If a girl touches your chest and back........?

[Anonymous]

So this girl that I've been crushing on has recently broken the touch barrier. She was caressing my chest and back the other day and I am wondering what to do?

If you are attracted to someone, do you sometimes become unaware of what you are doing? Like is she touching me and not realizing that she's doing it? The reason I ask is because she has a boyfriend. she's very conservative and not the type to flirt with guys.

[Electric_Boogaloo]

I'd ask her does she know what's she doing. She might be just playing around. But under any circumstances don't do it back, she could be messing with you. Comfirm what's she doing then take it from there.

Are you friends with her Boyfriend, does he treat her bad?

[Asker]

i do not know her boyfriend. They have been together for about 5 years. I don't know anything about her relationship as she never talks about it and we've known each other for close to 2 years now. She has always been sort of flirty with me, but this is the 1st time she she touch my chest/back. She usually just touch my arms and shoulders.

[Anonymous]

Probably likes you. why would she need to touch your chest otherwise..it probably was intentional unless she is totally oblivious...

[Asker]

Shes a smart girl with a good heart. Can being sexually attracted to someone make you do things you can't control?

[Opinion Owner]

if you're talking about animal lust its hard to control but she probably put her hand there for a reason whether she knows she did it intentionally or not. you should see how she acts around you and if its any different but don't be weird about it and watch her like a hawlk act normal and see if she does the same. she might like you thouhg.

[Electric_Boogaloo]

Yes it can. But you should always remember that you're accountable for it.

[Asker]

Well around me she acts girlie and sort of helpless, she looks to me to lead. Around her other guy friends(probably even her bf) she is very headstrong, aggressive, and takes the lead.

[Opinion Owner]

she might like you. would maybe ask but don't open a door if you can't handle it.