I'm talking about girls who think it's cute to tell guys that they are bitchy or crazy as if it makes them look badass.
Also, girls who think that cussing makes them somehow bitchy when it doesn't. Even "nice girls" cuss on occasion. It just makes girls who are trying too hard to be bitchy look even more fake and try hard, and the true bitches are the ones who are laughing at you.
It's funny how some girls who try too hard to act bitchy do not realize that it comes off as desperate.
2. Putting down another girl's body type or height to make herself feel better
Also girls who assume or act like they know what men want in a women. When some girls say things like "most men prefer tall girls" or say "men don't like Victoria Secret models." How do some women know what all men like?
3. Hitting a guy or a girl, and getting surprised when you get hit back
I'm pretty sure this one speaks for itself.
4. Girls who date an asshole then date another one after they get hurt
I get it appearance matters, and men do this too when they go for the bitchy girl or the girl that hurts them over and over again, but if you have been hurt before and you see the red flags, get out!
There are attractive men who will treat you right. I know some guys will appear nice but it amazes me how some women will follow the same pattern time after time and expect a different result.
I'm pretty positive that is the definition of insanity.
5. Girls who feel the need to announce to the world or me that they are on their period
What do you think? I'm a robot or something?
6. Girls who fight over men
Ok I can understand if the girl tries hit you, then by all means swing because it's self defense
If a guy you are in a relationship with does you wrong, then fighting is not going to make it stop.
He was the one who chose to cheat or whatever offense he did to upset the girl but no man who cheats or hurts you is worth fighting over.
However, at the same time that does not make her a saint either because some women deliberately pursue taken men. No matter the situation, they are both wrong.
7. The women who expect guys to initiate everything
I don't understand why some girls complain about guys they like not approaching them yet they make no effort to initiate. How about approaching the guy.
No one is asking women to propose to them, just do not expect a guy to do everything. It's ok to call him first or text him first.
Oh my god, thank you. Freaking #1 is one of my biggest pet peeves and a lot of girls seem to do it. "Oh my gosh, like, I'm such a bitch! *cute giggle*" No, that's not cute. Being a bitch is not a redeeming or good quality. That's like men bragging about sleeping with tons of random women. Do they actually think it's an impressive quality?
@Mesonfielde Right? It just seems silly to me. Thankfully I think it's mostly girls in high school, but I've seen college-aged or even women do it too. It's really annoying when people encourage qualities that are not good whatsoever (i. e.: being cruel to people).
I'm surprised that there are women who do number 5. I do everything I can to make sure no one knows I am on my period. It's a personal thing, and no one needs to know but me. If for some reason I ever get in a relationship, then obviously my boyfriend would know, but otherwise I don't get it.
I also don't understand number one but I do know of plenty who this. Some women even brag about it on Facebook. Why is being a bitch a good thing? A girl I knew years ago actually put that on her dating profile.
So for this one it's just "some" things you don't understand about your gender, but with the opposite sex it's all men. Lol.
Well, let me say to this - "When some girls say things like "most men prefer tall girls" or say "men don't like Victoria Secret models." How do some women know what all men like?" - Sometimes knowing a person's preference is apparent. Most men like shorter women, so saying most men like tall ones isn't really accurate. And most men don't really want VS type women. If you look around you'll notice that a lot of guys' girlfriends and wives have average bodies with meat on their bones.
For No.6, you're assuming that the guy cheated as the reason for why women are fighting over him. False. Often times the man has made no commitment to either of them but both are interested in him, want him, and hopes he picks one.
And I don't entirely disagree with women wanting a guy to initiate.
Either you are just butthurt about the guy version or you never bothered to read my Disclaimer on the guy version that exclusively states it's a Generalization
This is the disclaimer from the guy version since you can't read well
"Disclaimer: you don't get five stars for realizing that most of these on my list are generalized and are not true about all men, but I will give you five stars anyways)"
@ikissedtheskyonce Oh I read it and got it the first time, it just still is contradictory. In any case, if you need to block me, feel free. It's not personal, I advise everyone to do so if they're uncomfortable with me.
Most men like women average to slightly athletic body but not super models or very thin ones. It's the apparent 'healthy' look that will get the men, not the slim look.
Men tend to like women who are slightly shorter. Ideally, only 1-3 inches shorter than they are. However, women tend to wear heels which make them a fair bit taller than they are. A good guess would be having your eyebrows at the same height as the guy with your heels on.
Men, however, do admire women with longer legs and the posture when a woman wears heels. Probably the heels would increase a woman's attractiveness by at least 30%.
Men are also built to be loyal to their families but are willing to cheat if they stop liking their families or think it's falling apart. They are also more likely going to cheat if: #1 they feel entitled to it or #2 they can get away with it.
Trust me, we don't all look for that. Mainly just teenage guys who want to have the "hottest" girlfriend or guys who want to be able to show off how they managed to get a girl who looks like a model.
I noticed a lot of guys go after bitchy girls and their only excuse is because they want sex. Then they will complain about gold diggers instead of blaming themselves that they attract gold diggers
Good my take but the pic of meat and bones... Errrm u just contradicted yourself by posting that particular image, like ur saying being slim is bad just coz of ur pic choice. Hopefully just one of those things where u didn't mean it to come across that way...
bitches usually have their pick of bfs though. I have been jealous of them for that, because people also listen to them a lot but not to me! And the girls who announce their periods R brave. I'm always worried about people judging me for pms, but not giving a sh! t is so cool to me.
I'm agreeing the shit out of 1 and 2 :D 3, well everyone else can hit back if they want, but I'm not hitting a girl. 4, love the picture ;P 5, you don't have to scream from the rooftops, but a discrete nudge would be appreciated for idiots like me. 6, just don't fight, please. 7, agree again.
Ahah, I wish we could just come straight out and say that most women are like this. Or just say "women are like this" and assume people will know what you mean: all the logical rules about generalising are just confusing. Generalisations are never strictly 'logical' anyway and yet... we need generalisations to make sense of the world.
They are addicted to attention and immature, always making themselves the center of the universe, expecting everything from the guy not giving anything in return but p*ssy like this would be some kind of divine prize. Please return to the real world, honestly, everyone tired of this kind of shitty behaviour. About the last one, yes you shouldn't expect for the guy to always make the first move. But from my experience, guys tend to take for granted the ones that are a little brave.
For the most part i think women are like intricate paintings, the more you try to understand them the more confused you will get lol. Otherwise most of the behavior stems from hurt pride, envy and self hate. Which is sad because when they act normal, they can be really cool and awesome people
Wow, pretty much every frustration a lot of guys have about these types of girls all nicely summed up. Not like us guys are perfect either, haha, but eh.. Great read.
Nice my take. I really like number 3. In middle school a girl hit me a few times and then was in shock when I hit her back. In highschool I would have play hit her back but I imagine her reaction would have been the same.
and thats why i dont give a shit bout dating anymore. seems to me that i need to be a 11/10 man wise so guess what? im just an average dude. im sorry i will never be enough for some high standard average looking mind games playing insecure girl with one or more of these complex! great take
The book for understanding men is probably just as big. Been married 24yrs, still dont understand my husband. Like why he still finds me attractive and wants sex with me when I'm 45, aging and fat? Guys age so much better, they get wrinkles, they gain wait and go gray or lose hair but often times they still look handsome. No fair.
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