How often do you think about your crush?

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on this guy and I can't stop thinking about him. I always think about what he's doing and when I am going to be able to see him and talk to him next. Is this normal?

[Quorra89]

For about 2 weeks I was thinking about my crush endlessly. I started to feel legitimately crazy because I don't think it's normal to think about your crush as much as I was. I mean pretty much my every waking minute was consumed of thinking about what it would be like to be together, what he was doing, how great it feels when we're around each other. After about two weeks and realizing I was making myself miserable, I told myself I needed to tone down the crazy. Every time he would pop into my mind, I'd force myself to think about something else. It worked, I still think about him, but not nearly as much as I was. I only think about him here and there in passing. I feel like I have a life again. So yes, it's totally normal to think about your crush a lot. But if it's getting to a point where you don't think about anything else or you're starting to make yourself unhappy, force yourself to think about other things.

[Asker]

Thats how I feel right now. It feels like I'm losing it.

[Anonymous]

I'm the same way. I can't stop thinking about him and keep hoping that I see him soon even though I know it will be a while until I see him, if I'm lucky. I'm tired of thinking about him. I'm trying to do my homework but I can't focus. :( I don't know if its normal but I don't like it.

[shenholds09]

lol I guess it may be normal I guess I don't call it a crush anymore I keep getting feelings and thoughts back for guys that I didn't do anything about it when I had them. I guess I just didn't realize what I had now we just don't talk. But, yeah I guess its OK to think about them a lot

[Michaelmwm19]

what do you mean you dident realize what you had? you look back and see it as something more?

[shenholds09]

sadly, I always seem to blind side I went on so many dates with one guy but then we quit talking and then I got feelings for him after we stopped talking because I didn't realize I thought more of him, I dumb when it comes to dating.

[Clock]

Men think about sex every 7 seconds.

You get the point.

[Asker]

I think about that too, usually at night. I feel like I'm going crazy constantly thinking about him.

[Anonymous]

I think of them like a minute a day.