What to do when you rarely see the girl you like?

[Anonymous]

Hey all, I am a freshman University student but I also work part-time in a shop. There is a girl who also works there who I have a massive crush on. She also shows all the extremely positive signs of liking me and we get on like a house on fire. The problem is I only work with her once a month IF I AM LUCKY due to separate shifts. It's been almost a month now since I last saw her and I am really starting to miss her.

I really wish I had just asked her for a number, I guess you could say I have a little bit of social anxiety. I don't have her on fb, I want to add her (even though I rarely use fb myself) and talk to her but from a girls point of view wouldn't that seem really weird now that we haven't seen each other for so long?

I am also really worried that by now that she has started crushing/heavily flirting with the other attractive male co-workers so it makes me sad thinking about this.

I know this all seems really childish but the reason I am asking is because a similar situation has happened to me before where I didn't see a girl for ages, then when I next saw her confessed my love to her - only to have it directly thrown back in my face...but I am 100% sure that when I last saw this current crush she liked me more than this other girl ever did.

Advice please? I am shy :L

Thanks

[Anonymous]

You should add her on Facebook and no its not weird cos everyone add anyone on Facebook. Can you find more shift around her? Like maybe swap shift with someone else? I did that many times before just to work with my crush.

[Asker]

ok thanks I sent her a friend request, I don't think it's really possible to switch shifts unless I think of a really good excuse

[Anonymous]

best thing is to get her number

[Romanadvoratrelundar]

And maybe be creative about it: say you would like her number in case you want to change shifts or something... now I realize you said your shifts are quite different but it might work: things come up after all.

[Opinion Owner]

exactly :)

[Asker]

I will try and ask her when I next see her thanks

[Anonymous]

make her make time for you

[Anonymous]

Facebook her

[Asker]

I want to but I am scared, wouldn't you find it weird if someone you hadn't seen for ages sent you a request out of the blue?