Girl's Behavior

From a girl’s perspective.

From a girl’s perspective.

I thought I would spend time sharing things from a girl’s perspective so that maybe guys can take some time to potentially understand us a bit better. If a guy wants to make a post for them, that would be super awesome too.
Common Scenarios:

#1: lying about important issues such as where one was, saying one is in an open relationship and one isn’t, saying one loves someone they don’t really love, etc

A girl’s perspective: Feelings have been disrespected. the individual hasn’t taken the time to consider how their behavior may impact someone else outside themself. Why would you lie about where you were If we will just find out later if you were cheating. This makes absolutely no sense to us. we find out later.

#2: begging for sex/ sexual coercion

a girl’s perspective: having sex with someone who isn’t truly enjoying it is nearly the equivalent of having sex by yourself. Sex to us is making love (in long term relationships) and if you don’t consider us long term, let us know so we, AND YOU, can find a better fit. also, we would love to just know if waiting for sex past a certain point is a deal breaker for you, rather than beg us for sex and blab about it non stop. This way, the girl and yourself can find the right fit. We feel blackmailed and heavily disrespected when you tell us things like “it’s your duty as my girlfriend”, etc

#3: jumping to a conclusion about us based on a lack of information or using a piece of information against us in an argument

from a girl’s perspective: this isn’t an individual that is very open minded. They not seem very capable of critical thinking or thinking outside the box. They wouldn’t be a good partner for me long term. I feel very disrespected and provoked by this.

#4: cheating

from a girl’s perspective: we were taught to communicate growing up and to discuss our feelings, so we naturally become very nervous and agitated when expected to read your mind. later when we find out our failure to achieve the impossible resulted in you cheating, we are incredibly angry, frustrated and distraught. We feel we can’t do anything good enough for you and we’re glad we’re losing you. It’s your loss, not ours.

#5: not cleaning up after yourselves

from a girl’s perspective: we were taught growing up to help individuals that need help, some of us at our own expense. As such, it would be incredibly hurtful to a girl to see that a guy had such an evil intent to take advantage of that. especially in such a casual way, as if it isn’t a big deal whatsoever, and then chuck their clothes in a massive mountain and expect the girl to follow them around and pick everything up.

#6: being “with” us until you get someone else “better”

from a girl’s perspective: you’ve wasted your own time being with me, since according to you I’m not girlfriend or wife material, you’ve wasted my time and you completely disregarded how I might feel in the process and only considered your wants, needs and feelings. It’s completely self centered of you. Also, for the guys who go through many girls that they do this with,

those girls know about the other girls sometimes and we all feel that nothing we do could ever be good enough and we either over exert ourselves trying to make it that way to extreme exhaustion (not healthy) or we get angry and get revenge or cuss you out (also not healthy). Sometimes girls just ditch those social circles too, but those girls still feel incredibly disrespected, angry, frustrated and distraught. It makes us sad that you don’t care about anybody but yourself if you do these things.
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