Did your parents teach you? Friends or other family? Or, did you figure it out on your own how to cook?
+1 yI learned partially from my mother and partially on my own. She often worked nights and my father worked a job so taxung, he would rather go to bed hungry rather than heat what we called back then, tv dinners. I start cooking at about ten. I'd get home from school, get all of my younger siblings started on their chores. Then I would do mine. I would then get dinner going and have it done about 15 to 30 minutes after my dad got home because he had to get to bed by 8. Eventually, I got tired of not having desert so I would see what ingredients I could find which were never anything desert related and invent something. The craziest thing I ever made was whole wheat cake with rose flavored whole wheat frosting. I eventually took up baking and then other things. When I got married, I made most of our food. I was also a nurse. I guess I am not really your average man.
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That is great though! A good way to learn is just by trying. I do that a lot now. I learned from my mom but now like to explore other cuisines. It is a trial and error thing. Thanks for sharing!
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+1 yBoth my mom and dad taught me to cook. Both my brother and I were responsible for making the meals during the week, bc we got home before our parents.
We never had women's and men's chores at the house either, they were just chores.
At age 14, I washed, hung, dried and folded my own clothes. I also did outside work like cut down trees, split and pile wood, and cut/trimmed about 4 acres of grass.
They taught us at an early age to be independent and not rely on anyone to do our chores.
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That's great! Actually really good values to instill at a young age. I imagine preparing all those meals you got quite good as a "chef" of the house. Thanks for sharing.
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Mom and Dad would plan the meals, get the ingredients and we would have things ready for when they got home from work. Because they taught us at an early age, we now explore all kinds of meal-making ideas and have become quite adventurous.
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Sorry, thanks for the great question and you're welcome.
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I have become much more adventurous as well since my other half is not from India. I make some of his favourite dishes from back home. That makes it fun though, learning new things.
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+1 yI loved playing with my barbie stove and easy bake oven as a kid. But i only preferred to watch others cook. I took a culinary arts class in HS and i sucked so fckin bad. My hamburger wouldn't brown and my omelet wouldn't pull together. So i chose not to takeup the class for the following year. Last year i started focusing on a few recipes and can somewhat cook now. So teaching myself worked best and was less pressure than being watched by a class. I still hate cooking tho
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+1 yA family friend teached me on how to do pancakes.
Everything else I had to learn on my own. My mom only showed me a few basic things, I can't even remember what... she wanted me to stay away from the kitchen and be a kid but that didn't go so well lol
As a late teen I had the internet and nowadays I ask friends and family to get alternatives or their way of cooking.21 Reply- +1 y
I did a lot with my mom when I was young and now gravitate towards finding new stuff online. Thanks for sharing!
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+1 yI learnt the basics as a kid off mother and granny then developed my own style as I got older
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I am much the same. Lots of influence from mom but not adapt on my own. Thanks!
+1 yI largely learned on my own. I didn't pay any attention when I lived with my mom. When I first moved out, I ate a lot of sandwiches and frozen meals. I got tired of that after a while and started cooking. The first time I fixed spaghetti noodles the water boiled over and went everywhere lol.
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Hey, that is how you learn though. Practice practice! Thanks for sharing.
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I've actually become a very good cook. I've had a lot of people tell me stuff I fix is some of the best they've had. There's a saying that people who love to eat make the best cooks, and I definitely love to eat! I love all kinds of food, but Mexican is my favorite. I live in NC, and we have a lot of wonderful Mexican restaurants here.
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That is great! Outside my native Indian cuisine, Italian would be my favourite.
+1 yA question I've never really thought about!! Mainly I taught myself but I think being surrounded by family who liked to cook you just pick things up without realising, so when I started living by myself there was just stuff I knew without really being taught directly!
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I spent a lot of time in the kitchen with mom, so I learned most from that. However, when on my own I got more adventurous and started learning different cuisines. Mostly I got help online to figure out new dishes. Thanks for sharing!
+1 yMy aunt gave me the basis, but I pretty much learned on my own.
When I went to live with my mother, she was surprised I could cook and I remember the face she made when she came home to find dinner ready.
I remember I cooked a lot back then to make her happy and get her praise and compliments.
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I learned heavily from my mom. I have learned on my own to figure out some of the non-Indian dishes my husband likes. That has been an experience.
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That must have been a really nice bonding activity and experience.
It's been similar for me when I learned the traditional dishes of the German minority my wife comes from. - +1 y
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I'd say it's the leberknödersuppe, which I really like as well. I make it with mashed potatoes and onions on the side.
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+1 yI basically taught myself how to cook when I was about 12 years old if I wanted a snack I learned to make it. When I was in high school mom was working and it was easier for one of those children to prepare our evening meals. When I was a junior in high school I started cooking and a Cantonese restaurant, I learned Cantonese dishes. When I went to college I start cooking in the short order part of the cafeteria. I also cooked at Zion national Park during my summer months during college. There I met a chef who pulled me into his tutelage. He taught me how to cook professionally. I have been dabbling and smoking meats. I enjoy the opportunity of cooking great meals. Also freeze my wife up take care of our children. My oldest daughter when she got married asked me to prepare her wedding meal at her reception. It was quite simple but elegant.
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+1 yAs a child I learned some cooking basics from my stepmother, probably the only useful thing I ever learned from her, whatever reasons she had. First of all how to wash dishes (by hand I mean ;0) then peeling and cooking patatoes, baking meat and making pancakes (dough and baking). Later in life I just learned cooking mainly on my own, often inspired by the cooking of other cultures as Chinese, Indian and North African.
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+1 yi learned cooking by watching my mom prepare the food. She never intentionally taught me but watching her helps a lot. Also whenever got lost i always ask her for cooking advice.
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Ah, yes. I am very much the same. She was hands on with me in the kitchen when I was younger. I do the same things as you and still to this day ask for advice. Thanks for sharing!
i mean we learnt in school although i don't remember much, and my mum taught me some of her recipes but i mostly cook by throwing in whatever ingredients and make it taste okay lol
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Hahaha well experimenting is always fun! I have come up with some good stuff that way. Thanks for sharing. 🙂
1.7K opinions shared on Food & Beverage topic. I'd like to say I learned it on my own. When I like to cook I really like to COOK. But I bow to the knowledge my mother has in the kitchen still. She's still giving me pointers. Something you just can't learn with decades of successes and failures.
10 ReplyMy mom taught me how to cook and do laundry when I was 14. I am so grateful she did because I believe both are important life skills.
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Agreed. It is a great life skill. Thanks!
+1 yMy parents somewhat, I just looked because I found it fun to see how it all came together.
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What's your favourite dish your parents would make?
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Pancakes. Not the answer you were expecting. It's just that the times were happiest when they made that. But praise Rabbit and Scotch Egg. The sauce she made with the scotch egg was just sublime.
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I was not expecting that but often happy memories attached to stuff like that makes it a favourite. Thanks for sharing!
I would say by watching my mum, 70% if my mum then the rest is either cooking shows and youtube
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That is almost exactly same as me. Most when young was with my mom and now most is internet or tv shows. Thanks for sharing!
I learned by watching and then (with supervision) trying myself. I'm not a culinary master by any means and I can't cook a large variety, but I can cook. It works great with my girlfriend because I can cook, but don't get hungry and she can't cook but does get hungry. So we work well together her hunger determines when I cook. If my hunger did, I would never cook.
10 Reply567 opinions shared on Food & Beverage topic. Mine was out of necessity. I had a really good paying job when I was young and went out to eat a lot. Then I lost the job and was so used to eating really good food that I started learning to cook from cook books and cooking shows. I am pretty good now and love to cook.
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+1 yMajority of stuff I learned from my parents. Later I learned online or experimenting myself.
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I was pretty much the same. Lots from mom and kind of went from there on my own. Thanks!
For me it was a combination. My mom taught me a lot when I was pretty young, but I also learned a few things from family business employees (a few of whom were like extended family), one of my aunts, and the rest I learned on my own.
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+1 yIf you listen to my SO, I never learned how to cook. I admit I'm no chef, but I can prepare food so people don't starve, and that's what's really important, isn't it?
21 Reply Our school had mandatory home economics for everyone. Learned how to cook and sow. Took the next level course in high school. It was so much better than the stuff they were serving in the cafeteria and it was free.
10 Reply1.7K opinions shared on Food & Beverage topic. Largely I taught myself, with certain dishes being taught to me, like how to make hummus or dolmades
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What about cupcakes?
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I don't even bother putting the wrapper on the bottom of the cupcake, or the @blackcupcake
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lmfao… i love feeding you guys delish moist cupcakes🥰
I learned on my own using YouTube. I wanted to eat stuff I liked, so yeah.
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Fair enough. Good way to learn. What is the best thing you learned to make so far?
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Mmm, I do like Italian and carbonara is a great one.
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There is an Italian restaurant where I live in the city that makes lasagna soup 🤯
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It is just a tomato based soup with everything you would find in lasagna. Even little lasagna noodles. Tasty. 👍
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+1 yBit of both
Started with my parents, added at school then my time as a sous chef as well as my own stuff along the way and beyond15 Reply- +1 y
Oh wow, so you are a chef? That's great. I started with my mom as well and then mixed in stuff I found on the internet as I got older.
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I was for a year, I couldn't probably do it again with my heart condition (too much caffeine to keep running plus the joints, occasional cigarettes and serious alcohol intake)
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I have heard that it can be really stressful to be a chef. Thanks for sharing.
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Best summary of the life would be the film Boiling Point starring Stephen Graham
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I will have to check that out. Thanks!
1.1K opinions shared on Food & Beverage topic. Both I used to take cooking and baking classes when I was a kid I loved it and after I got older I just kinda started doing it on my own I mean I can't a candle to my mother's cooking but it's edible and taste good most of the time lmao.
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+1 yI learned it on my own! but @NathanDavis taught me how to make Pepsi guacamole and it was amazing
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Mmm, that sounds avocadorable.
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right? especially with cans…
Mostly self taught. I invented my own Spaghetti and Asian-style wok-fried foods.
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Mmm, I love good Asian food. Specifically Thai. Thanks!
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+1 yMy mom taught me the basics. Then I figured out the rest by experimentation.
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Yep, same here. I spent a good amount of time when younger in the kitchen with mom. Now, I try new things I come across on the internet.
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427 opinions shared on Food & Beverage topic. Mostly on my own but in reality , it is a combination of someone teaching and self-learning!
NO McDonald's though! Or any other fast food for that matter!
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Yep, I am a bit of both. Most is from my mom but much of it now is me learning on my own.
No, I hate fast food. I think the only time I ever eat it is if I am in an airport traveling and have no other option.
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+1 yI've learned on my own for the most part. But I do love me some McDonalds now and then.
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You cook for Barbara or Gigi?
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Haha, Barbara of course!!!
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Good man!
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Thankfully she likes McDonads , lol.
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I had to learn on my own. My parents are lazy people.
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What is your go-to dish?
+1 yeven when i was lottle even school assignments i do it on my own everything about mei learned it by myself only
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+1 yMy mom taught me most of what I know. Also learned from my grandma in Czechia. Aaaaand YouTube
20 ReplyI always watched my older sister and mom cook dishes and was interested in cooking since I was 7.
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+1 yI learned through google and youtube at the age of 29/30; learned it on my own basically.
10 ReplyI learned the basics in sixth grade cooking class (mandatory in Danish schools), but taught myself all the rest after moving out.
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+1 yMy dad was a pretty awesome cook! And he taught me everything I know.
10 Reply4.9K opinions shared on Food & Beverage topic. I learned on my own. I have downloaded a recipe for Irish pot roast and followed the directions ant it actually came out pretty good.
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+1 yMy mom taught me some stuff. My wife taught me some and I learned other stuff on my own. I. Not a chef by any means but I wouldn't starve if I was on my own
10 Reply I learnt with my own guy instinct, a passion for food and the dream of a French rat who wanted to be a chef.
10 ReplyI've seen my mom she some foods. But over all I taught myself. In a way feels like Im learning every time I cook something new.
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+1 yMy family, 3 people in my family were (were as in no longer living) professional chiefs
10 Reply490 opinions shared on Food & Beverage topic. my school tried to teach me. But the little I can cook I taught myself.
10 ReplyA few different ways….. watching my parents cook, my mom telling me how to cook some items, experimenting myself and working at McDonald’s
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI learned on my own and was baptized by fire. Literally, I started a fire
10 ReplyMy mom taught me some, and I learned some on my own
10 Reply731 opinions shared on Food & Beverage topic. I was taught by my Mam, Dad and Grandmothers, all of the usual kitchen skills from Mam and Grandmothers, Dad taught me how to butcher beef, sheep, pigs and filleting fish fresh and salt.
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+1 yMy parents taught me the basics and I learned the remainder on my own
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+1 yI’m yet to start cooking because I live with my parents and I don’t have to necessarily cook for myself but I’m planning to learn cooking soon.
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u +1 yMy mother and grandmother both taught me some basics, but I taught myself most of what I know.
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+1 yI learned on my own and I will cook some delicious Cook for my future wife. :)
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+1 yBoth, learned from many people and adapted to my tastes
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI have learned independently, from recipe books, videos, or by watching others. But no one taught me cooking and now no one I know can. I cook better than professional chefs now.
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+1 yMum's my carer , she cooks for me and the rest of our family
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+1 yI love cooking and taught myself/learnt by observing good cooks in my family. I call it learning by osmosis.
10 ReplyCooking is a skill which you can learn from your family, friends or mentor but for enhancing that skill you need to work on that on your own.
10 ReplyMy mother and grandmother.
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Same here. Twinsies.
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+1 yYeah someone taught me my mom taught me how to cook and clean
10 Reply 2.7K opinions shared on Food & Beverage topic. Learned on my own 👩🍳🍳🥯
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What is your BEST dish you make in your eyes?
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Mmm, that ginger garlic sauce sounds amazing. Just looked it up.
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@LavLavLuv me too, but I’m still not a great cook
learned some recipes on youtube
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I learned 99% from my mom but do the same YouTube thing for new recipes. Thanks for sharing!
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I have not. That is something that is American I think and not found in my country. What are some good stuff they have? Like your favourite if you could pick one?
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That sounds like something my husband would absolutely go for. Those Aussies like their meat.
I know little, mostly learned on my own
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Nothing wrong with learning on your own. Thanks for sharing.
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Indeed. I learned from my mom when I was young and our cuisine uses lots of spices. New dishes I always fiddle with spice until I get it just right.
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As far as Indian dishes, I use a lot of family recipes. When I try something new, it is a lot of tasting little bites as I mix in spices. Sometimes, still have to make changes the next time around.
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I have copied a lot of family recipes that I like. I sat there and wrote them down. My mom has a box with cards in it that has all of her stuff and even her mom's. So, I go by those for the dishes my mom makes.
If I am doing something new, I will try to get the taste the way I (and my husband) like it versus trying to get it to taste like something I know. I like hot (spicy) so a lot of times I will put more spice to make it hotter because that is our preference.
I always so go with what tastes good to you versus what it is "supposed" to taste like. - +1 y
I appreciate you choosing what taste good to you as opposed to following what someone else thinks it should taste like. That is where you can differentiate between a cook and a chef I believe. A cook follows the recipe, a chef follows the recipe when they want to but tries new and different things. Sometimes they succeed and sometimes they don't.
If you save those recipes from your mom and your grandmother you could probably have a really cool set of Indian culinary history there! Maybe you could even create your own cookbook
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