As a single guy there is something you need to know.
Women do want sex, and all women without any problems will get all the sex they want every year. Period. Will it be with you? That’s the question.
Women are like colleges. Every year, colleges need to fill up their freshman class. It isn’t optional, if they don’t they go out of business and shut the doors.
Take Stanford University for example. Every year Stanford invites 2,000 new undergraduate students into the university. If they don’t admit enough, they go to the waitlist because no matter what they need 2,000 new students.
Well, Stanford gets 40,000 applications for 2,000 spots; that’s 20 offers for each opening. That’s not unlike women in search of sex, relationships or anything relating to physical *and* emotional intimacy.
They do get an overwhelming amount of interest and let’s face it: they couldn’t service all of those men even if the wanted to and tried. They simply couldn’t keep up. There’s not enough women to go around.
Stanford might want to admit all 40,000 applicants, say, but they don’t have the space for them. They simply don’t have enough beds. They just don’t. They couldn’t even if they wanted too. And even if they strictly used a gpa cutoff of, say, students with 3.9 gpa’s or higher, there would still be well over 2,000 applicants with gpa’s 3.9 or higher. This is true even if we also demanded perfect SAT scores. So what do they do?
Well they practice holistic admissions with affirmative action. Well guess what — so do women.
They understand they have a limited ability to do all the guys interested that she is also interested in back. She knows that there are only 365 days in a year and only 80 years of life, and many days of the year are spent at work earning money. Meaning her free time for intimacy is on very short supply. So she practices a holistic choosing process. Where she might try a handful of different guys for different reasons — a few of different races, some rich, some poor. Some funny, some athletic and some bold and striking. Not at all unlike how colleges build their incoming classes.
This is why there is no magic bullet or formula for attraction. But there is such a thing as more competitive applicants and less competitive applicants. The student with a 2.0 gpa is almost certainly hopeless. Unless maybe they’re Native American.
In the same way, a fat guy with rotting teeth is almost certainly hopeless, unless maybe he’s mega rich as in multiple billions.
But, if that 2.0 student were able to bring the gpa up to a 3.6, well now they’ve got a real chance depending on what else they bring to the table.
In the same way, if that fat guy got in shape and acquired solid dental insurance he’d now become a more competitive prospect to a lot of women out there. And sometimes all it takes is a healthy dose of good mood and a gym membership, plus a haircut and a wardrobe makeover for a guy to suddenly become a better ‘catch.’
So, as many of us on this site seem to have gone to college — this should make some sense to you. Women are like colleges. You just need to become a better applicant if you want to be with one.
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Haha this made me laugh. I think this is a good way to explain this to men. To stop being victims if women reject them and to start realising they need to step up.
Haha, yeah. But recently I’ve basically decided it’s not really worth the effort. Women have valued themselves too highly and the price is too high for me, like a college raising tuition too high — some folks will just be like ‘man, never mind.’
I’m good with girls who don’t ask for more than how I was born. And if I get none, who cares? The more time I spend around women the more I realize that real girls aren’t really all that.
Only hot girls can rival the excitement and stimulation of porn, and hot girls have the worst attitudes which considerably degrades the experience of spending time with them.
I still make efforts to meet girls now, but I do it differently with different expectations.
I’m just like, ‘well my expectations are extremely low, but maybe something good will happen. Possibly.’
Okay, on second thought I don’t mean any of that. I’m just looking for the right girl for me. I know her when I talk to her. I was too jaded when I wrote that and I don’t actually believe those things. Don’t even know why I said them.
Probably, these things I just wrote apply to some people. But definitely not even all of them.
Yea it’s definitely not a gender thing. Men can be exactly the same, there’s shit women and shit men, and good women and good men, you need to let go of resentment to women otherwise it will be a cycle of never finding a good woman. Good women do exist. Many. But they aren’t attracted to bitter women, find a way to let go of anger, that’s my only advice x
Bitter men*
Man this needs to be a show. "What Object Will We Compare Women To Next?"
Point taken.
But not all colleges are like Stanford. There are also ugly girls, fat and with incredible teeth. And who wants to apply for them?