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Thanks for the great take! I've never dated before and this gives me many good reasons why. 😊
This is interesting. So, am i supposed to become a downgraded version of myself for guys to approach me or what?
Lol I think that's what it's insinuating though honestly you should just be yourself it's kind of stupid that you should have to change sort of how you are in order to get approached, it's the guy that approaches despite all that, is the one that gets yeah.
Did anyone read the bottom at all?
i did, i didn't say change. i said become a downgraded version of myself.
the thing is, that last paragraph is telling is we aren't doing anything wrong, but it can scare a guy off...
where is the solution? like i did come here looking for a way to fix this tbh.
The point was that these are just some reasons that you could be intimidating a guy, not that you should change them, but just be comfortable with the fact that a guy who's worth it will appreciate these things. It's for girls that think they aren't being approached because of their looks when there are actually good reasons they aren't being approached.
Does this make sense? I'm kind of finding it difficult to explain this in the best way
yeah i understand. i guess at some point i just wonder if ill ever meet a guy who can appreciate those things. it's easy to connect with people online, but face to face, no one really reaches out to anyone anymore.
i think even confident girls wonder, 'is there something wrong with me?', especially those girls who are over 25 and beginning to feel lonely, u know?
Step 1, go to US
Step 2, talk with Aussie accent
Step 3, don't Stop talking
Step 4, enjoy countless dates bc American dudes ❤ Aussies
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No jk
I know what you mean. I know I'm only 17 but at the same time I have the same feelings. It's what kind of inspired me to start noticing these things.
There aren't many guys like that, but I'd rather have no guy than a guy I don't like.
I'm a pretty confident girl myself but every girl has her moments of feeling a lack of self-esteem. Just gotta keep our heads up and hope the good guy comes along
i'll help clear things up, be yourself. you do you, however, if you (or any girl) wants to know why or wonder how to get guys to start hitting on you, take the advice. believe it or not, it's pretty accurate. if a girl is on her phone all the damn time or she's reading or she just looks busy, like she's not in the mood for someone to approach her, then i'm not gonna say anything. however, if she's just kinda sitting there, looks friendly and doesn't appear at least to rip me a new 1 as soon as air comes out of my larynx, then imma go in
@Other_Tommy_Wiseau i am myself... I'm no one else but myself. thing is, if u think about it, how many people these days just sit there unoccupied? people are never wanting to look alone... everyone has their nose in their phone, a book, the newspaper? something...
im not complaining or anything, I'm just wondering if that's the only solution.
that's true. no, i understand. however, what i'm getting at is the people who are like "i'm never getting approached by guys, why am i so ugly" type people... they exist... i've been on this site. there are other ways to meet girls (or guys), obviously and i almost never go straight up to a girl and just start talking to her for the sake of hitting on her. this applies to a small pocket of women cause i;m pretty sure most girls get hit on way too much, which a lot of guys think so girls become sorta numb to guys doing it and become more "skeptical" (for lack of a better term) and there is this sort of creepy factor that guys have (or we think we have). like, i probably have no shot at her and she's probably gonna think i'm a creep or just in it for sex if i go up to her. i probably didn't clear anything up, but that's what i got for now.
Sorry I don't get it - you're saying guys NOT approaching you is a good thing?
I thought that's what single girls are looking for- meet a guy they want!
Why Guys Aren't Approaching You
I stopped reading at the title. If she's not interested in me, then I'm not interested in her. It goes both ways.
You've done your research on this take. Agree with all points. Those are all behaviors that would keep me from saying hi to someone.
The resting bitch face is probably the strongest reason guys won't approach a girl. Every time I see a girl with that face I don't even try it.
6 & 10 are close.
9 is kinda close but not quite there.
The rest is silly. On the whole, you're not helping people with this. The proper advice is if you like a guy then you should approach him, asking him out and whatever else, make things happen. Promoting egotism and entitlement seems like the shitty thing to do.
Nice take.
My personal reason: I'm fat, depressed and laying on the couch most of the time I'm not at work. 😆
i think i don't get approached because i don't have good body language and also look bored all the time. the fact i look like a toddler and dress like shit is just an added bonus lol
Why bother dating, no one is worth meeting. You'd be a lot happier getting rich and living in a castle. Die alone in a bathtub of cash, trust me I'm sure it's lovely enough.
Yikes! Have you been following me around? I feel like you just showed me a huge mirror! Thank you for the insight♡
Good take
As a man
I know why girls don't approach me or I don't approach them. Bitchy face is one. Body language is another.
Girls don't date me
No car
No job due to medical problems
And I don't date them mostly due to distance.
I agree especially with # 10, using phone as a safe-zone. . . . a way to avoid human interaction.
I have had so many comments about my facial expression, hahahah :')
Half of those or so apply to me. Eh its whatever. I would like more guys to approach me but I'm not going to stop being myself.
I get #2 and #3 all the time. Maybe girls should approach instead
oh wait they don't because their not suppose to go through rejection.
The fck is "Frenemies" ?
And I would have loved if in the bottom text it read "Girls, it's the 21st centruy; don't be afraid to approach guys"
Frenemies is a friend who is also your enemy. Basically, a love/hate relationship.
@Terrell456 Thanks... English is my third language
The biatch face and always being on phone does it for me
It's tough to find a person to connect and date. There are characteristics that come into play, I believe their someone out there for everyone.
Why do you believe that there is someone out there for everyone?
Ladies, no man is gonna talk to you if you have a sour look on your face. It makes you seem mean and unapproachable.