Outgoing guys, do you act extra hyper random/childish to draw attention from your crush?

[Lonergirl0506]

Like doing the weirdest/randomest action ever, being loud and standoffish, and then when she stare at you, you become kinda shy or embarrassed or so...

Cause my crush is like always being random and hyper around me, but when he's a bit over, he apologize to me shyly and ran away immediately

[Anonymous]

lol I have the same situation, but the guy I like is my age, he is very outgoing and personable, and he does the most stupid things to get my attention, acting the same way you describe. All in an effort to get your attention, for sure.

[Lonergirl0506]

But he wants our attention because they like us or it's just their nature to behave this way?

[Opinion Owner]

they do it for attention because they like us and want us to notice them.

[Lonergirl0506]

So that's indeed good news? Did yours turn out fine?

[Opinion Owner]

lol well I work with the guy I know, he's been doing it for 3 years, he got the courage to ask me out but fell through with it. But trust me on this one, the guy wants your attention.

[Lonergirl0506]

So he really likes me huh? You sure? Because he's outgoing normally too

[Opinion Owner]

yes, he is doing the same thing this guy does to me, acts immature, does stupid things to get my attention and irritate me,mocks me, etc. YES he likes you

[Lonergirl0506]

What should I do? Because I was acting all cold towards him and won't see till xmas...I RMB he stated at me real seriously before he left but immediately looked away when I caught me, then he left for overseas studying...

[Opinion Owner]

you need to try and be nice to him now, or this will go on forever. I know its hard to do when he acts like that, but trust me he will be so startled when you all of a sudden start acting nice to him. give him some compliments.

[Anonymous]

Outgoing guys probably don't care much about the attention, they'll go for it directly. This sounds like what a shy guy would do, or at least someone who craves attention.

[Lonergirl0506]

But he's outgoing and friendly wif anyone else, he even tease other girls and befriend every guy, it's just me...

[Anonymous]

That is not what outgoing guys do

[Lonergirl0506]

Really? Then what's that happening to me? Can you explain it?

[Opinion Owner]

He likes you and is acting like a little shy boy that wants to impress you

[Lonergirl0506]

Why does he do that? He thinks I'll buy that? Why don't he just act like a man and approach me then?

[Opinion Owner]

Boys can only "act" like men for so long

[Lonergirl0506]

What does that mean?

[Opinion Owner]

Guys your age are immature

[Lonergirl0506]

Then what should I do? Every time he does that I can't help but being unfriendly to him

[Opinion Owner]

Move on and do not allow him in your life at all. Life is too shorts for idiots

[Lonergirl0506]

I don't think he's an idiot, if he is, I'm in love with this idiot;)

[Opinion Owner]

:P "oing the weirdest/randomest action ever, being loud" your words lol...seems like hmmm well you know lol

[Lonergirl0506]

Huh? What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

Nothin

[Lonergirl0506]

U guys are like this, you always say sth and we don't get it but you never explain forward