Interesting Take. You do not need to shave everything for me. And you certainly can take off your bra anytime as far as I am concerned. Virginity? smh. And fat distribution? Not that big a deal. Some of us guys love girls without needing them to be something they are not.
I feel like being a guy is better and they're lucky. I agree with: shaving, bras, unfair fat distribution, drama, periods, and I heard that pregnancy and labor is the most painful and crazy time of a woman's life. But I've ALWAYS wanted to be a mom and have my own baby. And I can agree with the housework because even though I'm a clean/neat person, I don't always want to. I used to live somewhere where I had to every single day and I hated it. Then I moved to where I live now with these people and I never have to do anything
This was nice. 5 is true for men as well though, and certain men do shave their whole body, but I admit it's more expected of girls.
C: Well it sure isn't an issue for me. That's more a problem of religion, sadly. And don't forget the stigma for men and virginity. Men who are virgins past 20 or so are often seen as losers who can't get laid, even in the eyes of girls. That's pretty moronic as well.
Everything else is certainly true from what I've seen, but your views on pregnancy may change with age.
What I meant with virginity is that guys don't feel any pain when they lose it. Girls do. And if a guy loses his virginity he's a champion, we are whores when we do it (I know it depends on the situation)
I hope I don't change my views about pregnancy, I want to adopt.
I agree that divide is true. Girls aren't always in pain during their first time. I think it also depends on how gentle the guy is.
Girls are more commonly seen as 'whores' when they're promiscuous. Not so much for losing their virginity, in my opinion.
And you can adopt while having a kid of your own, it's certainly not impossible. Don't adopt a kid solely to avoid the pain of pregnancy though, it's just an irrational fear.
Well, some girls feel pain and it does not matter how gentle the guy is, it's because of the hymen. Girls are not winners when they lose their virginity, guys are. We are just less innocent... Guys respect us less when we are not virgins. I want to adopt a child because me not reproducing it's nice for this world, there is too many people in the planet lol I also want to adopt a child because that way I could make a kid's life better, I could give him/her the happy life her mother couldn't give him/her.
I understand. Adopting a child for that reason is pretty noble. But as a woman you will sooner or later run into certain urges, the urge to have children of your own. Even though it may be unfathomable to you now, hormones can change everything. Just saying though, because some women simply do not want to reproduce, period.
Well agreed on each one point except the point 6 about the baby. And point 3 yeah the tasks of house works are small like stone, but they pile up they end up becoming 'The Great Wall of China' it drains all your strength and they keep growing faster then you finish them.
i hate seeing pregnancy listed here Its a beautiful thing to create life, and no it does not suck If it wasn't for pregnancy none of us would be here Yes its painful and hard, but thats the cost of life, a very small cost if you ask me
i never said it was easy or wasn't painful, or difficult The name of the article is "things I hate about being a girl" i dont think pregnancy is something people should hate, or make it seem likes its horrible it isn't, pregnancy is something special that shouldn't be treated as a burden, thats the point i wanted to get across. @HuckyHucky
I agree with 1,2,6, and 7. Honestly, I'd prefer that most girls didn't wear make up. a guys virginity is a big deal too, just in a different way. For housework, I still do it, but more stuff dealing with outside, like mowing the lawn, fixing things, cleaning the gutters, etc. good take though.
Yeah, natural stuff is better, I don't like makeup. Yeah, when guys lose their virginity they're champions, if they are virgins they are losers :/ It's great to know that you have no problems doing housework.
Yeah I think being a woman is pretty crappy. Many guys go "but you can get a date whenever you want", yet I've asked out tons of guys and only one hasn't regected me. So I don't know where they're getting this idea.
Well, I don't have problems with rejection. I've done it and yeah, I've been rejected. What I don't like about asking guys out is that people think you are way too sassy if you do it.
Hahahahahaha.. well.. I love wearing make up and I couldn't stand being hairy and I don't like guys being hairy either. I don't feel comfortable without a bra (yeah, that's possible). And I don't know about the peeing thing. The rest do suck. :)
You think virginity is a big deal in the Western world? Asdfjhsvsdhjbsl.
You know what my mom told me? If I broke my hymen, she would see me as a different person. She said it casually. Even if I fell on a pole or something. She would see me as a WOMAN. Do you see how disgusting it is? I was 13 when she said it. A 13-years-old is not a woman, hymen or not. I asked her to buy tampons so I could swim when I got my period on our one week holiday. They all refused thinking that would break my fucking hymen. You should've seen their faces when they finally accepted and were walking to the supermarket. You'd think all of our relatives just died before their eyes and the murderers were pissing on Ataturk statues all over. I asked why they're like that. What answer did I get from my step-dad? WE'RE WORRIED ABOUT YOU. How the f*ck? Why? Why? What'll happen if I don't have a hymen? Nothing. It's in your fucking head.
It is an issue. This is exactly what I'm talking about, girls have to go through many things once they stop being virgins.
I'm so sorry to hear that, in Mexico we don't have that kind of problems, it's not really common, but if a girl, not matter where she is from, loses her virginity... People won't look at her the same way.
It's exactly the same here. I didn't notice you were from Mexico. If a girl loses her virginity, I know what people will think, what will go on in their heads and it's disgusting. If it's a guy, they're proud of him. He became a man. But a girl...
As far as the honorable mentions bit goes, there's absolutely nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out. In fact I wish more would do it. It makes it a lot easier for us guys. In fact most of the time I've gotten girls in real life and not on a dating site is when they approached me. It helps out a lot considering girls are creeped out by guys approaching them regardless if what we have to say.
Well, I have no problems asking guys out, some girls do and they criticize girls who do it. It's just stupid because sometimes guys are shy and they are afraid of rejection.
Ahah I love this post so much, accurately describes our lives hahah as much as it is expensive, and painful, and dramatic, I still love being a girl :) nice post xx
I agree with this mostly.. Apart from the girl asking the guy out. I encourage this, it would be nice to be asked for once. Girls aren't shamed for this, well not to my knowledge.
Well, in Mexico girls don't do this. I do and I give a damn, but many girls think I shouldn't because my must is to wait for them to make the move. I don't think that way.
"A girl's virginity it's big deal." Only because you make it out to be that way. If the only thing you got going for you is virginity, is it my fault you're so boring?
What I tried to say is that for society a girl is a whore if she lose it when she's young, a guy is a hero, and losing our virginity hurts, guys don't feel pain.
Love your take! Being a girl is good, yet bad at the same time. And its freaking expensive to be a girl, like the bras, panties etc. But I still love being a girl tho! 😂
I have mixed opinions on it... Some of it is true.. . Some of it is incomplete and coming from someone who doesn't like her life much or is unknown of its beauty. Sorry if u don't like my comment... I mean no disrespect. A girls life is not easy and through all the challenges that only she can overcome she becomes a woman. Life wouldn't have been this much difficult if we guys would have helped more. So i feel bad about that... I wish we could do more... :(
I like my life hahaha I'm totally okay with your comment, I know you can't agree with everything, you don't know the real struggle.
Well, what you can do is really simple, a guy can just help us with housework and stop calling us whores for almost everything, give us a little space when we are bitchy and just being nice to us in general. We appreciate kind gentlemen :)
Housework u say. Then Housework it is.. No problem. And for those boys who call girls whores are just the dog kind so i hate that too.. No disrespecting girls... Ok. Space u want thats fine.. Everybody needs some time to time but with my girl i will try my super big hug first... See if i can calm her down with that :D and then maybe give her space if she wants. Being nice is easy.. . No problemo. Also i appreciate the way this post is written. Out of honesty and even if it is not perfectly true it is out of ur heart and thata admirable... So gud job :)
I'm glad you like it :) Thanks for your kind way to treat a lady, that's how it should be (except if she's a bitch and she doesn't deserve what guys do for her). Nice girls we really appreciate honesty and nice guys, not all of us like douches.
Most of these problems are a result of the Adamiac curse. Pregnancy was never originally intended to be such a painful thing. As for shaving... that beard girl was just plain wrong. I don't even like it when dudes are that hairy. Flat-out gross. However, I agree that makeup shouldn't be necessary.
Men are screwed in different ways. Impotency, frailer mental health, etc. Eve was tricked, but placed a lot of value on what she could do with her body. Adam placed stock in his plans, in being a mastermind. He wasn't tricked, he just chose to be a douche. So men suffer more in the soul, women more in the body.
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Interesting Take. You do not need to shave everything for me. And you certainly can take off your bra anytime as far as I am concerned. Virginity? smh. And fat distribution? Not that big a deal. Some of us guys love girls without needing them to be something they are not.
That's really nice of you :)
Just me being me and letting you be you. :-)
I feel like being a guy is better and they're lucky. I agree with: shaving, bras, unfair fat distribution, drama, periods, and I heard that pregnancy and labor is the most painful and crazy time of a woman's life. But I've ALWAYS wanted to be a mom and have my own baby. And I can agree with the housework because even though I'm a clean/neat person, I don't always want to. I used to live somewhere where I had to every single day and I hated it. Then I moved to where I live now with these people and I never have to do anything
its not better, we gotta deal with women who reflect all these points on us ohh and feminism F feminism :)
What the heck
Yeah, guys are super lucky sometimes. We have some perks too :)
@kidaniscortes Well, guys have to deal with many things too.
It seems like we have way more crap than them. Is it better to be a girl or a guy?
Wow, that's a difficult question, I can't tell honestly.
Need a compare and contrast or something like that
This was nice. 5 is true for men as well though, and certain men do shave their whole body, but I admit it's more expected of girls.
C: Well it sure isn't an issue for me. That's more a problem of religion, sadly. And don't forget the stigma for men and virginity. Men who are virgins past 20 or so are often seen as losers who can't get laid, even in the eyes of girls. That's pretty moronic as well.
Everything else is certainly true from what I've seen, but your views on pregnancy may change with age.
Thanks for your opinion! :)
What I meant with virginity is that guys don't feel any pain when they lose it. Girls do. And if a guy loses his virginity he's a champion, we are whores when we do it (I know it depends on the situation)
I hope I don't change my views about pregnancy, I want to adopt.
I agree that divide is true. Girls aren't always in pain during their first time. I think it also depends on how gentle the guy is.
Girls are more commonly seen as 'whores' when they're promiscuous. Not so much for losing their virginity, in my opinion.
And you can adopt while having a kid of your own, it's certainly not impossible. Don't adopt a kid solely to avoid the pain of pregnancy though, it's just an irrational fear.
Well, some girls feel pain and it does not matter how gentle the guy is, it's because of the hymen.
Girls are not winners when they lose their virginity, guys are. We are just less innocent... Guys respect us less when we are not virgins.
I want to adopt a child because me not reproducing it's nice for this world, there is too many people in the planet lol I also want to adopt a child because that way I could make a kid's life better, I could give him/her the happy life her mother couldn't give him/her.
I understand. Adopting a child for that reason is pretty noble. But as a woman you will sooner or later run into certain urges, the urge to have children of your own. Even though it may be unfathomable to you now, hormones can change everything. Just saying though, because some women simply do not want to reproduce, period.
You are right, I could change my mind soon or later.
Well agreed on each one point except the point 6 about the baby. And point 3 yeah the tasks of house works are small like stone, but they pile up they end up becoming 'The Great Wall of China' it drains all your strength and they keep growing faster then you finish them.
Well, I don't want to be rude but you don't know how if feels to be pregnant, me neither... Girls can die while giving birth.
And about housework, it is a team work, if both have jobs, they have to work together.
i hate seeing pregnancy listed here
Its a beautiful thing to create life, and no it does not suck
If it wasn't for pregnancy none of us would be here
Yes its painful and hard, but thats the cost of life, a very small cost if you ask me
Of course pregnancy it's a very important part of life, but it doesn't mean that it's all perfect. Pregnancy hurts and sometimes kills mothers.
Lol says the man who will never know what it's like to squeeze a HUMAN BEING out of your body.
i never said it was easy or wasn't painful, or difficult
The name of the article is "things I hate about being a girl"
i dont think pregnancy is something people should hate, or make it seem likes its horrible
it isn't, pregnancy is something special that shouldn't be treated as a burden, thats the point i wanted to get across. @HuckyHucky
I agree with 1,2,6, and 7. Honestly, I'd prefer that most girls didn't wear make up. a guys virginity is a big deal too, just in a different way. For housework, I still do it, but more stuff dealing with outside, like mowing the lawn, fixing things, cleaning the gutters, etc. good take though.
Thanks for your opinion! :)
Yeah, natural stuff is better, I don't like makeup.
Yeah, when guys lose their virginity they're champions, if they are virgins they are losers :/
It's great to know that you have no problems doing housework.
Yeah I think being a woman is pretty crappy. Many guys go "but you can get a date whenever you want", yet I've asked out tons of guys and only one hasn't regected me. So I don't know where they're getting this idea.
You were able to get a yes? O_O!
@aamy811 It's true for most girls. Since men are desperate for the most part, they will eventually just pick any girl. Women are so much more pickier.
Well, I don't have problems with rejection. I've done it and yeah, I've been rejected. What I don't like about asking guys out is that people think you are way too sassy if you do it.
Hahahahahaha.. well.. I love wearing make up and I couldn't stand being hairy and I don't like guys being hairy either. I don't feel comfortable without a bra (yeah, that's possible). And I don't know about the peeing thing. The rest do suck. :)
Well, I hate all those things :(
hahahaha, yeahh:)
You think virginity is a big deal in the Western world? Asdfjhsvsdhjbsl.
You know what my mom told me? If I broke my hymen, she would see me as a different person. She said it casually. Even if I fell on a pole or something. She would see me as a WOMAN. Do you see how disgusting it is? I was 13 when she said it. A 13-years-old is not a woman, hymen or not. I asked her to buy tampons so I could swim when I got my period on our one week holiday. They all refused thinking that would break my fucking hymen. You should've seen their faces when they finally accepted and were walking to the supermarket. You'd think all of our relatives just died before their eyes and the murderers were pissing on Ataturk statues all over. I asked why they're like that. What answer did I get from my step-dad? WE'RE WORRIED ABOUT YOU. How the f*ck? Why? Why? What'll happen if I don't have a hymen? Nothing. It's in your fucking head.
Don't you dare to say virginity is an issue.
don't be dismissive of the view that women's virginity is an issue in the west just because you think you have it worse. it's not a competition.
Of course it's not. But it's funny when you complain about the smallest thing when there are people who actually suffer
It is an issue. This is exactly what I'm talking about, girls have to go through many things once they stop being virgins.
I'm so sorry to hear that, in Mexico we don't have that kind of problems, it's not really common, but if a girl, not matter where she is from, loses her virginity... People won't look at her the same way.
It's exactly the same here. I didn't notice you were from Mexico. If a girl loses her virginity, I know what people will think, what will go on in their heads and it's disgusting. If it's a guy, they're proud of him. He became a man. But a girl...
I know :/ It's really unfair, we are not winners when we lose our virginity.
Man, I totally feel you on this. It sucks. There are a few positives, but I can't think of them right now.
I will do one about the things I love about being a girl hahah
As far as the honorable mentions bit goes, there's absolutely nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out. In fact I wish more would do it. It makes it a lot easier for us guys. In fact most of the time I've gotten girls in real life and not on a dating site is when they approached me. It helps out a lot considering girls are creeped out by guys approaching them regardless if what we have to say.
Well, I have no problems asking guys out, some girls do and they criticize girls who do it. It's just stupid because sometimes guys are shy and they are afraid of rejection.
I agree as well but I love being girl every gender has problemo's but both genders live with them :( :)
People forget males have periods to but within the bleeding
Overall all of it is not that bad but the periods sometimes and sexual harassment thing too and the whore thing as well and virginity thing too :(
That's what we gotta do, we can't complain all the time hahaha
I know right lol @Take Owner
Ahah I love this post so much, accurately describes our lives hahah as much as it is expensive, and painful, and dramatic, I still love being a girl :) nice post xx
Yeah, I hate/love being a girl :)
Thanks honey :)
Thank god dicks dont get smaller from cleaning because Im love cleaning
Yes that would be rather inconvenient. :P
Hahahaha yeah, we gotta thank him for that XD
I agree with this mostly.. Apart from the girl asking the guy out.
I encourage this, it would be nice to be asked for once.
Girls aren't shamed for this, well not to my knowledge.
Good take though! xD
Thanks a lot :)
Well, in Mexico girls don't do this. I do and I give a damn, but many girls think I shouldn't because my must is to wait for them to make the move. I don't think that way.
They should do it.. If he isn't gonna make a move then who will?
Neither do I. I'm glad you're different :')
Exactly, I think we shouldn't waste time and go for it :)
It's nice to know that you don't think girls are wrong when they ask guys out :D
Nice to know? There's nothing I want more than a girl to approach me for once! Keep doing what you're doing!
Hahaha okay:
You are good looking and I like you, wanna go out?
There you go :) hahaha
Hell yeah! My first date! :o
Haaha yeah! Done, a girl asked you out! You can R. I. P now haha
Yup! Gonna die :C
Not now, we have a date XD
Okai! 😂😂
Hahaha LOL
Lol at the guys commenting "you wouldn't have to shave for me"
Let's see how many girls with bushy armpits you ask on a date?
Hahahaah right on the point.
"A girl's virginity it's big deal." Only because you make it out to be that way. If the only thing you got going for you is virginity, is it my fault you're so boring?
What I tried to say is that for society a girl is a whore if she lose it when she's young, a guy is a hero, and losing our virginity hurts, guys don't feel pain.
Love your take! Being a girl is good, yet bad at the same time. And its freaking expensive to be a girl, like the bras, panties etc. But I still love being a girl tho! 😂
Thanks a lot sweetie :)
I love being a girl too, but there are many things I hate about it!
I have mixed opinions on it... Some of it is true.. . Some of it is incomplete and coming from someone who doesn't like her life much or is unknown of its beauty. Sorry if u don't like my comment... I mean no disrespect. A girls life is not easy and through all the challenges that only she can overcome she becomes a woman. Life wouldn't have been this much difficult if we guys would have helped more. So i feel bad about that... I wish we could do more... :(
you still can.
I like my life hahaha I'm totally okay with your comment, I know you can't agree with everything, you don't know the real struggle.
Well, what you can do is really simple, a guy can just help us with housework and stop calling us whores for almost everything, give us a little space when we are bitchy and just being nice to us in general. We appreciate kind gentlemen :)
Housework u say. Then Housework it is.. No problem. And for those boys who call girls whores are just the dog kind so i hate that too.. No disrespecting girls... Ok. Space u want thats fine.. Everybody needs some time to time but with my girl i will try my super big hug first... See if i can calm her down with that :D and then maybe give her space if she wants. Being nice is easy.. . No problemo. Also i appreciate the way this post is written. Out of honesty and even if it is not perfectly true it is out of ur heart and thata admirable... So gud job :)
I'm glad you like it :) Thanks for your kind way to treat a lady, that's how it should be (except if she's a bitch and she doesn't deserve what guys do for her). Nice girls we really appreciate honesty and nice guys, not all of us like douches.
Most of these problems are a result of the Adamiac curse. Pregnancy was never originally intended to be such a painful thing. As for shaving... that beard girl was just plain wrong. I don't even like it when dudes are that hairy. Flat-out gross. However, I agree that makeup shouldn't be necessary.
Oh, the Adamiac curse. Of course. That totally makes sense...
So I was right, being a girl is a curse lol
Men are screwed in different ways. Impotency, frailer mental health, etc. Eve was tricked, but placed a lot of value on what she could do with her body. Adam placed stock in his plans, in being a mastermind. He wasn't tricked, he just chose to be a douche. So men suffer more in the soul, women more in the body.
Wow, never think of it in that way. Yeah, that's probably truth.