Should I send my crush a fb friend request I finally found her on fb after 2 and a half months of hard searching?

[blondfrog]

So if any of you have remember I asked this question about 2 months ago and another time one one month ago. So long story short I never noticed this girl liking me at work cause at that time I liked another girl which I later found out she didn't like me and I was heart broken. And this girl at work had a crush on me the whole time and I didn't even notice until like the last 3 days we worked together she would always tell me I dropped something when I didn't and she would check me out when I bent over my butt that is right lol/asked me if I had a gf/invited me to her New Years party/wrapped her arms around my arms and I would have made a move if I knew that was both of our last days being laid off at work.

Yes she still might like you

No 3 months is too long don't send her a fb request

I am not going to really answer this question I just want my 3 points

Updates

+1 y

Oh and on the last day of our co-workers came to Macys where we worked and she didn't know that we were working in the same area on the 2nd floor we would usually work at the doc and our one other co-worker who got fired came our way and she saw

Updates

+1 y

Saw me and told me to duck I guess she didn't want to talk to her anymore after she saw that we were working in the same area, and that is also when she wrapped her arms around mine/asked if I had a gf/invited me to her New years party

[cupcakequeen]

Send her a Facebook request it's just Facebook and will probably add you even if she doesn't still like you. But you want to find out so send her a message saying like "Hey, not sure if you remember me but we worked together". Or something like that.

[Clovee]

U afraid they don't remember u? Or something like that just do it and message him yea it will suck if they don't remember you. But u have nothing to lose it's better to say it now then never you'll regret it depends on how badly u like the person

[blondfrog]

You mean her? Yeah I am just going to do it I am afraid she won't accept the request.

[blondfrog]

I just wanna tell her I have a crush on her though I like her so much and I want to put a blushing emoticon in front of it too.

[Clovee]

First of no emoticons I learned some people don't like them at all second why wouldn't she accept u? did u hurt her before other wise there shouldn't be a problem if I were u I would just message her first talk to her then see what happns then request her or it could be she won't like u and could block you

[blondfrog]

If you send them a message and your not friends with them it will go into their other inbox and they won't see it. And I send her the request I am so nervous now =( =(

[Clovee]

No they see it

[Clovee]

Don't trip ur man she will accept you I know she will I been there dude. If she Dosnt she's not worth it

[blondfrog]

No they don't

[blondfrog]

This is not her just showing you as an example s1145.photobucket.com/.../fb_zpsc2c95574.png.html

[blondfrog]

And they will only get the message if you have at least one mutual friend together which we don't

[Clovee]

Oh I get you u don't know any of her friends? To request them? Or just plain request her like I said dude nothing to lose. I did the same to a guy we had no mutual friends

[blondfrog]

Did he accept?

[Clovee]

Yes he did. But then he told me he like me I did used to like him we were talking the thing is he lives in my old hometown has a baby. I was into him he was into me but then I didn't have feelings feelings I told him the truth he got upset or some thing and decided not to talk anymore he blocked me from fb. And I told him we could still hang out but I don't know in hurt him I guess

[Clovee]

We were txting I honestly didn't expect for him to like me but I guess he did.

[JohnnyBananas]

Sure. 3 months isn't too long. I've added people I've met years ago (granted I got to know them a little and not just a quick acquaintance). Never know what could happen.

[blondfrog]

What should I say to her if she accepts the friend request?

[JohnnyBananas]

Just ask her how she's been. Start there and start slow. Just as if you're catching up with an old friend. Don't rush it.

[Ferruccio77]

do it but dont say you have been looking for her fb all these while. wait, how do you know she likes you?

maybe she was just teasing you?

[blondfrog]

Why would a girl do all those things? unless she was interested you know what I mean and one day on my ipod phone app there is this program called notes lol no joke and on it I typed do you find me attractive and I showed it to her and she said yeah and smiled =).

[Ferruccio77]

ok dude, now you gotta be the man, go talk to her. ask her out, plan a date. ;)
but dont ask on Facebook. just talk and stuff, find out what she likes. it is better to ask her in person. you want to treasure the moment and experience, face to face to ask her out than doing on text.
have fun mate.

[blondfrog]

I don't even know her last name I just found her from searching for so long she said she works at k-mart and I went to so many k-marts and couldn't find her.

[Ferruccio77]

one day you can tell her, you searched so much for her, but not now. one day she will appreciate you did a lot to find her.

congrats now that you found her again !!

[Clovee]

Yea @ferrucio if you talk maybe twice and can't tell the person in person could u tell them in text but how's a good way to tell them?

[Anonymous]

It's just Facebook I add people I don't even know and they accept my friend request I have over 800 friends.

[blondfrog]

What should I say to her if she accepts the fb request?

[questioner1991]

Sending a fb request would not hurt.

[blondfrog]

What should I say to her if she accepts the request?

[questioner1991]

Just talk to her. are you wanting to hang out with her again?

[blondfrog]

I am guessing her one friend also the co-worker who got fired sent her to ask me personal questions like if I ever had sex before/when I told the fired worker she asked if it was the best I ever had and my crush she got mad and said to her friend well if its the only time he had sex then of course it would be his best and called her stupid.

[blondfrog]

We have never hung out and I don't know her last name I just know from looking at her profile picture lol and my only way of meeting her is through fb but see I am afraid she won't accept my fb request.

[chocolateismylover]

Just do it !

[blondfrog]

Should I tell her I have a crush on her with a blushing emoticon.