My Crush's Mom Stalks Me on FB? What Should I Do?

[Melee]

Well, so this morning I decided to check my FB on my phone because my blogger friend sent me a friend request, and I noticed that I have another notifications.

I put my photo with my crush, along with all of my classmates (we are beside each other in the photo) as the cover photo, and suddenly a woman I don't know (friends with my classmate) requested to tag my photo. I approved it, and it turns out the photo she was tagging is my cover photo.

Then I decided to open her profile, and found out that she's my crush's mother! Her mutual friends are only my crush, my crush's older brother, and one of my classmate.

Now what should I do? How did she find my FB? I rarely use it, and I've never talked to my crush on FB. Is there a possibility that she saw my messages with my crush?

We're high school students.

[itsgeorge]

dont panick or anything. its his mother. woman are naturally protective over men they care about, and her being a mother is a level up. so of course she's concerned.

what kind of girl are you? the details women worry about. etc.

if you want this to go well, think of it like this: you're a senior in highschool and your freshman little brother is going out with a chick you dont know. how would you react to this? not that you would react negatively, but you would want to know who she is on multiple levels. and you want to ensure he's not getting played.

also, he is gonna have that man pride that sais i can handle it.

this could go on for days. but just look at it from that and you'll get how the mother is looking at you and how to deal with it.

nuff said.

[Melee]

Hmmm... I see. What type of girl am I? I'm not a player, LOL. When I like someone, I'll try to be the closest friend of them, but through my actions, my feelings become too obvious. ._. But once the guy shows that he has no interest, I'll back off, being sad for a few days until a week, and then my friends will console me until I can move on completely. LOL.

But his Mom has never met me before. Maybe she's worried.

[itsgeorge]

she's wanting to know who you are. thats all. but i guess it looks like its just a crush right now? so i guess just do what you do to get him to go after you or what have you. and if it starts to get there, then you meet the parents. but take it one step at a time.

[Blondiee2014]

She probably heard all about you from her son, maybe he had the same feelings for you , I tell my mum who I'm into and show her there profile to see what she thinks :)

[Blondiee2014]

Why don't you say hi to her and see if you can mention you fancy her son, she might tell you he feels the same or at least tell him, it's always good because she can help set you two up! :))

[Melee]

Wow, I'd be really happy if that's the reason...

[Blondiee2014]

You'd be surprised how often that happens, remember that your projecting a certain energy and if you like him you will be projecting that without realising, he probably feels the same, say hi to his mum and try get a light conversation going, you might reveal exactly what you want to know ;)

[Hidden_P]

If you rarely use it then I wouldn't worry too much. Also, it sounds like you are pretty good about making your stuff in Facebook private (good for you, I do too).

I really wouldn't get too panicked. For all you know, she's bored at work/home and has looked at people's profiles who her kid talks about. You've said that she has other friends around your age on there so maybe she's just the sort of parent who likes to be involved. Just carry on as you are :) It's nothing to be worried about.

[TheoryOfAvarice]

There's nothing to do... it's just facebook. And if you barely even use it then it shouldn't be that big a deal anyways. You don't have to interact with her if you don't want to.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Did you tag your classmate in the photo?

[Melee]

Nope. I didn't tag anyone, and now because of his mother I only tagged him. XD

[yaddayaddayadda02]

It's possible it came up asking her if it was him and she's not necessarily stalking you.

[Theguywhomadeurday]

Is she added in your profile? ?