Girls lowering their sweater-jumper to cover their ass?

[Anonymous]

I always thought that girls used to do that because they knew, when a guy was walking behind them, that they were looking at her ass in the jeans.

Now, I was walking behind a girl, that did just that - lowered her sweater to cover up her ass, but then we reached a cross street, and I walked to my left and suddenly noticed that she had turned the same way as I did.

And that's when I noticed her giving me the silly signals - the hair toss etc.

I know that adjusting clothing is an approach signals - but I just never thought that when a girl is walking ahead of a guy and lowers her sweater, that that could be an approach signal.

Is my new found understanding correct or am I wrong? Because I'm extremely confused

[HandsomeRaj]

Buddy, women / girls are a lot more complicated than even super computers leave along drab things like us 'men' lol.

Though there are stereotype signals that women send out for like and dislike that are touted and they are right too but only subject to various observations and situations.

There is nothing 'silly' about the hair toss for one. It could have been that she tried to cover up with her jumper cause she was uncomfortable and the hair toss could have been because the hair was getting on her face or some such thing. If there has been any eye contact etc involved then you can talk about signals. Even her constant looking back may sound like she's looking out for you but she may be feeling uncomfortable at being followed.

When chemistry happens both of them usually know it's happening.

Don't be confused, just watch for more stuff and give it more time always before jumping to conclusions.

Good luck.

[Asker]

You make it sound as I know nothing about signals - but I do, been reading about them for a year and observing them for just as long.

However - yes, the signals are silly ...extremely silly. Since no man is born with this knowledge, as we either have to read about it or being told about them; with women the knowledge is trickled down by generations.

However, I'm not going to play the silly games women play. And I guess I'll never get my answer for my question here.

[Anonymous]

There's like dozens of possibilities... Could be her trying to prevent you from staring at her ass, could be her butt insecurity so she pulls it down so it doesn't look big, could be for comfort, could be no reason at all...

Same with the hair toss... What do you do when you approach women because of these "signals," they in fact aren't interested, you say "but you tossed your hair at me!" and they're like "wtf?"

I know you wish there was some way to magically tell what a person is thinking but there's not, and that's life.

[caligirl3]

its very wrong, I pull my shirt down a lot too but that because when I walk the shirt tends to go up and it feels really uncomfortable. And I agree with loulou if you think a guy is hot you don't want to cover up and hide the stuff

[loulou86]

i lower my jumper top because I feel a bit uncomfty when being steared at. if I thowt the guy was cute I wudnt hide my ass from him ha x

[Asker]

jumper top? I get that people are uncomfortable when being stared at - but girls are walking in front of me (and other guys) so they have no way of knowing what we are looking at.

So this is confusing as he##, especially since it's always a 50/50 change that I'm reading the signals correctly (heck, a hair toss could be just that, a simple hair toss).

I wish more girls would just come up to me and speak to me (preferably directly, instead of these silly indirect game)

[loulou86]

jumper or top. we just sense it haha. but if a girl really wanted you she would make sure she got you x