Will a shirtless selfie be known as flirtatious?

[Anonymous]

Guys do you send shirtless selfies to impress girls? Even if they don't ask?

[candlewax]

Yes.

They're also huge douchebags. It's the equivalent of those silly girls who pose in pictures with massive amounts of cleavage and then are shocked when people make comments about it.

It's nothing but a way to get attention, as well as getting YOUR attention.

It's also the wrong way to get someone's attention. It kind of tells you what kind of person they are that they think winning someone over involves some sort of display of nudity to get you to like them.

Flirting? Maybe. But I'd head the other way if some guy did that to try to impress me. Just tells me that there's a lot of issues going on and I don't need no drama llama in my life from some insecure dude.

[justbanANNAz]

i would say a shirtless selfie of a guy is a form of flirting but its more subtle than if one of us was to do it, simply because we're the more sexualised ones.
some girls dont like it, i know quite a few like that, some will probably start getting horny over it lol, it really depends on the girl and her interpretation of it.
it also depends on what the guy is doing. the one that is the least subtle is when a guy is pulling up his shirt with his teeth

[justbanANNAz]

its not really shirtless but he's hinting that he's in the process of getting shirtless lol:P

[Asker]

What if it's a selfie just laying down kind of like a close up

[Asker]

And what if they don't ask back for one.

[justbanANNAz]

if its got his face in it and he's kinda smiling or whatever i think its just chill, a lot of em just chill like that haha. but if he's doing some sort of pose or got that whole serious face going, then u know he's trying to lure u in :P

[Asker]

foros.esmas.com/archive/index.php/t-53984.html if it's something like this but a selfie

[Asker]

www.runningoffthereeses.com/.../
See if u can see

[Asker]

Like the one he's laying with the sheets on him bending his arm in a way it looks like that one but it's a selfie and he's doing that with his arm

[justbanANNAz]

omg william levy…. im so distracted lol
ok ok… the first link didn't actually work… can u try find an image from google?
see its so hard to say because his facial expression just screams sexiness lol, but imma take a guess and say the guy is trying to subtly flirt with u…

[Asker]

www.runningoffthereeses.com/.../...evy_409x611.jpg here's a better one

[Asker]

K it's like that one hopefully u can see it and he's just smiling kinda how he is but it's a selfie but not all the way like William cause it's a selfie lol

[justbanANNAz]

ahhh ok i see what we're dealing with here, yep i get u.
yep… subtle flirting for sure! ;)

[Asker]

It is? Ok cause I though he wasn't flirting cause we just have a Normal conversation after he send it and at the end I said ttyl he. Said hmu when ever ya want so I don't know if that's bad? I did a lot of the talking and I did ask for a pic but didn't knew it was going to be like this and to me it looks like he's posing kinda like in this link

[justbanANNAz]

yeh thats y its subtle. they only use the pic to make a tiny hint, then continue speaking as if to hide it up kinda thing:P na its not bad, some guys just use that as their 'talk' lol, ya know to sound fly n shizzz :P
yeh if he a poser then its a hinted signal:]

[Asker]

U think he could be intrested or no? Cause I did ask for his # only way to contact Hm. Guys send these to girls they consider friends? Or nope?

[Asker]

This other guy was flirting with me a lot I turned him down because I thought he didn't care for me or was like that with everyone else but he send me a pic with a shirt on a selfie and yet he asked for one of me but this guy didn't so I don't know

[justbanANNAz]

i think so, or maybe he's showing off, thats another possibility. the way to know if a guy is interested is really if u wait for him to ask.. in the future, let a guy make some effort… it will show u that he really cares.
as for the other guy, he's a player, just being an idiot and fooling around.

[Asker]

Wait who's the idiot

[Asker]

The guy with the William levy pic lol is an idiot or the other guy that's flirting is the idiot

[justbanANNAz]

noo william levy is never an idiot my dear:P HAHA
sorry i might have gotten a little lost… u said this 'other guy' r u talking bout the same guy or r there 2 lol?

[Asker]

2 diffrent ones lol

[Asker]

And i know wL isn't an idiot

[Asker]

Yea the guy that send me the pic he's and idiot? Is that what ur saying?

[justbanANNAz]

lol ok..
the one whose asking u for pics. he's clearly more interested in ur body than personality. the guy who hasn't asked u for a pic yet, could b interested in u physically but he still respects u and wants to get to u know u before asking for pics i think

[Asker]

Ok ok then yea did told the guy that asked me for pics that I didn't had feelings for him I felt bad in a way but he had has a baby and I didn't want to even have drama with the kids mom or with him. And I did feel terrible about it because he blocked me and stopped talking to me. After I told him how I felt and yea he wanted to hang out with me since he started taking but he lives far so I jokingly said come see me and he wouldn't so then that made me think he didn't care but now I don't know maybe he did care cause he stopped talking to me after I said that I didn't had feelings for him. And with the other guy i have feelings for but the thing is I don't know if he has feelings for me and I got all confused since we stated txting all of a sudden and then i did ask for. A pic and he send me that one. So I don't know if he could be intrested or just wants to be friends and I don't know

[Asker]

Did u get it

[justbanANNAz]

yes just read it now, i see. but dont let sympathy control ur emotions, thats a trap sometimes. i understand where ur coming from tho. it'll all become clear with time, dont worry, it always does. thanks for ba =]

[Asker]

Just read the other comment what's a hinted signal? And what do you mean by poser?

[justbanANNAz]

hinted signal: ways someone tries to get u to figure out they like u
poser: someone who purposefully poses with some intention of delivering a message across

[Asker]

So u think these a chance he could like me if he send me the pic?

[justbanANNAz]

possibly=]

[Dazzledxx]

even if its not asked, it's sexy and a pleasant surprise, esp if the guy is sexy ;)

[Asker]

How do you resond to that do guys send it to girls they consider friends?

[Dazzledxx]

Friends? Well it would be a little awkward if a guy friend sent me a shirtless pic, altho i wouldn't mind. It honestly depends on the girl, some girls would find it way weird and some won't mind. Take it easy tho, most likely she will just laugh it off.

[Asker]

Cause this guy send one but I don't know he didn't ask for one back and I don't know if he considers me a friend

[Dazzledxx]

Take an impressive shirtless pic and send it back. Problem solved!

[Asker]

I'm not the kind to do that

[lkjhg69cum]

What about nice pics, not just shirtless, do you feel the same way about those dazzledxx?

[Asker]

Never had those

[Dazzledxx]

nice pics as well. I personally love it when a guy sends a pic of himself to me (even if its not shirtless). Even if its a selfie or a nice pic in general, i think it's cute ;)

[lkjhg69cum]

Sorry, autocorrect, Lol. I meant nude pics.

[Dazzledxx]

that totally depends on the guy. this guy who's in love with me (who i unfortunately do not feel the same for) once sent me a nude pic, and I found it kind of repulsive due to the fat that i was not attracted to him at all. However, if I'm attracted to the guy, now thas a WHOLE different story. I would find that attractive n sexy as hell ;)

[Dazzledxx]

due to the **fact that i was not attracted to him

[Asker]

So you think guys send those to people they might be intrested in

[Dazzledxx]

either that or they just like flaunting their assets lol :)

[lkjhg69cum]

Sure we send nude pics to women we are attracted to. Many of us do "like to flaunt our assets" I have no problem sending nude pics of myself to women at all. If a woman say one of you or any other woman expresses interest in me and wants to see what I'm working with I'll send her some nude pics, or let her see in person if she prefers, I'm not scared. ;) I of course hope she will return the favor as s I love to look at naked women of all types, but it is not required, I'm not a week like that. I just really enjoy the female form and love sex!

[Dazzledxx]

loving the confidence ;)

[lkjhg69cum]

I've never had any complaints darling. I am very self assured, not to the point of being a jerk, but I know my abilities, and so, am very confident. I'm pretty damn good if I do say so myself. ;)

[lkjhg69cum]

I'm not trying to come off like a perv. Or an arogant prock or anything, I'm just very comfortable with myself, as nd confident.

[Dazzledxx]

hmm no i love it ;)

[Dazzledxx]

Mr. Sexy and I know it ;)

[Asker]

So u do that to people that might think they are intrested in you?

[Asker]

Or u intrested in them?

[Dazzledxx]

interested/ just to have naughty fun!!!

[lkjhg69cum]

Yout bet I do, and I love it, all they have to do is ask, Hell, Why not? I love sex, just like almost everyone else in the world, I'm just honest and open about it and love to share my body with women and theirs with me. It's simple fun, myself and the women just relax and enjoy it.

[Dazzledxx]

i love sex too! I totally share your free- spirited-ness ;D

[lkjhg69cum]

And THAT is Why you are awesome!

[Dazzledxx]

Oh my god. I just realized something. When I answered this question, I thought it was a guy asking the question. I had NO idea that it was a girl asking the question, and so I gave the suggestion of “sending a shirtless selfie back.” OMG lol I feel so dumb now. Had to mention this- And I just noticed a month later!! I still didn’t know the site that well back then.
#badadvice

[Theguyoverthere]

No. I lift weights and find it to be a stupid cocky thing to do. Plus I seen so many girls dating profiles talking about how they don't even want them and heard guys in the gym and how stupid they sound about posting them on Facebook .

The most I'll do with shirtless photo is a progress book comparing a year or so ago until now and that's for personal references.

[cocorambo]

Yes it's flirty. Girls will state "I am not interested in guys who take selfies in front of the mirror shirtless or with their cars". But hey.. they can't resist when they see a hot body! Remember, what a girl says is different to what she means, except when she says "I just want to be friends with you". Otherwise, yes = no in female language.

[Asker]

So then guys do it to girls they might be intrested in not to a friend that's a girl

[Asker]

What if it wasn't a mirror shot more like a selfie

[cocorambo]

Ordinary selfies aren't flirty. To be flirty, they need to have a sexual pose or be shirtless.
To send it to a girl who's just a friend would be a bit odd, unless she was into photography or you wanted some advice on your image. Or it's a really creative shot.

[Asker]

Yea it was a shirtless selfie laying down

[Asker]

If it's like this www.runningoffthereeses.com/.../...evy_409x611.jpg

[Asker]

But a selfie and posing kind of like this

[Asker]

www.runningoffthereeses.com/.../...evy_409x611.jpg this would be?

[cocorambo]

that's very suggestive! esp if you photoshop it like that

[Asker]

No I'm not saying it's this one in a way it's somewhat like this

[Asker]

Suggestive? This isn't him as u can see

[GoodManDave]

I send shirtless photos if I want to scare women. ;)

In all seriousness, I've never had any desire to send shirtless photos - and I don't do a lot of "Selfies." I'm more cerebral. If I want to impress a woman, then I'm going to do it by talking to her.

[Asker]

Just askin

[SuitAndTie]

I never send shirtless pics, regardless of whether they ask or not. If they ask I may consider it but I defo won't send it straightaway just because the girl asked. But yes, I can understand why it may be seem as flirtatious.

[Asker]

What if she didn't ask would it be to impress

[madhatters4]

never sent a shirtless selfie to a girl unless they requested. but yes, I'd imagine impressing the girl is the point of sending an unsolicited selfie

[Shyguy_1988]

Depends on the situation. Randomly, yes. But if you are talking gym/fitness related talk and showing off progression, then no.

[juggaloscrub]

Ore of my girls ex's sent one to her and also asked if I was out of the picture... so it's no doubt what he had in mind. I think it's tacky and I'd never do it.

[LightUp]

That's something a Looser would do. I have seen some dudes posting shirtless pics on Facebook and Tagging girls in it.

[justbanANNAz]

woa srsly? what idiots=/

[nicenthic]

I send them to all of my girlfriends. Kills 3 or even 4 birds with one stone.

[Asker]

But not friends that are girls

[Asker]

How manny do u have

[blondfrog]

No if us guys did we would seen as show offs but if a girl send selfies to us guys we love that and we don't see it as showing off do you see the double standard there?

[Asker]

So if he see sthat he's trying to show PFC

[Asker]

Sorry show off and why?

[blondfrog]

your the girl I am just telling what I have heard from women thousands of times if you are that one girl who doesn't think its showing off well than I solute cause to me I think that is a double standard.

[bloodmountain1990]

Nope. I'm skinny as it anyways and even if I was muscular, I still don't think I would. Guys who do that are usually pretty douchey. If they want to see me shirtless so bad, they'll see it in person.

[Anonymous]

I wish girls would send shirtless selfies to impress us!

[Asker]

So it's to impress you

[Opinion Owner]

That went right over your head

[Asker]

Yes ur did

[heyworlditsme]

LOL OMG

[kalrodkal]

Most guys i think will only do that if it is their girlfriend receiving the picture

[beastman88]

not something I've done but i have posted shirtless pics

[KhaysunDei]

No, but I'll send a shirtless pic if she asks for it lol

[Asker]

What if she didn't ask for shirtless just a pic

[KhaysunDei]

I already answered that ^

[kaitlovesyou]

Yea but If I like him then it's okay :)

[Asker]

Then how do u tell him

[Anonymous]

Yes they do! I have to say that if he is fit. I like it!

[Jbgurl20]

Yes it's flirtatious hahaha

[Asker]

Even if not asked?

[Jbgurl20]

I just hate to receive shirtless pics from someone I don't even know, but I am always glad to receive one from my guy. One sexy shirtless pic makes my day.

[Asker]

Not to girls that's are friends right?

[Jbgurl20]

Yup. It would be really awkward. I'd probably not going to talk to my friend if he does something likethat

[Asker]

So u think he could be intrested then r dosnt think of me as a friend

[Jbgurl20]

I don't know

[Asker]

It's cool

[Jbgurl20]

Lol not cool when that someone looks eww

[Gianisaur]

if u look good den somtimed

[COCOCHANEL]

no one sends me these

[Asker]

I didn't asked for it and got it ha

[COCOCHANEL]

well i'd assume he was trying to impress me somehow

[Asker]

Impress you? I thought u said u never got any of those?

[COCOCHANEL]

i'd = i would

[Metal189]

It's Douchey

[Asker]

What?

[Metal189]

You heard me

[Asker]

Ok (: