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Because it’s hard to keep a daily routine with keeping your whole appearance perfect. Insecure is caused by perfection.
I would say insecurity comes when you expect perfection.
Because most women, 95% of them, are pendejas, unfortunately. I love women, but damn, they get stuck being so judgmental on each other and shit.
My sister is pretty attractive.. and she’s very cocky
Is she attractive because of her confidence?
And is she on Tiktok? Because if so, then I got the same vibe
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But most girls are insecure mainly because they compete for male attention and are always comparing themselves to other females. They know what their flaws are and assume they are obvious to others.
i wonder why boys aren't depressed and freaking out because they do not measure up to NFL players, male models, superhero's etc.
Because they aren't expected to, and a physically attractive partner is less important to woman than it is men.
I thin, its because they are less susceptible hormones and mentally tougher
I disagree. I think it's because we're wired to value looks differently.
i agree with you on that, but then why aren't boys freaking out if they aren't strong or high earners or tall, etc. The things we are wired to value
They are freaking out! But they are also wired to put on a good face. Women open up about their problems in order to connect. Men often feel like having problems is a sign of weakness. So they just live lives of quiet desperation.
I wish women would do that. There would be a lot more peace, quiet and productivity
And sadness. And pain
you gay?
No. I am just interested in the well being of the other half of humanity. Some would call it not being an asshole
They are body shamed by women who bring others down to feel better. They get scrutinised more.
If I spent untold hours being negged by wannabe PUA's I would be insecure, too.
@MiaLinia All women who are not Feminazis are beautiful.
I think all girls are. Maybe some better at hiding it.
comparison or because of judgmental people
I'm sorry I think was answering a different question but about your my take I think that it is very amazing you seem to be very wise and smart and what you stated is very true especially when you imply that by the way others treat women that affects them a lot.
Thank you. I am glad you found it interesting.
It goes both ways. Some wamen let themselves go and think it's someone else's fault, probably white males'.
@MiaLinia 0 probably, or they wouldn't be spamming their ugly IGs here.
LOL @ fat downvoters.
People say I'm beautiful.
Sometimes I just don't feel that way.
I understand tho, that everyone is beautiful in their own way.
they get like that because some guys will play them, body shame them, give them grief
beauty is in the eye of the beholder. you don't know that?
many women know they are beautiful and are assholes because of it
no, just the fake ones. the naturally beautiful ones don't know it because everyone hates them and are envious, and never compliment them. they get treated like shit by most women and men who know they can't have them.
I like how girls disliked this as if i insulted them. And u seem to be arguing the complete opposite so im not honna waste our time arguing. Most likely different experiences of the situation.
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I agree. And it's completely the same for attractive men too. Too many jealous vipers in this world.
Alright nvm. It doesn't matter if you are naturally or wear makeup to look beautiful. The way you act is still a major factor in how people view you. To say eveyone hates the naturally beautiful ones is pure b. s. if they are attractive people would want to be with them.
ou shouldn't need to be complimented.
Alright nvm. It doesn't matter if you are naturally or wear makeup to look beautiful. The way you act is still a major factor in how people view you. To say eveyone hates the naturally beautiful ones is pure b. s. if they are attractive people would want to be with them.
ou shouldn't need to be complimented.
@bladedshard No, it is not pure bs. the vast majority of the human population is average-looking. hence, of course, when someone is blessed with beauty, a lot of bitchiness, jealousy, and backstabbing occurs. you do not know how women treat each other. i notice this all the time on the bus and subway, school, work, etc. if a beautiful girl walks in, automatically every female's head turns her way, eyes her up and down, and gives her a disapproving shake of the head or a grunt or some other immature, obnoxious crap. behaviour does play a role, but when a girl who's just walked in 5 seconds ago gets eyed up and glared at by 10 women, there is obviously something wrong with THEIR character and not the girl they dislike. (btw: she is not dressed slutty. just stylishly). tell me you've never seen this happening and then i will accept your opinion.
shouldn't have called it pure bs. Yes i have seen disapproving looks.
The more you obsess about your looks the uglier you are to men. Just stop. We dont even really like makeup or any of that shit.
the fakest comment ever. You guys lust women who wear makeup and makeup makes average girls look pretty that's why you guys care about makeup. Looks cause attraction and develop opinions, therefore looks matter. All the female celebrities wear makeup in their music videos I am sure you find them pretty. You will not fall in love with a girl who never grooms herself, who never waxes her legs, wear pyjamas, and always has her hair in a ponytail and morning face is not that pretty.
@Shezadi @Shezadi Man lust women that look like hookers because hookers have sex. Men don't want those women though. Nor do men want women that tell them what they like. I'm not the only man on here saying little to no make up. Why even bother reading what men say if you're not going to list in?
what if a man is not honest about his intentions?
@Shezadi so you think the majority of men are liars. Even online here where none of us have any stake in talking to you? I don't know that makes you sound even worse if you think most men are liars. All i can say is my last girlfriend wore no makeup and a way "hotter/makeuped" tried to talk to me and i just ignored her and chose my most recent girlfriend because i dont like girls that wear lots of makeup. Tbh id have fucked her if circumstances were different but id never date someone who does lots of makeup like that.
Lots of girls are ugly to other girls. Guys will take anything with a pussy.
She's not wrong...
Yes, it is a generalization. But all guys will not take anything with a pussy. That is just demeaning
A lot of beta males will, but not all guys are beta males.
Sort of
theyre generally not, theyre venerated and pampered by society
cuz they focus so much on looks that they forget about their spirit.
Many girls including me, are perfectionists, so we want to be perfect.
Do you find that crippling?
yeah sometimes I do, but other times it's a good thing
How so?
the bad thing is that than i want to be perfect too but that is impossible but because i want to be perfect i push myself very hard and acomplish things
It sounds to me like you are making the perfect the enemy of the good. I have heard that striving perfection is a good thing, as long as you are content to end up at excellence. But if you expect nothing less than perfection, you will have no contentment or peace at all
@basketball7 this is a test, so you can ignore it.
@OrdinaryGurl can you see this?
They aren't. Not a single one hasn't had a boyfriend by 30
STFU already