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Why Women Have A Hard Time Finding Good Men (Page 3)
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Conversations is on point most women can't keep a steady flow with a stranger the first couple of dates and there the ones bragging on there dating profiles that they want men who can hold good conversations but i find my self interrogating them once they can't follow up with any material with a topic I even provided just to cover there silence and its always worst when you know everything about them and they haven't asked you anything related to your life or interest
I understand what you are saying but it seems as if you had a case of the "flakes". Both guys and girls can be flaky. I think a lot of women online are cautious about who they talk to and meet up with as well. Today, if you reject a guy, he insulting you and in some cases resorting to violence. If a girl is not talking that much either she's not that interested or she's shy. I have tried online dating and have encountered a few idiots. Can't stand the ones that ghost.
i can only talk about my girl friends but let me tell you they are none of the things you complained about (except yeah they can act a fool every once in a while but if i were to decide between a really drunk girl and a really drunk guy id pickthe girl because the girl might talk some real shit but at least i won't have to worry about my physical wellbeing.)
I'm happy you finally found a girlfriend like that.
I have been on the same boat of finding the right woman.
From my experience for the past 5 month. All the girls who were into me just wanted to hookup with me. Yes they were the ones asking me questions and hinting things to see my reaction.
I hated that I felt objectified, again I'm also successful in my life and that drew fuckgirls to me.. it's really difficult to find a girl who don't consider herself a princess and social media celebrity.
Most of these problems stem from modern feminism. It's got everybodies perceptions all screwed up. Both men AND women are losing out.
I'm a very successful man in my 30s. I house a house, in great shape, travel, have hobbies, have been told I am good looking AND YET I am struggling to find a decent woman
Rewind three years ago. I was broke struggling up and coming mma fighter. I owned nothing and had a complete POS car. However I was getting laid and had an attractive very responsible girlfriend. I wasn't a douch but I was living like a 19 year old. Now I'm doing the right thing I'm ironically getting punished.
GIRLS there are PLENTY OF GOOD MEN OUT THERE!!! But you need the self discipline to resist judging guys so quickly. You don't want us judging you, so return the favor!
So basically, if a girl has trouble finding what she calls a good man, it's her fault, and if a guy has trouble finding what he sees as a good woman, it's her fault?
Right, Ok.
Have you guys ever thought about taking some responsibility for why you're single?
Maybe it's your attitude. You're no more entitled than the next person.
@MissGeorgia dating for single men is NOT the same as dating for single woman (when looks, attittude, money are all equal).
ALL women test men to a certain degree. They are usually testing his masculinity and his is HARDWIRED into their DNA. It's why assholes/dbags do so well with women. They have a FALSE sense of confidence and most women can't tell the difference.
I can list out the all of the horrible experiences I've had in the last few months and yes I admit I'm getting bitter. Yes I know I need to have a good attitude. However do you call me expecting to be treated the SAME WAY I treat women (which is usually well) entitled?
Everybody has had a horrible experience, or more than one with opposite sex. We all have. That's just life. It doesn't make everybody the same.
It's a vicious circle. People get treated badly, they become defensive and that has a knock on effect to the next person they meet and the cycle goes on, but how bitter it makes you is up to you.
You can't take what some women do out on other women who aren't like that. We're not all the same. Everyone hurts everyone, good or bad. Nobody's perfect.
Good guys hurt women too. Good women hurt guys. It just happens, you can't always help it.
I screwed up badly with a guy I thought the world of for a long time. I think in the end, all he saw was a bratty heartless bitch. What he didn't see was how much sleep I lost over how I treated him and how I tortured myself over it. I'd just met him at a time when I was afraid to be vulnerable.
Things aren't always the way they seem on the surface.
@MissGeorgia did you ever follow up with that guy? At least send him an email about how you felt horrible for screwing up? Something very serious happened after I broke up with 2nd to last ex. This is something that is going to impact the rest of my life (msg privately if you want to know the details). I did the responsible thing and told her about it. Her literal response was "ahhh I'm fine. As for you, you an EX so tough luck". Initially I thought she was emotional/bitchy and would follow up with an apology later. However almost three years past and I never heard back. I finally sent her a last email explaining how hurt I was about that but I ultimately forgave her. She tweeted later she had a horrible week and I know it made her feel bad BUT she could never confess that to me. If she just took 10 mins to do so I would have felt much better. She utilized her emotions to justify not just rejecting me as a boyfriend, but as a human being. Men don't do this as much
I dated several other women during that time period by the way. However what she did to me haunted me for a very very long time. Made me hesitant to ever fully trust/commit to anyone else
Hey, sorry for the late reply.
Weirdly I saw him the other day and it seems like we're cool.
I did apologise a long time ago for my part, but it still set of a chain of events made us both be crappy to each other for a long time, so that kind of voided it. We didn't talk for a while, then we made up but it was still weird and he seemingly didn't want to be around me, but he smiled and waved the other day, so maybe it's settling down. Who knows... but he knows I'm sorry.
You're anonymous so I can't message you. Some women like to front, like some guys do. Backing down can feel weak, and she may just have not wanted to be vulnerable with you. It was her way of feeling in control of the situation, by the sound of things. It is selfish, but she won't feel that until someone makes her feel the way she made you feel. Then she'll get it.
I'm sorry to hear you had such a crappy time with someone you cared about. Not all women behave the same way. She's just immature.
@MissGeorgia no worries. You are right about her "not wanting to be vulnerable". Ironically she was TOO vulnerable and nice when we dated. I never said a word about this of course. However I got first hand experience on why girls don't like nice guys. Despite that I would rather stay with a girl who is too nice versus too bitchy.
I'll message you about this incident. Of everything she should have ever apologized this was the king of kings. She basically did a "180" in her approach. It was worse thing she could have done
Both you and your girlfriend sound amazing!!! <3 I wish you both happiness! :-)
I have a difficulty finding a decent guy too. By 'decent' I don't mean a rich guy with an expensive car or a gym obssessed guy (I dated those and I am over them). I just mean a guy with some brains, a guy who doesn't want me for sex or want my money. Unfortunately, though I am a 'good girl', I can't seem to find a decent guy.
Because the vast majority just want sex. Most have their own money at least.
@likitb4istickit yes, bu there is also something that happens over and over: if there is a decent guy around, like at work, he is already taken😢
Well yeah, the good ones aren't on the market for long. Most have to settle for leftovers that no one else wants. I got tired of the drama of that and have just stayed single for the past few decades.
@likitb4istickit interesting. Once you're used, you're leftover. 😂
@antsy just just used. Some that no one has wanted or paired off with and are still virgins in their 20's and 30's are leftovers as well (leftover since no one wants to bed them). Sorta like the kid or 2 that gets picked last on the playground for kickball or something because no team wants them due to their small size and/or lack of skill.
"wouldn't call myself athletic, but I value my health and hit the gym often and enjoy taking fitness classes. I also wouldn't peg myself as popular, but I do have a great group of friends that I hang out with every weekend. "
Your problem.
1. Not 6'0+ and most likely doesn't have top 1% body so meh.
2. Not popular
Women value 3 things:.
1. MONEY
2. LOOKS
3. SOCIAL STATUS
Let see if you got a good job for them to at least consider you a provider.
To correct my previous statement. If your over 6'0+, many women are willing to be with you if your skinny or have a dad bod. Under this height you have to compensate in some way with a nice face, terrific personality, or have a nice body.
You claim women are so judgmental yet here you are, judgmental and hypercritical. Pot, meet kettle
Is it too much to ask for a guy who doesn't hate women, doesn't constantly bash us, isn't unattractive, is nice, sweet and funny and smart? Apparently it is lol
$10 says he doesn't actually have a girlfriend 😂
@assley probably not haha
from my knowledge and the things i now understand
most women are not worth my time they are ignorant and stupid there is only a small portion of them I would even consider as date able
and its not based on looks
or personality
or money
it's all based on belief plus when I hear a lot of these girls talk on G@G they sound so stupid
Nice Mytake could also add in that women tend to not realize after the first bad break up that maybe where they are going for hook ups. May not be the best place to look for a other half if the first one failed in a harsh way.
Yeah, because men never do that...
@Roxyisfoxy men do lol they aren't going to go back to where they had a failed relationship they move on.
Nahh. Mot guys keep going back to the same woman that doesn't deserve him that keeps hurting him.
@Dwiller924 Actually thats cause that type of guy is just too lazy and not an actual guy he is just a lazy tool who just likes getting it where its easy.
Personally, the reasons I have a difficult time finding a decent man is because. I still have an old school mentality when it comes to dating. I wait to bring a man home to my family, I like phone calls, I like my door being held, I wait to have sex, I like proper dates even if it's just a walk in the park. And now a days majority of the guys I've dated want everything NOW and don't want to date like we used to m back then.
You will have to wait for that person. Men who claim that they want good women don't have their sh. it together. These men have broken spirits and traumatized by their own failures that they don't accept-never at fault. Marry a non-widow killer man, single man who never gotten married with kids or you will suffer forever because of he will treat you like his enemy while he can't leave you the f. uck alone.
@antsy SO well put... I couldn't put my finger on it, but I have seen that attitude of guys projecting their own shortcomings onto the women they want to date. And expecting all women to cater to them. It's kind of cyclical... if a guy is not going to put much effort into courting someone... unless she's desperate, she's not going to settle for the dude or take him seriously.
@Rosalie0725 You both have hit everything on the spot! :)
The convo part is 100% correct. It's almost like every girl thinks every guy could potentially like them. I've made friends with several women this semester. Mostly the ones in my friend group. But I've noticed at the start and even still now a good amount are awkward in convo with me and other guys. like they don't dominate convos ever they are really passive which makes them boring to talk to.
You're choosing the wrong women to date. Go for girls that got they stuff together. Meeting a quality person up in the club isn't very likely.
Where are you supposed to meet quality people though? that's the only trick :D
@frozenhorizon religious organizations, charities. Meetup groups. I think for you, you need to look beyond the hottie at the bar or club in order to find someone with substance.
I didn't write this FYI haha.
Also not religious. Meetup groups might work but so far most of the meetup groups I've gone to have been mostly guys. I dunno.
I don't try meeting people at bars though that's a terrible option haha
"women aren't finding guys they're browsing through them" lol
This is why I have given up on women for the last 12 years. They are so easily turned off and will reject you over the most petty thing. Some years ago on a night out I met a woman called Amy. She was all over me and wanted sex. But when she found out that I was just one year younger than her, she got up and left, just because she was one year older than me. Feminism and the media has made women completely irrational and illogical. It's just not worth the hassle anymore.
You are saying you are not this and not that but then you stated something that cimpletely contradict with what you stated earlier and also make it obvious that your are faking your modesty. You sure you did graduate on top your class?
He can be. That is why he has a sense of feeling perfect. I can relate with him. My ego boosts 500% when I was chosen to be the exceptional intern. 😂.
What makes me happy?
Do things I enjoy. I don't worry about people not catching up with me or I can't keep up among them. I love challenges. If there are men and women who are beyond me, I appreciate and enjoy them who push me to my limits.
I have a few wish lists for my man: perfect teeth, big penis, and wonderful personality. Everything else can be negotiable. 😂
@antsy k...
Because good men, White men, are done with women. White men don't approach, hit on and ask girls out anymore. MGTOW is a mass phenomenon among White men. Easily 90%+ of all White men world wide don't approach and hit on girls anymore. Among blonde men it's 99%+.
So women, all women, have to take what they can get: ugly Black and Brown "men". And that's EXACTLY what women deserve.
Good men are not for you anymore, women.
Now I'm sure some of who read that comment are questioning some of the easily disprovable statements BlondeBlueEyes made. But I'm here to tell you that he is completely correct. All 8 million blonde men in the US got together for the largest single convention of people ever assembled. It was covered massively in the media, as any such convention would be. I don't know how you might have missed it. At the convention all of us blondes decided to stop dating women, except for that asshole Jimmy. Jimmy is always messing things up. So that's why none of you women have been hit on by a blonde guy over the past few years. You might think you have, but that's just your crazy girl cooties lying to you. Now you are stuck dating only blacks, inferior brunettes, and Jimmy. Seriously, screw Jimmy. But all in all we are very proud of all the interracial dating and the eventual extinction of blonde hair from society. Good job everybody! Except you Jimmy, screw you.
I'm excited for the result but we will see how long it will last. I'm sure they are still watching porn women. 😂
@Map4Territory I had a recent profile posted somewhere where I disclosed my income, and other things. I had a few men sent me messages. When I declined that I was able to buy my own drinks and drink them with a dildo next to me, they went berserk caling me a feminist or bitch.
I don't need a man to house and feed me. I want a man who respect women. No buts and ifs.
I love to push people off to check who they are for real. 😂
This post is too overly-generalized for me. I can agree with the observations and say that one or more apply to certain women. But I can't say every girl I've ever known has all of these traits. I have seen several exceptions.
The vast majority of women today have horrid personalities. There are very pretty to look at granted but nice face and good sex will not keep a good man around.
So men have opted to use women for short time then dump them when their done.
That is why women, many of them don't want to please men anymore. They know that men are disrespectful to all women.
Those imaginary bad women you guys think are women you guys hurt in the past. They are hurt by men who think that they have rights to women's vaginas. If they don't comply, they get rape.