myTakes: Flirting

As Valentine's day approaches, I thought it would be a good idea to create this mytake on something both men and women are oblivious to, the life of an unattractive man. I want you to put yourself in the shoes of an...

Somewhere on the street.. I had just finished a long day at work. We need to design a new sensor before the deadline next week and the client is breathing down our necks. I really need a drink right now... My coworker...

I am a big fan of Nick Sparks' talks. He breaks things down for us men who want to better approach, hold a conversation, and bring sexual tension to women without being scummy, creepy, or employ any kind of tricks. He is...

Recently I've become more acutely aware of a game we teenagers and young adults tend to play that we call "hard to get." To me it's always seemed dumb, but something clicked with me the other day when I watched a good...

Before I start I feel a bit of context is necessary: I'm born and raised Californian, having spent a period of my time living in Washington and New Mexico before moving back to California before I was 13. At 19 I enlisted...

Just stop. Everybody is shy to a degree. Lots of people are introverts. Think about how and why you use it as an excuse. How: That typical situation. You like that person you regularly see or it's just that person at the...

You know the twinge, the hair raising, anxiety laden magic, the kind you get you get when you're under someone's spell. The knowing your being lured and nevertheless going. The throbbing heart, the subtle shortness of...

Getting girls isn't really a difficult thing, people talk about leagues and status, and beauty, but attraction is complicated, and it has a mind of it's own, it doesn't matter if the girl is more beautiful or whatever, if...

Before proceeding for the details, let me say thet this is my first myTake. Also I'm not a native English speaker. So to practice my English writing skill, I chose to write a take in G@G community. I will really...

3 months ago, something happened to me for the first time ever. While on a trip in a hotel lobby, I laid my eyes on a girl and we made eye contact. I instantly knew she was perfect. It was love at first sight. Now, now, I...

I've been thinking a lot about this, because as a 20 year old college guy, I inevitably have women on my mind quite often. I've asked questions about flirting on here before and hardly anybody seems to be able to answer...

STORYTIME! :) I used to be awful at flirting. Like even the thought of going up to a girl and flirting made me tense up. I distinctly remember trying to tell a girl she had a pretty dress on. In the process though, it...

Just as there are many exceptional ways for you to easily build up and and spice up sexual attraction, there are many mistakes that can cause if to fade, nullifying your efforts at flirting. Being too nice By catering to...

A Bit of a rant based on some the answers to previous questions I posted here and my own observations and learnings about shy girls who may have a crush : I've learned about a shy girl who might have a crush on me - and I...

"How to I get him to notice me?" I know it seems a bit controversial for me to be giving advice on flirting to women when I've never flirted on a guy before, however, this isn't about what I'd prefer women do if I wanted...

Introduction Well first off Jezeppes Take is something I plan to be doing daily, each day will have a different topic unless I revisit an old one. The reason for starting 'Jezeppes Take' is I plan to incorporate it into...

I see a lot of girls post images of their text convos with guys where the guy apparently flips out, out of nowhere to the shock and discomfort of the seemingly well meaning girl. It's become a staple in "female humor" and...

"Ugh, he doesn't like me" This year, I ended up meeting this junior girl in high school by making a cold approach, asking her to play cards with me. Every once in awhile I would ask her again, but honestly, I don't think...

"I'd love it if he'd come talk to me!" Ever find yourself in a situation where you're ready to make an approach with a girl, or are unsure how to lead him your way? If you are wondering whether or not she'd really...

Now, I'm a naturally nonchalant guy and up until that point in life I considered myself to be very shy when it came to women...I even avoided talking to them, but this all changed. The most beautiful girl of our year was...