The Nice Guy Syndrome and How You Can Cure it (Page 3)

[RedSmartie]

Great article! Every guy needs to read this. Girls honestly want guys to be themselves and do good things because they want to, not because they feel they have to.

[Settingemstraight]

alll good cept for being selfless which to me is probably the most desirable characteristic a person can have. Being a hero not so you can be a hero but because the thing is what is necessary

[BiffWebster]

nice article ^^
sadly it happens way too often and the dude with the mask is very good at playing the game lol

[martyfellow]

Nice guys lack courage to be themselves. That's why they don't form close attachments too readily. Good points here!

[ras144]

I think the ones that will miss the point the most are the nice guys you mention. They will usually because they have the ego of Gaston and the bitterness of Scar. adamfk1 as an example.

[Anonymous]

Wow, what a horrible thing to say. I personally have had people close to me die of cancer.

Also, since this seems to be such a hot-button issue for you, you buoyant have no confidence, thus cannot get a date. Therapy is in order, buddy-boy.

[Anonymous]

There are absolutely women out there who will not appreciate a genuinely nice guy, or use them and treat them horribly. I don't understand them or meet many girls who do that, but some are like that, sadly. :~\

[Anonymous]

It's hard to read people from the get-go, but I will get a bad feeling from a so-called "nice guy" then see the insincerity and actions pile up. If you are genuinely nice, maybe you aren't meeting enough people. Or, you may be pursuing mean girls.

[kheserthorpe]

I'm sure i could pick at small points, but broadly good article.

[TipsyWhips]

you know what sucks about the online world? rappore just doesn't exist much...

[Anonymous]

Yes, thank you, it is definitely something that can happen for both genders. I just see it so much in the "nice guy" form that I had to address it. Not to mention my personal experiences, lol.

[dave32xxx]

wow I think I gotta change a little bit.thanks,great article

[Anonymous]

You're welcome :) I've had the fortune of meeting several assertive yet genuinely kind men. This article is not for them. This is for the passive-aggressive takers and patronizers.

[uuhhhh]

Very good and valuable article. I'm surprised to see this on here.

[harveykinkle]

GREATEST article ever!

Guys please listen to this!

[Sekrett]

Well said, the differences nicely contrasted. Clear with examples.

[Anonymous]

I freakin' love you for using Disney characters as a comparison for "Nice Guys." xD

And YES, that guy trolls my comments and other girls' comments saying how "ugly" he is.

[raptor]

I think you just won the gold medal of Common Sense.

[Anonymous]

Yay! Yeah guys who can't be themselves/act passive-aggressive are just not boyfriend material. Change needs to take place first.

[Anonymous]

Yes! Exactly! And it feels so insincere and "fake." Most, if not none, of the women out there like fake, half-assed comments from a desperate guy lol.