I think you need to tell him that it isn't his definition of 'flirt' that matters, it's yours if he wants to stay in a relationship with you. According to you, what he is doing is making you uncomfortable. Any guy who truly cares about a girl, wouldn't overstep those boundaries or make you feel bad about them. Explain to him that this is how you feel, and that you love him, but if he continues to make you feel uncomfortable and not care about how this emotionally effects you, things are not going to get any better. Explain that you don't like arguing, but you can't help what makes you feel this way, and he needs to learn to respect that. But also be understanding on his part, because I think girl's are personally more reliable study partners. Make sure to acknowledge the fact that you don't think he is cheating, but that you are worried that he is putting himself in a position where that could potentially happen, and it bothers you.
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Unless he's studying anatomy, then no, I wouldn't be too worried.
I know, I know, they'll be alone together for hours on end. He's naturally flirtatious. What if a girl falls for him? What if he "slips" and starts making out with her? ALL the romantic Hollywood mush starts rattling around in your head and cause you heartache.
Bottom line is that you either trust him or you don't. If you don't, you walk away from him. If you do, then stop reading the responses to this thing, turn off the computer and go enjoy the day.
In fact, either way, just turn off the computer and get outside. You're young and the world is your oyster. Tag a guy and ask him to hang out with you. Make sure your guy knows you're going to hang out with a guy friend. See how much he likes it.
Yes,fighting over the same thing expecting a different reaction from him will only make him run. Youve said your peace. Maybe find yourself a guy study buddy and see if it fazes him. If it does maybe he will have a better understanding of how you feel.
So he was the flirty type when you met him? Would you even have got together with him if he hadn't been that way? Sounds like you're trying to change him, IMO. Trying to change your partner is unfair and a waste of time IMO.
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If you have been together for 2 years then you have to learn to trust him.
Just trust him.
If you can't, find another guy.Case in point of why I don't date.
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