My girlfriend is using an app called "Meet Me"?

[Anonymous]

It's an app on Facebook, And it says stuff like "She Checked out GUY on MeetMe" and stuff, so I confronted her and asked her to delete it, She said she had and she doesn't even use it.. Although there are plenty of applications on her page saying she was using it, and she said "Nope , but I wanna keep my account but I won't go on it" I don't really think she is cheating, But she might be flirting with other guys, Or something, A few days ago she said a lot of guys flirt with her on her Facebook but she ignores it, Sometimes I try to check her phone/iPod and she instantly snatches it away, And I am the jealous type and she knows that. What should I do? Do you think she should delete it?

[samhradh_leannan]

I don't think it's acceptable for her to flirt with other guys online when it's not okay with you. It's something that needs to be agreed upon- and if it is really important to her, maybe she needs to find someone who is okay with that/ you need to find someone who won't do it. It's a tough situation, because it's something she has the right to do, but at the same time you absolutely have the right to feel uncomfortable with it and to ask her to stop.

I think the only option is to either accept it, or break up with her. You can try pointing out that she could always make a new account later if she wanted one again. But ultimately she will do what she wants, and you will have to respond in the way that is appropriate to you.

[PoeticNinja]

You need to get over it and stop being so damn paranoid.

Meet Me is a site where you can make friends as well.

All you need to know is her true intentions for getting on. Does she go out with her friends much? Is she wanting to make new friends?

You shouldn't touch her electronics. Talk about an invade of privacy.

[GJA52189]

I am on Meet Me to meet ninjas who love poetry.

[PoeticNinja]

HAHAHA, get out of here.

[RoxyKAy]

I know people who use meet meet me to make friends. Have you asked her why she uses meet me?

Doesn't look like she wants to quite this app, so either accept it or break up with her.

[Asker]

I did ask her why. Her response was "I don't use it" even though I see the applications notifications constantly.

[RoxyKAy]

sometimes those app notifications can be tricky and put things up without the user doing anything but id she says she's keeping her account it's likely she's using it

[brandonlee12]

to be honest I don't think she should delete, that app doesn't mean she wants go out and meeting other guys. maybe she wants make to new friends, get to know too new people. make connections for jobs or college. I just looked the app up, it doesn't suggest to me its a dating site or to meet the opposite gender for a shag.

all I can say to you is, if you can't trust her? then there is no basis for a relationship. trust is no more powerful than love. if you can't trust her, put yourself out of misery and end the relationship. but don't stay in relationship and be controlling. because she end the relationship with you anyway.

she will just find someone else that can trust her. its up to you. trust her or don't?

[brandonlee12]

trust is more powerful than love.

[Anonymous]

Sounds fishy. Why would she want to (and need to) keep something that "she doesn't use". If someone has to use some app to meet friends its pretty sad and boring. Thus, the reason why I despise social media outlets. People need to get out of the house and talk face to face if they want to make real friends.

[ThatGuyDownTheStreet]

I agree my girl is doing the same exact thing. I trust her, but that sounds wayyyy too fishy. I had a Meet Me, and let me tell you that the guys there were way too horny often asking for nudes, boob pics, and sometimes sex. She was using it before we started dating. Once I saw her using the app and she tilted her phone away from me and turned it off. This app is really almost never used to make friends, let me assure you of that. This guy has a right to know if his significant other is getting flirty with other guys.