I have a similar situation going on with a professional associate. We met, flirt a bit but nothing has happenned other than an occasional lunch. I've decided to just call him and put it out there and see what happens. Either he'll feel the same way and step his game up or he'll just reject me (hopefully not). Either way, its been about a year of this cat and mouse game and I can't take it anymore. I need us to either hook up or stop flirting so I can let go of these weird feelings I have. In your case, I think you just have to work to try not to be insecure and show some really strong queues that your interested. Hopefully he'll pick up your queues and things will move forward from there.
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I'm in the exact same situation with a guy at work. Except I'm shy too so I haven't told him I like him. There's always an awkwardness when we are around each other too cause it's like we both know what's going on but neither wants to come out and say it. I have no idea. I think maybe it's a defense mechanism to keep from getting hurt in case there's a possibility he really doesn't feel the same way or he won't ever cross that line between friendly coworker and more than that.
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