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Wow, the way you put it, you make yourself sound like the elephant man. Maybe it has something to do with the way you perceive yourself. If you come off as not confident, then people will see you differently. MAybe you should try going out with a blind chick?
People would actually tell you you're ugly? That's really...plain awful. I'm sure you aren't that bad. Are you expecting sex on the first date? Because that's a bit of a "no no" haha. Play it cool, yet show a little feisty-ness! Some girls don't like to be treated like a "delicate flower"...when you're out with a girl whisper in her ear, or kiss her on the neck. Nothing X-rated...but it'll send chills down her spine. Be charming...not creep-y or sleazy. You've got the funny thing going on so that's ALWAYS a plus...but show you're serious too...try not to be a "Chandler" (Friends). Good Luck!
I never can get that close to a girl. They usually walk away from me or side step me. Girls won't talk to me in person if they can't help it and if they do talk to me it's always negative.
Well you can always just change your look so it compliments your "ugly" features :-/ maybe you look better with long hair or maybe the colors or style of clothes you wear don't compliment the way you look.
Nobody is truly ugly, it just depends on how you present yourself. And it depends on the girl [I know it's cheesy and you've heard it enough, but it's true].
Good luck :-) Natalie
Get romantic
I have lots of guy friends that are not amazing looking
personality is key. Don't be over-romantic ..They'll think your desperate.
give them hugs,
make them feel special,
sweet-talk (not too much though, that won't help)
iunno dress nice
OHHH and workout .. I think one of the most important
not too bulky though
good luck ..Don't put yourself down.
i think the girls who you are going for are terrible and should not be treating you that way...first off have confidence...i know its hard but girls love confidence...second off don't force anything...just be patient and I know the right girl will come...this girls need to be put in there places...i will freakin do it.you sound like such a nice guy.please don't put up with it...my boyfriend got treated like crap by his ex and he treats me like a princess.and he says I treat him like he could never would believe he would have...trust me when you are not looking you will find that person.i am sure you rather be single than be in a crappy relationship that makes your self esstem low...just try and work on your confidence
Oh I'm so sorry. but any girls that would spit in your face and spray you with mace is a b****. You just need to meet the right girl, because a lot of girls don't care about looks as much as personality. If a girl makes fun of you, she doesn't deserve you
Just be confident. Don't act like an asshole but act like you're mr. important. I've seen plenty of ugly mofos with some hot girls and vice versa. I'm still trying and waiting myself. I've had a ton of hot girls try and talk to me..but they're usually all crazy...then the really nice ones are usually not very attractive..at all. You'll find one. Just keep trying. Get out even more!
Well if your ugly, try hiding it behind hair and a beard... if that's what's wrong with you then maybe you should get plastic surgery if you think its THAT BAD.
honestly, people really shouldn't care about looks. also, don't be too much of a nice guy.
By not giving up...Girls are bitches...I'm one...I kept my standards high...Went for a good looking guy...Now I get my heart broken at least 5 times a week, yea for me. Just keep trying your lady is out there and when you find her maybe shell need you to save her from her jerk of a boyfriend
Be more selective when picking out girls...don't go for the first girl who is giggly and flirts with you. Go with the girl who's quite friendly but doesn't exactly flirt. She's the one who won't cheat on you.
first of all you need new friends .secondly your to nice girls like there men alittle mean and tough someone who is confident all you have to do is be comforable with your self know that you could get any girl you want .Dnt ask girls that you are interestd these questions because I'm gonna be honest its not that attrative its telling them your desprate and you dnt want that !) hope I helpd good luck!
I completely forgot about this question I asked. That was almost 2 years ago when I asked this.
Since then I moved to another town, I have all new friends. I still don't have a girlfriends. Women really don't like to be around me because of my looks. It's something I've for the most part grown used to.
I don't like the abuse I receive from women anyway.
The old saying there's someone for everyone is a lie. I'm better off alone.
I have been searching for someone to be in life and love with for years... I have vitiligo on my face that started several years ago and I can tell you, looks do matter.
I am a the proverbial nice guy, easy going and fun loving. Keep clean living habits and enjoy the simple things. But, none of that seems to make one bit of difference, $$$$ and looks seem to be what is wanted. The emptiness inside of me is something else.
The thought of being alone the rest of my life is hurts.
DaveC10
Look I'am young and I have become depressed and lost most of my confidence due to one word feelings I have gone out with girls but they only went out with me because they felt bad then I became very depressed and went to a phsyiatrical institution because of depression all I want is a girlfriend that loves me and also loves fun I know if I can get a girlfriend I will regain confidence but if I can't then I guess 🔪🔫 will be my choice please help 😢😢
Well what I think is that girls sometimes (not always) cares about what the guy looks like and me for example I been liking this soft more in my HS who is older than me cause I'm a freshman but I don't give up if the reject u then learn from it mistake maybe ur asking her too fast slow down and talk to her get to know her that's what I think
Oh you aren't alone I totally understand what you mean in a way, I don't have a bad face, nice hair, clean, super nice BUT I have weight issues and I get told I'm nice, funny, a good friend but never the dated always the talk to when upset or want to play video games and chill. :P but such is life I'm sure you'll find her some day.. maybe try expanding or trying out new interests to meet new girls?
life is how y'all want to see it people trust me boys and girls we all got 1000s of people that like us and for the mens part how would you know if a girl likes you if you dont go and talk to them? and it dont matter if everytime your with someone else and girls look at them more and all that just be you and feel good about yourself and never feel less then your friends cause trust me every humanity have different tastes on liking others and thats why there are no ugly people in this world
Stop hanging out or talking with those women who make up this "they say" and then you'll see she (Ms. Right) is probably no further than five feet from you.
I don't get why your in such a rush like hold up dude. Seriously, you want someone to appreciate you for who you are..you want someone that really cares for you and doesn't care about looks and stupid stuff like that. I mean, I'm pretty sure your not the only guy out there that's hasn't had a girl..theres MORE people out there-trust me its a fact. Also, here is a big NO-NO..never tell a girl why your not being able to get a girl...whats wrong with you (looks+personality)wise because that just shows that your not confident..just wait it out and I'm sure it'll happen..who knows the girl is probably near you but you just can't seem to see her..look out of the box..and what do you mean by where are the lower class girls? I hope you don't judge girls on looks knowing that you can't get any..im not trying to be rude but its something you should ask yourself..anyways just wait and see what happens and be confident yo! goodluck=)
I wish things were like that.
But like not too long ago when I tried to help a woman that dropped something at the store one time. She sprayed me with mace. Caught me off guard, I ran to the bathroom never got the chance to ask her why, and today I had a girl tell me that I was not good looking enough to be nice to her. It's hard to be positive.
I have girls spit in my face and teen aged girls scoff at me all the time. I think you are telling the wrong person to stop being judgmental.
Well then maybe you should just let things go for a while..and don't care what other people think or say to you..you should be happy with yourself because that's what matters the most. Also, I'm sorry I wasnt trying to tell you to stop being judgemental..i was just stating a view from a different perspective. Screw all them haters, its your life and you don't live to please them. Maybe your hanging out with the wrong people..go look out of the box.
I don't mean to be so negative but after so many years of dealing with this behavior from women I've become very frustrated.
I did not care for the past 10 years, but as I get older it seems I'm getting more lonely and as women aren't changing the way they act I'm increasingly getting more frustrated with my situation.
I get what your saying..but women shouldnt need to change you. You should know how you act around women and stuff, be comfortable w/yourself. The best thing to do right now..would be to get your mind off of these things and go workout or play sports do anything that pleases you. Participate in one of your hobbies or read a book- get your mind off of these things. Your thinking too much..just let it come to you-theres no need for you to "search" for your dream woman she'll find you. ya dig?
I got sick of waiting. I tried since I was 13 and that was 15 years ago to wait for the right one to come along. A girl told me that I have to get out there and talk to women because they won't come up to me. I'm just sick of being treated like crap by females. I'd like to be treated with respect.
I think you need to find a girl who will like you for you.
I mean I know everyone says that but it is true
Obvioisly those girls are mean and shallow and you need to find better. I mean its not ur fault that that happened with the accident...but you need to go out there and not settle for anything less of perfect for you
you shouldn't listen to anyone who tells you you're ugly. Regardless of what damage the accident done.
the only thing is it says " you pay for everything" although as a woman its nice to be treated, its also nice to treat other people
your personality may well be your best feature if so milk it for all its worth
hope it goes well for you