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You can have cold weather in a hot climate, and you can have hot weather in a cold climate. In the same way, a plain person can be beautiful, while many pretty celebrities are known for being downright ugly.
What I am speaking about has to do with the outside vs the inside: attractiveness, or good looks, is external, while real beauty is internal.
I agree :)
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. No one can tell YOU what you find beautiful, so ignore those that try. What I find beautiful may not be what you find beautiful. And what makes someone beautiful to me does not always have to do with what they physically look like. Way too much emphasis is placed on looks. Someone once told me that I only felt like that because I wasn't beautiful. But I'd much rather people see the beauty inside. I've learned to be cool with being plain Jane.
I agree with the following sayings:
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
"Everyone is beautiful in their own way"
"True beauty comes from within"
"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." (Proverbs 31:30)
agree with what you said :)
If a blind person says you're beautiful, are they lying?
if they were... be careful... blindness and lying are linked!!
If they're telling the truth then this mytake is true... to a small minority :(
wdym
@Sheriblossom
The reality is that only a small minority can see the beauty inside of people. The majority feel it's ok to just see a glimpse of it on the outside. Some even justify it with science and they're not wrong. It's just wrong to think that way even if it's true.
To single out people is always going to hurt someone. They wouldn't do it to their relatives and family, but they do it to others. It's a sad world, right?
:) I'm not judging people who can't see things from my point of view, everyone can believe what they want to, but what affects me more is what I do with my own life. Thanks you for clarifying your opinion
Quite a beautiful piece of my take, and I do agree that attractive face doesn't equal to beauty as there are lots of other things that is beautiful about a person
Thank you :)
Without sounding conceited or anything - because I’m not, I’ve had guys say to my friends things like ‘ she’s not just pretty or cute, but beautiful too’ which is what I think you’re talking about here.
:) thats the idea i;m trying to address, thank you for understanding my point
Being attractive means a pretty face, a nice pair of tits, a toned body, perfect hair, proportionate, etc.
Being beautiful means having a pure soul, brings agood person, appreciating people and the good things about life.
You can 100% be attractive and beautiful but it’s rare
I agree. It’s really sad whenever I compliment someone and they get so happy about it, it just shows how much they really on physical attractiveness
I’m going to be honest, I do too sometimes. It’s the society that makes us believe that physical appearance should be a priority. I can’t help but think whether someone is with me because of my personality or because of how I look, it can be confusing
rely on*
Everyone has something that makes them beautiful. We are all different and those differences makes us beautiful. I think you are right saying this. Just because you're pretty doesn't mean you have real beauty. Real beauty is on the inside. Plus you're outer beauty will fade. Everything eventually sags, bags, and wrinkles.
I think the face is in indeed a main part of beauty, way above the rest, so I would say it is important, but for a relationship, beauty is not the single factor to have in mind, but that's a different story
I;m not speaking in terms of a realtionship. I also find physical attractiveness in a guy as a very important thing. But I wouldn't be the one to call an "ugly" guy not beautiful. As an artist, you learn to see something ugly, and something of value and beautiful. not all beauy is sunshine and rainbows
Well beauty has a lot to do with symmetry, sharp features
Stuff like that
thats only physical appeal, beauty is a little different. Imagine the sexiness/pretty/cuteness is an apple. But beauty is the fruit. ( Hotness is just a small part of beauty as a whole)
For the most part. People seem to make their decisions based on phyiscal beauty
cause personality can be changed and adapted according to who you are with. But their looks won't change
that is not entirely true. I don;t want to share my own personal story, but I'm sure my mother could tell you how my dad has "changed" over the last 30 years together.
physical beauty will 100038897% change too its not forever
Lol its relative change
Like i also change and age with my wife so i don't notice it
But if she's pretty when she was young. Ill also find her pretty when old. That doesn't change
not everyone thinks that way.
thats why you also see lots of older people get with people half their age
Ya because of how she looks lol
Thats what im saying
90% of people prolly go for looks first then the rest comes after. If they aren't attracted nothing comes after that
U don't think?
I agree, but that's not what I'm trying to address. I'm not saying which one people care about more. I'm just saying that beauty is a broad term, and physical appeal is only one aspect; it's not the only thing that defines beauty
No, not everyone is beautiful. Beauty make be skin deep but ugly is to the bone.
And yes, a pretty face IS beauty. Duh.
Love can't start 'till attraction does. And then there needs to be a conversation. So work on your beauty and your social skills, and you'll find a good guy.
Agreed, physical attraction is super important. :) However, the point I was trying to make wasn't referring to which was more desirable, rather than the fact that something ugly is also beautiful
Uh, no. Garbage isn't beautiful. Too general. Sorry toots. Creative, but not realistic. :)
everyone views it differently :)
No, they don't. Ugly is not beautiful no matter who considers it. You're being completely silly and just want to argue, which is a giant fail in itself.
We're done... by-bye. :)
lol okay, have a great day :)
You got a nice image in your head which is positive. What matters is your opinion on yourself. Not others.
My opinion does differ in that everyone needs to be approached neutrally.
Both negative and positive perceptions lead to negative concequences.
I feel like everything we define as positive or not positive is alll just in our minds :) I just want to learn to be open minded to everything so I really don't mind if people don't agree with me
just read the first part. pretty face is not the only thing that matters. its like a fat girl with nice features. we need to be hot entirely. thats how the world works. even if you are a bitch people see first how hot you are being a bicth.
This is the most delusional feel good shit I’ve read on here in a second
delusional in what way? This is how I think, I understand if outsiders can comprehend my brain :)
*can't comprehend my brain
I’m sure ur just dieing to date a fat ugly guy 😂😂 u may not be as superficial about looks as some but ur still superficial to some degree like everyone else
Actually, I have really high expectations from a guy, and that involves being fit and working out and stuff. This is probably why I'm still single. I know that I'm superficial, and yes, I prefer attractive guys. But I don't really feel like it's right to call a less physically appealing guy not beautiful. Go back to the Picasso example I gave. I want a physically attractive guy but I won't be tempted to cal an "ugly" guy not beautiful.
"I believe that everyone is beautiful. and I'm not lying."
How ever you define beauty, what you say is logically impossible.
The way I see it, ugliness is also a form of beauty
but you don't believe that. You immediately give extremal examples as if trying to convince me. How would you even know what ugliness is, why do you even bring that up? You keep pushing this idea of accepting people the way they are (I have no problems with this), but then you follow up with remarks about looks or something simple like that. Your audience is not convinced mainly because you have little to no idea what you are talking about.
.. or perhaps you believe these are the 'right things' to say. What ever the case, it is a lot of wishful thinking.
It's okay :) I know that not everyone will agree with what I say, nor understand it. I try my best to do a good job of that, but it I can't then I'll keep that in mind for next time and do a better job
I agree with some of the other posters here that you are confusing the words attractive and beauty.
I do agree that they aren’t the same for sure
Wdym? can you explain? I'm just trying to say that physical appealing people have only got down one aspect of the term beauty. That alone doesn't determine how beautiful someone is.
I used to agree with you.
Then I learned that no woman is beautiful on the inside. So all that really matters is how she looks.
If you're going to get a monster either way, might as well go with the monster you enjoy looking at.
I wonder about the types of women you know because I know many who are not monsters at all lol
That's because you're one of them. Scorpions don't think scorpions are that bad.
Lol what makes me a monster? I feel like the only think that is really bad about me if I were in a relationship would be that I get hurt easily and trust too much haha
You're 16, so you haven't really had the time to become a full woman. You might have actually *not* cheated on your boyfriend yet. Chances are you haven't pulled an "Oops" pregnancy on a man yet. I doubt you've gotten married, so you most likely haven't destroyed a man's life just because you could and you were bored. Though 16 isn't too young to have made false accusations; I knew females that had made false accusations at 14 or 15. Teen girls are refining their skills at manipulation, so it's likely you've either used men to get free stuff or sicced white knights on someone that offended you by committing the cardinal sin of paying attention to you while not being "OMG SO HAWTT!!!"
Without knowing you personally, I can't say you're definitely guilty of X, Y, or Z. I just know female nature.
damn who hurt you lol I've been hurt by many guys but yet i'm suppose to believe i'm the monster lol okay... :(
@lotv56
Could you please look up some new shaming language? That stuff you just spewed is tired. So very tired.
by the way, I didn't say that all of that happened to me. Some did. Some was what friends and family have gone through. ALL of it is what you'll hear from tens of millions of men. Especially if he was dumb enough to get married.
And unlike women, men are hesitant to talk about this because no matter what happened, we'll be blamed and mocked, while she'll be rewarded.
Umm no. You are basically the male version for females who say " all men are pigs" I don't see women being praised for saying that lol both of you are wrong.
@lotv56
Women get praised and rewarded for saying that all the time.
The difference is, if someone is interested in facts and logic rather than Feelz, it's easy to find proof of everything I've said.
But I wouldn't expect a female to understand logic and facts. I might as well go down to the local animal shelter and have a conversation about philosophy with a cat.
No. I understand you have hurt in your heart. I guess all the women who are doctors have the right to refuse to help you if you ever need medical help since you don't think they can understand logic or facts. The fact is that you are a lost soul. Jesus christ can help you with that. HE came and died for your sins. The women who have hurt you in the past gave into sinful temptations. You yourself are sinful and not innocent as well. No one is innocent in this earth only children. But Jesus can change that for you. He's the only one who can truly show you love if you let him. He can also present you a woman who will love you.
Of course we shouldn’t be manipulated by media-induced standards of beauty, ofen airbrushed so that those imperfections are not seen.
An attractive face certainly helps, but it's not everything- her smile, personality and other things also matter.