Why am I so hot and cold with my crush? One day I’m super flirtatious and then the next I’m so shy?

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on a dude. pretty sure he is attracted to me too. I’m so frustrated with myself.. he’s a little nerdy and inexperienced with girls so I want to give a little more push to show my interest. One day I’ll be really confident and flirty. Like yesterday I gave a ton of signs to him and I was very friendly. Then today I was so excited to see him, but I for some reason was more tongue tied and I came off as stand -of fish and cold and now I feel bad :( yesterday I wasn’t afraid to meet his eyes constantly and now today when I walked by him I looked at the floor. What the heck is up? Why do I do this?

[chris4fun]

Try to see if the feelings come from before you even hang out with him. Maybe the days you feel shy are days you don't feel the best either you don't feel like your looks are where they should be like your not matching or maybe you just don't feel that great that day. I would try to relate this with some days people feel more motivated to work out or exercise then other days. Not sure its the same but maybe it will help a little. Try making sure you have great mornings and feel wonderful before you see him and see if it helps how you act around him.

[vivibutterfly]

I have this problem... I don’t know how to flirt... or make eye contact. And I come off very stand of fish and I’m not at all...

[chris4fun]

Don't worry maybe you just haven't found the right guy. Men should have to work for your attention. Flirting should come naturally. Maybe you just don't know you do it or maybe you don't know anybody worthy

[vivibutterfly]

Thanks 😊.. that made me feel better

[asshole_]

You get bored easily