I know there are still some women out there who respect themselves out there, but more often than not I see a lot of shameful things coming from our gender.
Women today truly lack dignity, morals, and class. I just do not understand how it became socially acceptable for women to talk like trash, look like trash, and act like trash. As ladies, we should have a sense of poise and self respect. All most women do now is leave nothing to the imagination for men, speak like they are uneducated, and shit on other females. For thousands of years we have been looked at as the weaker sex, and the women that I come across today absolutely make us look weaker than ever before. We, as women, have not fought for our rights for equality just to obtain it and have today's "new age" women show we really didn't deserve them.
Ladies, what ever happened to supporting one another's strength rather than knocking each other down. To drag another woman down for whatever no good reason is weakness. It clearly shows that you are not a strong confident female. Then on top of it, you show your bodies, leaving absolutely nothing to the imagination. But you expect to be respected? All your doing is seeking attention. Men see you as easy. Just a piece of meat. You're promoting lust rather than love. Don't be surprised when every single man that enters your life decides to kick you're classless ass to the curb.
Now, you also have the women to talk like they are straight from the hood. Listen I grew up in the hood and I still had grown up using proper grammar. I still knew how to present myself in a professional and classy way. Of course, if the occasion calls for it, I can certainly curse like a sailor and when I was younger fight whatever battles I had to face. But never the less, I have always known how to present myself. I will not shit on another woman because of her looks or success. I will not ruin lives. I will not expose my body on social media. I WILL NOT make a fool of myself or any other woman.
Where women are going wrong:
- Speaking in ghetto slang: It makes us sound unbelievably uneducated. Using phrases such as "What up, G?" and "Yo she be ratchet!"....seriously girls? I don't care if your black, hispanic, Asian, or white. No self respecting woman would want to sound like that. I can only imagine how proud your mothers are. And the type of men your attracting will be just as uneducated as you sound. Oh, but wait..you're from the hood? Well, honestly that's a poor excuse to talk with such ignorance. Plenty of people come straight from the hood and rose up above the typical stereotypes. So why can't it be you?
- Using their bodies for recognition: C'mon ladies, do you truly think after making a video of twerking in your bedroom with just a pair of heels and booty shorts on you're going to attract a man who is going to respect and admire you? What your going to get is a bunch of sex driven, walking hard ons trying to get in those booty shorts. They are going to see nothing but an object and think "Hey, she doesn't respect herself, so why should I?" or "It's clearly easy enough to get some from her, I already saw her half naked online." Yes, because that's what I want in a man, someone who thinks I'm easy as hell. And might I add, easy girls are boring to men.
- Wanting a loser: Now see this one goes hand in hand with what most of you ladies attract. You girls always want the bad boy or thug. But why? Is that what you feel you deserve? Someone who will treat you like you're his "ride or die" chick for a little while and then treat you like garbage, cheat, then kick you to the curb once he gets bored with whatever you though to had to give? No. Every single one of you deserves respect and love. Some of you just need to hold yourself with a hell of a lot more class and self respect so you can attract a decent guy.
- Trashing other women: Now I totally understand that their are just some people you will never get along with/like. But there is no need to go out of your way to literally ruin anothers's life. We constantly degrade, belittle, and quarrel with other females due to jealousy, insecurity, or what have you. But it truly makes us look weak. we all have the same issues to deal with. Gender inequality, Relationship issues, family issues, or the way we appear to men or the world for that matter. And instead of seeing women support one another we're to busy causeing shit over who said this or that or what a person has done. We are all in the buisness of being female so we all deal with the same issues. It doesn't make us look like we can run nations or cure cancer if we can't even properly deal with petty issues and we're constantly waging war against one another.
So if we can't even take each other seriously then how is the rest of the world going to? If we're constantly making fools of ourselves rather than holding up with class and intelligence then how will we ever be able to come together and make a difference in this world like the women before us have? As long as women continue to act like this we will only ever be considered accessories to the world rather than assets. Is that really the legacy you want to leave for you're daughters to inherit? Because I certainly don't. As a mother to a 3 year old daughter, my aim is to raise a strong, independant, successful woman. A leader. Someone who is proud to be herself and values intelligence.
As women, we are our own worst enemies and only we have the ability to change the way we are perceived.