abundance mentality do you know what is that You are from India and u speak to Italian chick u lost your mind you probably know what it means Lets just be friends In girls language it means - you are ugly im not attracted to you Im just honest and i think u need some advicve so i just share my knowledge
Pretty much, but I'm also afraid of humiliation, which often comes from rude rejection. I'll never understand why some women need to make a scene during rejection. They have to be loud and proud that they just turned me down. Why? I try to keep my offers on the down low. It's a private matter, not a public spectacle. Why can't they respect that?
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Its true. The gossip network among girls is absurd. If one girl laughs at you by the end of the day they're all laughing at you. Best just to wait til they hit the wall. Then they'll be begging for your time and attention and you can dispose of them with as much cruelty as you see fit.
Then why do they constantly go after stuck up mean girls that would clearly reject them rudely, but yet fear going after the nice girl that would reject them more gently? 🤔
The problem with this is that most girls feel very uncomfortable being asked out by a guy they aren't interested in, and they naturally react in a dismissive and defensive way. Y'all are no better at rejecting than most guys are at asking out.
This is very informative. I never knew that rejecting a guy in a rude way would affect the way other women treat them. I'm sorry that some women have done that to you.
I agree, but remember that when we get rejected we often fear physical violence. I rejected a guy for being two hours late to a date once and he went psycho and threatened to harm me.
I guess so but in my experience, no matter how politely you reject someone, there's still a big chance that he'll just flip out on you and become aggressive anyway.
For some reason I get the feeling that you are too much of a nice guy... Most gals would get bored with that. Be a little bit asshole at times and don't give them full attention all the time. You could aprear like a "puppy dog" when you're too nice.
A girl rejected me so badly once, it made me not ask any women out for years. Looking back, she wasn't that hot, and she had a mess of problems and bad traits. Most women won't reject you like that, and the ones that do, you shouldn't want anyway.
Naw. A strong guy is independent, so it doesn't matter HOW she rejects. She is the one that loses. Remember, YOU ARE THE PRIZE! Women will come and go, but a real man is a prize to behold.
I’m afraid of the rejection period. This means the things we shared, the moments and the time was all just a mind game leading me on to be one of your orbiters when you were my 1st pick.
There is something, in my opinion, even worse than a rude rejection. Something women use very often. It's ignoring the guy. That stuff hurts so much more.
I'm all fine with it. I'm like an ice-cold person that would not express any feelings towards the rejection of the girls. 'Okay fine, I'll move on asking other girls out. Leave, Mikey. It's not worth. Such a waste of time."
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Some girls get a huge ego stroke from doing this shit. But as they grow older and less attractive all of the sudden fewer and fewer guys approach them. Reason being is that looks will fade but a shitty personality won’t.
As they grow older? I know very young people who have far less chance of a date than people three times their age. Because they are losers, bores, creeps etc.
@bethshepherd I’m pointing an ugly truth here. Some young women have tons of power only because they are attractive and nothing else. It doesn’t matter if their are smart or not, driven or not, honest or not, etc. Guys are visual so they are easily suckered into one thing.
Does that mean all these pretty young girls have crappy personalities? No. Lots of them realize it’s more than that. But then there are others who running around getting their hair done, nails done, working mediocre jobs (some don’t work period) with absolutely no ambition at all besides putting up Instagram pictures. These women have no future.
I go out of my way to be nice about it. I want to concentrate on school and am not ready for even a casual relationship. Being mean about it makes no sense.
It might depend on they type of person you areare , you might be sensitive to harsh words or you might just throw it over the hedge. Its the same with girls.
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abundance mentality do you know what is that
You are from India and u speak to Italian chick u lost your mind
you probably know what it means
Lets just be friends
In girls language it means - you are ugly im not attracted to you
Im just honest and i think u need some advicve so i just share my knowledge
Pretty much, but I'm also afraid of humiliation, which often comes from rude rejection. I'll never understand why some women need to make a scene during rejection. They have to be loud and proud that they just turned me down. Why? I try to keep my offers on the down low. It's a private matter, not a public spectacle. Why can't they respect that?
Its true. The gossip network among girls is absurd. If one girl laughs at you by the end of the day they're all laughing at you. Best just to wait til they hit the wall. Then they'll be begging for your time and attention and you can dispose of them with as much cruelty as you see fit.
Then why do they constantly go after stuck up mean girls that would clearly reject them rudely, but yet fear going after the nice girl that would reject them more gently? 🤔
The problem is that you can't tell who is the mean girl or who is the nice girl. The truth comes out after they get asked out.
The problem with this is that most girls feel very uncomfortable being asked out by a guy they aren't interested in, and they naturally react in a dismissive and defensive way. Y'all are no better at rejecting than most guys are at asking out.
Then they need to tune up on there rejection skills.
This is very informative. I never knew that rejecting a guy in a rude way would affect the way other women treat them. I'm sorry that some women have done that to you.
It sometimes does.
Happens all the time.
I agree, but remember that when we get rejected we often fear physical violence. I rejected a guy for being two hours late to a date once and he went psycho and threatened to harm me.
There are bad people of both sexes.
I guess so but in my experience, no matter how politely you reject someone, there's still a big chance that he'll just flip out on you and become aggressive anyway.
For some reason I get the feeling that you are too much of a nice guy... Most gals would get bored with that. Be a little bit asshole at times and don't give them full attention all the time. You could aprear like a "puppy dog" when you're too nice.
A girl rejected me so badly once, it made me not ask any women out for years. Looking back, she wasn't that hot, and she had a mess of problems and bad traits. Most women won't reject you like that, and the ones that do, you shouldn't want anyway.
Naw. A strong guy is independent, so it doesn't matter HOW she rejects. She is the one that loses. Remember, YOU ARE THE PRIZE! Women will come and go, but a real man is a prize to behold.
I’m afraid of the rejection period. This means the things we shared, the moments and the time was all just a mind game leading me on to be one of your orbiters when you were my 1st pick.
Damn that's some heavy shit. Pains me man, it pains all of us.
You may as well tell the cops it's rude for them to cuff you before they take you to jail. Women don't generally give a shit what guys think.
Ya. That really sucks...
I wish some girls didn't seem to enjoy that so much. At least they aren't the majority.
There is something, in my opinion, even worse than a rude rejection. Something women use very often.
It's ignoring the guy. That stuff hurts so much more.
Ignoring hurts A TON. I won't disagree with that. I believe nothing is worse than a rude rejection and further embarrassment in the public.
for some reason I'm more comfortable being treated like a piece of shit than people being nice. At least with the first one I know it's real
I'm all fine with it. I'm like an ice-cold person that would not express any feelings towards the rejection of the girls. 'Okay fine, I'll move on asking other girls out. Leave, Mikey. It's not worth. Such a waste of time."
Some girls get a huge ego stroke from doing this shit. But as they grow older and less attractive all of the sudden fewer and fewer guys approach them. Reason being is that looks will fade but a shitty personality won’t.
As they grow older? I know very young people who have far less chance of a date than people three times their age. Because they are losers, bores, creeps etc.
@bethshepherd I’m pointing an ugly truth here. Some young women have tons of power only because they are attractive and nothing else. It doesn’t matter if their are smart or not, driven or not, honest or not, etc. Guys are visual so they are easily suckered into one thing.
Does that mean all these pretty young girls have crappy personalities? No. Lots of them realize it’s more than that. But then there are others who running around getting their hair done, nails done, working mediocre jobs (some don’t work period) with absolutely no ambition at all besides putting up Instagram pictures. These women have no future.
I go out of my way to be nice about it. I want to concentrate on school and am not ready for even a casual relationship. Being mean about it makes no sense.
Pretty sure that's not just guys but basically every human.
It might depend on they type of person you areare , you might be sensitive to harsh words or you might just throw it over the hedge. Its the same with girls.