Last year, we were fighting a lot around the time of my birthday and he ignored it, no call, no text, no email, no card. We finally spoke again a week and a half later and he apologized, said he felt horrible for ignoring it. Still never did anything, just said happy belated birthday.
This year. We haven't been fighting or anything, things have been okay. A month before my birthday, he asks me what day it was again, to remind him. I keep mentioning it over time, talking about plans. So he definitely knew it was coming. We were texting like normal all the way through the day before my birthday and then my birthday hits. I get no text, no call, no email, no card, nothing. Again. I haven't heard from him since the day before my birthday (8 days ago).
Why would he do that again after what happened last year? I made it obvious that his ignoring it last year really hurt me.
Am I stupid for being hurt?
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