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I wouldn't want to compete with a bunch of men for the girls attention and to date or marry. I don't want a bunch of men hanging around with my girl. On the other hand girls hanging out together all the time, if a man wants to talk to a girl the other girls can stop the girl from talking or being approached. Girls get jealous of men trying to take away their friend. Now adays there is so much gay people you don't know if you can approach a girl, be friends with anyone. That goes with men too, gays are everywhere, it's very uncomfortable for men to be following men all the time everywhere you go.
I left home at a young age and moved 100+ miles away from my family and moved in with total strangers. Some of my closest friends since moving away have been females but the reason I've got on with them has nothing to do with them wanting to be one of the guys, but instead it's got to do with them being good company. I feel like on this website I'm in the minority when I admit my life experience has ended up with me choosing my friends not by gender but by personality. The idea that males and females can not be friends is a ridiculous concept, certainly to a person who has left home at a young age.
I mean 0 friends of your gender not majority
Lol I’ve gotten the “one of the guys” label before, but it was from the guys that I hang out with. As someone who has close friends of both genders, you’re spot on about certain girls. Those are easy to call out as they are flat out nasty to any other girl, including their pal’s wives/girlfriends. Of course not all are like this. I have a close friend who hangs out mostly with guys, but has a handful of close girlfriends too. She doesn’t seek out male attention specifically, and when she’s in a relationship she’s %100 faithful. Her personality is just more compatible with guys than it is with most girls 😊
I don't know if I 100% percent agree with this. I share a lot of the same friends as my partner, mainly boys. Infact I flat with my partner and our best mate, who happens to be male.. I have a few close female friends, but apart from that, I mainly hang around boys. Its just that I get along easier with them, girls always seem to cause a lot of drama, gossip and tend to be bitchy behind other peoples back. I just get along better with male friends, we just chill and hang out together, have a few drinks, that sort of thing. I do have some very close female friends, just not a lot of them.
I assume there may be some exceptions, where girls act like the way you described. But in my experience, I haven't seen any girls being "just one of the guys" for the reasons you have listed.
Most of my friends are guys and they are strickly just friends.. sex ruins friendships! I am confident in who I am.. I have a couple friends that are girls.. I am not one that enjoys shopping or ew and awing over guys.. like for example guys do the same but its like dam that girls hot.. and then what should we get to eat? If it was a chick dam that guys hot.. should I go say hi? Do I look okay? Honestly I put my make up on to hang out with my girl friends than my guy friends they accept you as you are girla will be thinking something is wrong.. its two different levels.. I just find it more enjoyable to hang out with guys they dont count calories and stuff like that.. in my experiences that is..
Thank you
The funny thing is that girl's or guy's that have problems with those that prefer to hang out with the opposite gender are usually insecure as fuck, creates theories to enlight them to look good themselves, to enlight to not be notised for their overcompensating behavior.
Majority of girl's choose to take ofter the bunch, the bunch is extremely insecure.
Yes you have small numbers of those that are like you describe still a small minority.
Get your facts right about human behavior and psychology.
There is an inverse scenario too..
However: on a serious note, these people are often very high in sociopathy. They've been outcast because of it.
Addition for Clarity: Sociopaths include narcissists and others with personality disorders , such as Borderlines.
Omg 😂
Don't panic @wowgirl30q he's from Utah. It's an extremely rare occurrence, (outside of communal friend zoning).
Dude 😂
Yeah I agree you get that guy who pretends to be the girl's friend trying to worm their way in from there usually through lies and bullshitting. Other guys like me just like girls company but if you wanna bang them are usually pretty straight about your intentions.
@Silver158 I appreciate that sir and thank you for being respectful
"I don't like this girls who acts differently from me"
*proceed to tear her down and belittle her*
"She's one who's fucked up."
... Yeah okay babe, whatever you say.
Spitting truth
I think he's referring to you OP.
But let him confirm.
@ThisGuyDucks my opinion or featured mytake
@ThisGuyDucks lol
I was.
Sounds fun
You are soooo wrong!!! I know many women that mainly have guy friends and just female acquaintances. Most who gravitate towards guy friends do this because they either grew up in a predominantly male family and/or neighborhood or were betrayed by females repeatedly usually family members and school age friends and guys never betrayed them. So instead making up your assumptions based on whatever guys gal did to you maybe try educating yourself more on human behaviour.
I have a degree in human behavior but thanks
Funny, So do I and I work with Humans in the Field both counseling and Law Enforcement.
Awesome we should talk sometime
@Moonchild714 I work with kids mainly because adults are horrible 😃
I think those women prefer guys’ company because of women like you... why do you have to be such a hateful bully?
Oh I'm anything but a bully. Your the one calling names and making labels my love.
Bullies name call too.
agree, she is also salty and immature
@ScottSummers 🤷🤷🤷 someone has to be the bad guy. Did you see Dark Phoenix?
No i hate Jean grey and that is her story arc
@ScottSummers you love Jean grey
@ScottSummers Made a whole take to bitch about chicks with more guy friends, & she thinks name-calling is the greatest issue here.
@Cheetah23 nobody cares😏
Asking why someone is being a bully isn’t name calling...
It's calling them a bully my dear
*You are
And uh, no, humans generally came up with the term of "bully", so, no, no labels were made up here, but labels were applied to you.
@HumansExist anytime
anywhere
It seems to me, that not every girl fits into the mold of the average girl. It's not because there is something wrong with them, but because they have different things they are interested in. Yes, some girls have issues, but I don't think that is the average girl who spends a lot more with guys than do most girls.
Very interesting... My sister is one of these girls.
I think they also believe they should be this way because the guys "love it." Not completely false but not completely true either.
I'm sorry but I don't trust those women in general
Maybe they want actual friends, not a bunch of pretenders who'll bail when the chips are down. Female friends always want something from you but are always busy when you need something.
Most my friends are male but that's because i work with in a male dominated industry. Men are just as much drama as woman and i dont dislike women, it's just guys are a lot more easier going and fun to around. I find some girls really boring and clickly with each other with guys i feel free to be myself without judgement
I have two close friends. One is a guy and the other one is a girl. I generally don’t surround myself with a lot of people but I think there is some truth to the argument that being friends with a guy involves far less drama than being friends with a woman.
I used to only like hanging out with guys.
I was insecure about my feminine side and was scared of looking weak. So I acted like a guy and hung out with guys. I looked like trash and was slobby.
Big of you to admit that.. thank you😀
You’re welcome 😁
I’m past it now and not in denial about why I did that
So I’m happy to share
I got two sisters. I got bullied by same sex. I tried to hang with girls in high school but we didn't have much in common. I love technology and watch the boys to fix the broken technology. I learn lot from them more then I did with girls. That is why I am more of tomboy. Just because girl doesn't have many female. I got a female dog called Lola.
I talk to guys because we have a common interest. And because they tend to lie less and tell you when you look bad. Girls are nice too though. Honestly the best you can do is have both
I agree
Like if a girl does it to get validation then its sad. I dont dislike her for it. But its sad. Id more like try to help her by being her female friend.
And i mean my friendships are mostly based on gain. So we both gain something. Material things and non material. Like we exchange compliments to develop better image of ourselves. And i do think that its normal and healthy that way.
I totally agree I do MMA and have a lot of male friends but females will always understand more about female problems. It's important to have both😀
It is indeed easoer to joke about period cramps with female friends but there are guys who get it because they have sisters.
I don't have much experience with girls like you described here. But I believe that they shouldn't hang out with guys just for their aproval. Aproval must come from within not others.
You've met them sir. The ones that wanted to go to games or watch action movies constantly with you😂
Honestly I can only remember around two girls that wanted to watch the game with us xD Hope they were not doing it out of insecurities.
They wanted the D😂
Maybe xD
Maybe😀
Did you real imply watching action movies with a guy is the odd attention seeking thing? Not the obvious segregation you have between yourself and dudes in reality?
Wtf i just read...
U know that there is NO FEMALE FRIENDSHIP
Women might be so jealous and act bitchy... most of them pretend that they ur froends and talk ship behind ur back... i dont have female friends and i didn't miss anything
Need a midol?