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I agree with the 3rd statement but the other ones not.
Let me ask you a question regarding statement 1 & 2 to see if it is for attention (from men and women) or strictly for herself.
Would a woman still wear revealing outfits if she was on an uninhabited island and she was the only person there?
I present myself to the world the way I choose. I wear whatever I like, and I enjoy doing my hair and make up every day. While I take care of my appearance in order to feel good about myself, I certainly want other people to notice. Because the way we style ourselves also conveys our personality to a degree, it shows a perceived image about ourselves. And I don't resonate with overly revealing outfits. It's too trashy and vulgar to show everything off, it drives the whole mystery and allure away. I don't think that it's daring, it's stupid to show private parts in public. It also shows that a woman doesn't respect herself. When you appl for a job, your boss will look you up in social media, and if you have posted seminaked pictures, you don't convey the message of a serious intellectual woman.
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I'll say I agree with number one, everything I do to care for myself and my appearance is for me and not for a man or anyone else. It's always been that way and will always be that way.
Two and three I don't agree with. Am I suppose to believe that Rihanna put on that dress exposing her breasts and all parts of it, to feel confident and powerful but not for attention? I mean, I don't think every girl who puts on a pair of short shorts and t-shirt is necessarily looking for attention. But, anyone who wears something like that picture you have up there or something equally as risqué, it's kind hard to imagine they didn't do that for attention. I mean, I don't buy that it's to feel confident and powerful.
As far as three goes, I disagree because I don't go looking for the hot/cute guy. The guys I'm drawn to just so happen to be cute, but the reason I was drawn to them was because of their vibe or personality, looks has and always will be secondary. At least for me.
Not all women are trying to impress themselves or other women. They are trying to impress men. SO this is a bs post and the agreement could go on forever. The fact is that women will never see the logic men see about the fact that these trends are not only un-attractive, but they are directing women away from the real blessings in life and the true purpose of a womans place on this planet.
Why does exposing your genitals make you feel good. but if someone looks at them you get angry... just saying.
You say that women don't dress for men , so I guess that everything women wear just "happens" to attract men on "accident" right? and most women celebs dress to turn heads of not only men but everyone so yes to a very high degree women do dress for attention.
Now for 2... You say that personality matters more than looks YEAH RIGHT. Unless a below average looking guy has money he has a 0.1% chance of landing even a below average looking female because nowadays, below average looking females are being fwb's with guys who lower their standards for sex while they wait for the more attractive women to come around.
Actually, the women behavior of cutting hair, use makeups and buy nice and sexy cloths was molded by the wishes of men troughout history. The female image is accepted
You girls, feel confident when you think you have a better image then the others, but that image is supported by men ideals, perpectuated by the fact that midia need to sell more to men, influenciating everything.
Now that too is growing with men. We are becoming more what you girls wish.
Yayayayayayayay more hot gusy
@CorrectGirl What does that mean? Google translator disappointed me : (
More hot men
Okay girls who say stuff like "I don't spend hours applying make up on for guys" is talking complete bullshit. Maybe its not only for guys, but its partly for them. Do you put on make up when you are just going to lay around in the house all day? No. I don't anyway cause I'm not arsed to go through all that bother, but I am arsed if I want to make myself seem pretty around people and guys. I don't need to put up on make up for myself cause I am comfortable in my own skin.
Actually, I apply make up even if I'm not going anywhere. I dont like looking bad at home. Thats just me.
Fair enough but usually girls just dont put it on for themselves
This girl has common sense and a bright future.
Thanks lol
This post is basically easy to counteract with the simple truth.
Yes, you dont designer handbags, shave your legs or wear revealing outfits to please men. You do it to compete with other females, a jealousy game. A wicked competitive thing that women play amongst themselves. It does tie back into men eventually trhough because a designer handbag says "look at the expensive designer bag that my partner can afford to buy me - look and weep.. Even having a boyfriend is a game among women before its about the guy.
The original is correct, the things women do in the points she listed has little to do with men like she says. However she does not give a reason about why exactly she does it for herself. There is a lot of reasons women do it and the world revolves around competing with other women.
Id say it has a lot to do with evolutionary reasons I dont like it shows itself in the western woman these days though.
1. Girls wear makeups (not only makeup but everything they wear) only to make other girls jealous. It's just a whory competetion among them.
2. If Rihanna was so comfortable wearing revealing clothes, then she wouldn't have hidden her pubic region with that puffy thing (wtf do you call that?)
3. Girls never search for hot & cute guys, they check guys' background, how much the guy earns, what's his bank balance & property. They will be satisfied with an ugly man who has a small dick if he is a billionaire.
Truth hurts girls?
Oh I'm sorry I didn't know you were a girl. Lol what truth? Okay sweetie. You may wear makeup to make other women jealous with your whory competition. Wow, I didn't even know we were in a whory competition ladies. Rihanna wasn't hiding her pubes. She wore a Jude color thong and you could see her nipples. Nipples are nipples, or are yours more socially acceptable because you're a male? Hmm.. and hey as long as that billionaire had an awesome personality then that'd be cool, him being a billionaire is a plus lol. Just because you're okay with settling with a big booty bitch who looks like shrek doesn't mean we dates guys because he is just a billionaire. Check yourself before you break yourself honey
Thanks for that great idea especially that of your 3 opinion @ babu, I love that. Nearly all of the ladies re fake, they all want riches, fame, looking for unnecessary taste nd attention there by putting themselves into everlasting inconveniences.. if I had seen a decent lady with a reasonable sense of conversation, I assume my ear will actually be longer than what it right now.. lol..
Meanwhile, me and my guys actually want a relationship with a lasting happiness inclusive of the so called bad guys out there ( when they re ready for one ).. Not the type full of lies nd deceits.
You're just bitter, I'm a pretty hot girl who can get most types of men if I wanted.
But I chose a guy who earns 13 dollars an hour who's hot but no model.
I'm an art student with a shit ton of student loans, honestly I would be better off if I did go to some rich guy.
But you know what? Girls are human and we actually want to live with a guy who's fun and nice and wholesome, it's fine if he's rich, but no one in their right mind would settle for a douchebag with money unless she never wanted romance in the first place.
I'm happy watching Netflix eating cheap food we made together and drinking 10$ wine and not a fancy restaurant, I love working hard just to buy that one gift for his birthday, I'm happier in his 400$ rent apartment than anywhere else.
I actually make more money than my boyfriend.. but I have student loand and he doesn't so we're basically even on the money front. I love him because he's a great guy.
Nice try tho... back to the drawing board for an excuse to tell yourself re: why you're alone...
I totally agree with you except number 2 i don't think wearing revealing dress increases someones confidence or makes people powerful, it makes you vulnerable in a way every stranger can see your asset but at home you can wear what ever you want also in public everybody can see that is clear attention seeking tactic. even girls will agree this with me.
Agreed
I agree 👌👍
If you run around basically naked YES you are looking for attention whether you admit it or not. I Dress up and put makeup on and yes it's to make myself feel attractive, but if I all of a sudden decided I needed to streak around in a sequence laden, see though nothing like this, YES it would mean I was seeking attention. Why do people feel the need to defend this sort of behavior.
I do all of that, to look good for guys, what is the shame in admitting it.
I do think too many guys think everything women do is for them or should cater to them but i try to look good for others and that's just the truth.
Amen! @GirlsLie
You have an appropriate username for this take !!!
lol, very true.
Girls do it to look good to society, not just to guys. Not everything we do is for guys. They need to stop giving themselves so much credit.
"I do think too many guys think everything women do is for them or should cater to them but i try to look good for others and that's just the truth."
Pretty sure I just that too lol.
But to deny that the majority of it isn't to look good for the type of person that you want to attract, is ridiculous.
I do think some guys think women should cater to their personal preferences far too much and that's something I will never do, I have my own style but I do like to look good when I go out or even in the house as well.
said* it's too early.
finally somebody who admitted ^_^
This was the worst my take I read so far.. I can somehow understand 1and 3. Point 2 is complete fucking bullshit.. girls who dress like that are attention seeker whores.. "we don't want to get negative comments " lolol... 😂😂😂 if a guy wears something with his dick hanging out.. than he is creepy pervert.. idiot.. jerk.. and you want to say if girl wears this she wants to feel strong and confident.. BS!!!
i agree on nr.1 and nr.3... very rarely wear any makeup, and when i do its normally only powder and some mascara. The times i do it to look more presentable sine i have uneven skinn or just because i want to look a bit nicer/different then i normally do. i dont do it for guys, i look what i look like and if guys dont like my natural look then thats too bad for them. I have never used makeup exclusivly for guys attention.
regarding nr.3 if a guy is hot, but i dont know him and he starts feeling me up then thats not ok. But if we had been dating then a hot guy might be allowed to touch me sooner then a not so hot guy. But a random hot guys would not be able to touch me without any negative reaction
"Wearing revealing outfits doesn't mean we are seeking for attention" not true at all, nothing is ever done without a reason, and spending time and money about look is done for a reason. The reason is attention, not just from boys I'll grant you, but attention and prestige non the less.
Your wrong for sure
I think you girls are delusional, if you actually think you are doing anything in lie without reason.
Everything human does have a reason, and services to put us in a position of advantage. Wearing revealing outfits serves the same purpose, to show off for men and women alike, to put you in a position of advantage.
Thinking otherwise is delusional. But you free to think whatever you want of course, regardless of the truth.
Why do you feel confident when you look good? Because you know people are looking at you and also thinks this. Who will be looking at you and thinking this mostly? Men. Dressing in revealing clothing is to get attention is just the same as the first one. Why was it a "comfort zone" in the first place? Because you knew how people would react to seeing you wear these things.
Because you KNOW that you look good/ like the way you simply are looking? Doesn't have to be about men, men, men. I hate attention, yet still like to take care of myself.
About the revealing clothing-thing, I give you right, tho. Why would anyone dress up like that if not for attention?
I smell Horseshit. If that was the case why aren't unattractive people wearing and doing this stuff. If I've learnt anything about people, it's that even weak people will abuse power over others whether it's through aggression, status or political means.
If you put on make up for yourself then tell MOST (they make up the majority) women to quit complaining about how much time and hassle they have to put into putting on make up because when guys ask why they do it if they hate it so much they say it's because of men...
If wearing revealing cloaths is not to get attention from guys why don't hard core lesbians do it too?
Just another girl who wants us to believe what she would rather us believe then the obvous reality.
"Us girls don't always spend two hours applying makeup and choosing a cute outfit for you guys, we do it to feel confident with ourselves."
Most girls I know do this to impress other women. No one does it for just themselves.
I agree. When people don't plan on leaving the house they put much less effort into their looks.