What type of girls are hardest to approach?

[MissNobody]

-Shy and attractive

-Outgoing and attractive

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[markml]

It kind of depends.

A shy girl who is closed off and avoiding contact with people can be very difficult to approach, and there's a lot more effort that goes into figuring out the right way to approach them. But on the positive side, at least you know when you've got their attention. And you know that once you've got their attention, you can actually keep it for a while.

With an outgoing girl, it may seem like you have their attention at first, and then they forget who you are. So you never really know if they notice you or not. You don't know if the only reason they're not ignoring you is to be polite. And you don't know if when they do ignore you, if it's intentional or not. Ultimately, outgoing girls can be just as closed off as shy girls.

Best case scenario is an outgoing girl who is equally self-aware and has a high attention-span, or a shy girl who makes an effort to be friendly.

[Anonymous]

They're the same to approach. But the shy ones are the hardest to get anything out of.

Do you want to get some thing to drink?

*whisper* I don't mind

What?

*whisper* okay

What did you SAY?

*whisper* sorry, I said okay.

Okay luv, whatever. I'm going to talk to that girl over there...

[nadiya]

I'm very outgoing and I get approached about 400% more than my shy friends. I would say we're on par at attractiveness and sometimes they're even a little bit more attractive. Whenever I ask a male friend why this is, he'll say its because I look like I'm fun, able to carry on a conversation, and confident. So that's my two cents.

[ManaX]

I would say the shy and attractive ones, the guys are left to do all of the work.

[Konnour]

Shy ones.

Outgoing girls are very approachable, you can count on that the conversation will flow and everything gonna be smooth and good!

..approaching a shy/conceited/withdrawn girl - even if she's really really interested means going through tedious awkward silences and generally feeling a lot of discomfort and uncertainty, which is so not cool!

[Dylan1989]

imo, the outgoing and attractive ones. the shy ones I can relate to. I am just like them so I know I will have to make most of the effort which is fine by me. but the outgoing and attractive ones, I feel as if I will not measure up in some way and they will be turned off that I'm not as outgoing as them.

[Gawesome]

I like outgoing...much easier to talk to. It's hard to get anything out of the shy ones unless you can get them out of the comfort zone.

[Livestrong58]

Shy and attractive, you're never completely for sure what theyre thinking and you don't want to be rude because they seem so nice

[JonnyBG]

The shy ones, they just seem so uncomfortable with the situation most of the times.

[jay6994]

neither; it's just difficult to keep an ongoing fun conversation when she's shy

[dan123z4]

Girls with bad experiences and feminists

[prettymuscle]

Wifey types only... not hook ups or future FWB

[calialltheway1993]

What do wifey types look like?

[LonelyandInTheDark]

i agree

[toouglytobeloved]

all of them ... they have to approach me

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Attractive girls are hard to approach period :/

[Blackbeard79]

Bitches!

[LonelyandInTheDark]

invisible ones.

[doctorwhofan23]

Outgoing are scary

[asianfreak]

shy ones