Do guys think about their crush as much as girls do?

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I know it depends on the person, but I think most of the girls think about their crush the moment she wakes up until she falls asleep... And it often is very disturbing when you need to concentrate on your work.

But I feel like guys are able to control their feelings better, and are able to concentrate on their work and put aside their feeling for his crush for the moment. It seems like it doesn't interfere with what they have to do..

or are they faking that they are concentrated on their work but are actually obsessing about his crush?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sometimes I have a hard time controlling my feelings but I always try to do what's best in the situation. For example, During the subsequent lightsaber duel between Luke Skywalker and Darth Vader, Luke succumbs to his anger and brutally overpowers Vader, but controls himself at the last minute; realizing that he is about to suffer his father's fate, he spares Vader's life and proudly declares his allegiance to the Jedi. An enraged Palpatine who was the boss then attempts to kill Luke with Force lightning, a sight that moves Vader to turn and kill his master, suffering mortal wounds in the process. Redeemed, Vader or Anakin Skywalker (real name) dies in his son's arms. Luke becomes a full-fledged Jedi, and the Rebels destroy the second Death Star. Now what would have happened if Luke didn't control his feelings and killed Darth Vader as a result? Bad times then.

AnthonyT450 · Accepted Answer

She's the only thing i think about but she doesn't like me and i die inside so yes. But i personally dont talk about to anyone like some girls do and I act like im doing things when im actually thinking about her. But then you think about how she doesn't like you and you die inside.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I tink it varies from person to person.I do not think all girls sit there and think about their crush ALL day.Some girls actually live their life and do other things rather than think about a dude all day everyday.The same thing goes for guys.Some guys think about a girl on the regular,others don't.You have formaulated an unfounded opinion based on what society tells you men and women do.But in actuality,everyone is different,and it varies from person to person.People can only express what THEY do,not what an entire gender does.An opinion is not always true.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

From what I've gathered from my friendships with men, ABSOLUTELY! Haha!

Most that I've known were just as nervous about it, they over think everything like most women do, they look for signs, think about them, think about what would happen if this or that happened, etc.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think about him for 40% of the day and we're not even dating. My life revolves around him.

martyfellow · Answer

Guys are taught not to be emotional, so they tend not to admit they're thinking about their crush, but actually, they think about them more.  guys tend to fantasize more about sex, I think.

Anonymous · Answer

No. I definitely think about my crush from the moment I wake up to the moment I fall asleep. I genuinely like her but it's like borderline obsession cause I save every text she sends me and doodle her name on the sides of my papers.

lavalamp87 · Answer

its not like men are this way and women are that way.. its just gonna vary from one individual to the next. some guys think all day and others barely do..

supermetsk31 · Answer

I think about my crush 24/7! The first/last thing I think about everyday!

JerryDandridge · Answer

Depends on the guy but deep down most are thinking non stop i think.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes they do. It's more acceptable for girls to express their crushes.

frustratedchump06 · Answer

I know I think about them a lot

realistic · Answer

as simply as I am going to put it, "yes"

SaltandVinegar · Answer

I think about her a lot. It can be distracting

Anonymous · Answer

It's not THAT bad. But it's still pretty intense.

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