My boyfriend told me I got him whipped and sprung. Should I be concerned about this?

[Anonymous]

You think maybe he means I spoil too much. I admit, I do spoil him a lot. I fix his bath water and bathe him myself, cook his meals, iron his clothes, wash his hair, massage him every night, give him sex any time of day, and take care of him when he is sick. We never argue about anything, because we talk things out. Should I stop doing these things for him?

[Littletad]

As long as he's doing his part of the relationship, then there is nothing to worry about. It sounds like a healthy/happy relationship. The only real concern here is, do you by any chance happen to have a sister? Haha, kidding of course. But it sounds like a great relationship, naturally both the guy or girl become whipped sooner or later. It's just the outside forces that tell you it's a bad thing, don't listen to them.

[Pete-67]

It's not normal the amount of things you do for him. But if it works for you two, then why fix what ain't broke? Was he complaining or complimenting when he said that? Just make sure you aren't losing your sense of self by doing all that.