I've been seeing a girl for a few months, but she continues to reschedule our dates. It doesn't matter when we agree to set it up for, or when we decide to do it. A week ahead, a few days, or even earlier that same day she will cancel and ask if we can do it later. She does provide a later time to meet which we do end up doing, but the initial plans are frequently being cancelled!
The biggest issue is that I get a heads up on this change at the last minute. Sometimes right as I'm about to meet her. It results in my night being shot, other plans falling through, and ultimately me having to waste a later night making up for the first date. She doesn't go to school and her work schedule is light and constant; there's really no room for surprises as frequently as they have been occurring.
Is she actually interested in this relationship? Is she playing a game to keep me strung along, or testing my interest? We do have excellent chemistry when we meet, and she always wants to stay out later, but that meeting is getting more and more difficult to keep together! I feel like my time is being disrespected and am beginning to lose patience.
The biggest issue is that I get a heads up on this change at the last minute. Sometimes right as I'm about to meet her. It results in my night being shot, other plans falling through, and ultimately me having to waste a later night making up for the first date. She doesn't go to school and her work schedule is light and constant; there's really no room for surprises as frequently as they have been occurring.
Is she actually interested in this relationship? Is she playing a game to keep me strung along, or testing my interest? We do have excellent chemistry when we meet, and she always wants to stay out later, but that meeting is getting more and more difficult to keep together! I feel like my time is being disrespected and am beginning to lose patience.
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