There is something wrong with loving yourself, if you love yourself too much you become blind to your flaws and unwilling to grow and change as a person which leaves you stagnant and eventually bitter.
You obviously know nothing about loving yourself. As to love yourself, you acknowledge all your flaws and imperfections, Phsyical and mental. You learn to accept them and work on them. You obviously don't know much about self respect and love.
What if you're like me and you're both ugly on the inside and outside?
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What helped me was getting picked up by a beautiful Columbian. She had a phat ass and she was tall and beautiful, and the fact that she liked me helped me feel good about myself
Rather you feel attractive or not is not linked to how attractive you are (which is perceptive by the way so it varies depending on who is judging you. Therefore no one is actually attractive/unattractive across the board). That would explain some mean arrogant people that look like tree monsters (such as the girls that bullied me growing up), thinking they’re the best looking person on the planet. Everyone doesn’t let how beautiful and confident they feel be determined by how others see them, which is a good thing.
I could’ve easily made a My Take entitled: “How to be societies definition of attractive” and give equally good advice about changing physical appearance, but that’s not what this is. This is about how that person sees themselves which is MOST important. So in regards to your “how to feel attractive: be attractive” comment that was the wrong way to look at it love. How you feel about the way you look is mostly psychological. A million people can tell you you’re attractive and you still don’t think you are, where as a million people can tell you you’re not and you still think you are.
Well I’m lean and fit and one of my closest friends is the exact opposite. These photos are just photos, plus the blonde in the bikini is literally a plus sized model but go off.
She's not plus size. There's nothing plus-size about her. Lean and "fit" people compare plus-size models to being obese. Does she look obese to you? I'm lean and fit and I have friends of various body shapes. Just pointing out the bs.
Obviously she doesn’t look obese. I’m not the one that labeled her as plus sized: SHE did as well as anyone else that made reference to her in modeling. I watched her on tv and have been following her for years, so say what you want but she’s considered a plus sized model. Plus your intitial statement is a really bold accusation to make for some photos in a my take. Maybe in your experiences that’s true but you’re saying that like it’s a fact. I literally live on a college campus with 20,000 other people and most “lean and fit” people like myself have all types of friends with different bodies. Stop reaching.
Thank you. Honestly, I don’t think it’s that hard to follow. I’ve given most of these tips to people I know in my life that struggled with this and implimented the ones I needed as well over the years. It won’t happen overnight and it’s a pretty gradual process, but it really is pretty easy.
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I find women who "feel attractive" tend to devolve into entitled narcissists.
Thats a weird generalisation. Nothing wrong with loving yourself.
There is something wrong with loving yourself, if you love yourself too much you become blind to your flaws and unwilling to grow and change as a person which leaves you stagnant and eventually bitter.
Also if you love yourself too much no-one thinks you need their love so you end up alone.
You obviously know nothing about loving yourself. As to love yourself, you acknowledge all your flaws and imperfections, Phsyical and mental. You learn to accept them and work on them. You obviously don't know much about self respect and love.
Just once I would like one of these disagreements to not turn into character attack fallacies so quickly.
Everything in moderation as they say including loving yourself. Good luck with your 20s though.
Great My-Take. Agree with all of this.
Thank you 😊😊❤️
What if you're like me and you're both ugly on the inside and outside?
What helped me was getting picked up by a beautiful Columbian. She had a phat ass and she was tall and beautiful, and the fact that she liked me helped me feel good about myself
How to feel attractive : Actually be attractive.
Rather you feel attractive or not is not linked to how attractive you are (which is perceptive by the way so it varies depending on who is judging you. Therefore no one is actually attractive/unattractive across the board). That would explain some mean arrogant people that look like tree monsters (such as the girls that bullied me growing up), thinking they’re the best looking person on the planet. Everyone doesn’t let how beautiful and confident they feel be determined by how others see them, which is a good thing.
I could’ve easily made a My Take entitled: “How to be societies definition of attractive” and give equally good advice about changing physical appearance, but that’s not what this is. This is about how that person sees themselves which is MOST important. So in regards to your “how to feel attractive: be attractive” comment that was the wrong way to look at it love. How you feel about the way you look is mostly psychological. A million people can tell you you’re attractive and you still don’t think you are, where as a million people can tell you you’re not and you still think you are.
Welp im screwed
I love this post ❤️
Thank you 😊❤️💕
Love your take ❤✌
Thank you ☺️💕
These photos make lean and "fit" people appear fun and friendly, yet not one of them have a friend with a different body shape.
Well I’m lean and fit and one of my closest friends is the exact opposite. These photos are just photos, plus the blonde in the bikini is literally a plus sized model but go off.
She's not plus size. There's nothing plus-size about her. Lean and "fit" people compare plus-size models to being obese. Does she look obese to you? I'm lean and fit and I have friends of various body shapes. Just pointing out the bs.
Obviously she doesn’t look obese. I’m not the one that labeled her as plus sized: SHE did as well as anyone else that made reference to her in modeling. I watched her on tv and have been following her for years, so say what you want but she’s considered a plus sized model. Plus your intitial statement is a really bold accusation to make for some photos in a my take. Maybe in your experiences that’s true but you’re saying that like it’s a fact. I literally live on a college campus with 20,000 other people and most “lean and fit” people like myself have all types of friends with different bodies. Stop reaching.
Good take
Thank you ❤️.
Good job! but not so easy to follow!
Thank you. Honestly, I don’t think it’s that hard to follow. I’ve given most of these tips to people I know in my life that struggled with this and implimented the ones I needed as well over the years. It won’t happen overnight and it’s a pretty gradual process, but it really is pretty easy.
Good Take.
Thank you 😊❤️
Your Welcome
Awesome take.
Thank you 😊😊
Yes.
Less usage of such pics also helps.
Some people get it and some people don't.
Thank you!
This freckled girl here is smoking hot!!!
That is so true.
Okay...
Okay what 💁🏽♀️...
It's just stuff I've already heard
K, now write one for men. STRAIGHT MEN
I don't know what part couldn't be applied to straight males? The keeping up your hygiene part?
Most of these are applicable to men tho
@yasii. True. I've noticed that many INCELS have grooming issues.
Nice take