had to go work and could'nt make it .

Girls , my question is would you ever say yes to a guy when you actually are not interested ? Would you say it to just not make him feel bad and instead make up some excuse and back out later ?

[MrFlirtatious1992]

She's flaking on you. She's just stringing you along. Forget this girl, she's just using work as an excuse because she doesn't want to see you. Girls rarely every tell someone they don't like them so they back out of dates hoping you get the message and leave them alone.

She may actually have work but if it happened twice in a row, that's bullsh*t, cut your losses and move one from her, she's not worth it.

[MrFlirtatious1992]

I mean if she actually did like you, she would at least try to reschedule. Think about it.

[MrNameless]

You tried twice. Whether something legit came up or not.. . Honestly, I wouldn't bother asking her again.If she was interested, she'd try talk t you, and make plans.. Otherwise, you'll know for sure

[Anonymous]

I actually did say yes to coffee with a guy then cancelled at the last minute because something really did come up; then we rescheduled and he had to cancel because something came up. By the time we finally were able to meet up, I was nervous as heck. It all worked out, though it took us a couple of months to get our acts together. Some people are just busy. Appreciate the moment.