You can not open your mouth today without "Girl Power" being forced down your throat. We are being ideologically throat fucked by delusional apostles of girl power.
Our daughters are part of a school system ran by feminist who push the "strong and independent" agenda which they falsely believe is helping girls. This is beyond false and actually doing the opposite for girls. Girls are becoming overwhelmed because they feel they can't meet the expectations they are told they can achieve.
We also see every form of media riddled with this crap, and every one of these sheep believe they are doing something good for girls & women. Society has reduced all requirements and expectations to try and convince girls that this is true, making it easier for girls to look good on paper. Graduating school because they are marked lighter and have endless quotas and assistance to help them "succeed". https://www.degruyter.com/view/journals/bejeap/19/2/article-20180084.xml
But this is only allowing girls to get into situations where they are incapable of handling pressures and expectations of real world work.
https://childmind.org/article/mood-disorders-and-teenage-girls/
Telling little girls they can do anything, (when in reality they actually can't) causes them to fail at more things and creates more anxiety and depression among girls. Like telling a fish it can breath on land if it "tries hard enough"... it will try and fail no matter how hard it tries.
These delusions of grandeur is making girls miserable. Studies show female happiness has declined expediently over the last 50 years. The more "independent" they become the more miserable they are. https://www.nber.org/papers/w14969
Aside from the school system and media push to make girls think they are super human like all the Mary Sue characters they are pushing in the movies, we are also telling girls they are amazing simply for existing.
How does it benefit girls to never see actual struggle in female roles. To never be shown characters developing strength through turmoil, or to never see female failure? They have nothing to compare it to when they fail, the simple see characters who are always great simply for existing and can never fail. Adding to the feeling of failure when they aren't the same.
We also need to stop constantly patting girls on the back and trying to stroke their egos while at the same time attacking anyone who tells them the truth. We are not making "strong and independent" females, we are simply allowing fragile weak minded females to strive and silence and attack anyone who tells them otherwise.
Convincing girls that lack of dignity equals "confidence" isn't doing them any favors in life.
A simple look back through the history of male female relations will easily show that we are not making things better, they are getting worse every year. Why is society so dead set against accepting that their childish little game plan is actually failing?
We need to STOP telling girls they can do anything, because they actually can't.
We need to STOP telling them that they are strong and independent... because they're NOT.
We need to STOP acting like telling girls the truth is an act of violence against them.
Real "empowerment" is telling them the truth, allowing them to fail, but giving them the mechanisms to become strong and independent.
And that folks, is my 2 cents.
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Beyond false? So you think girls are weak, and dependent, that they can’t do much, and that they need to lower their ambitions? That’s fucked.
I don’t see any evidence for your claim that “girls are becoming overwhelmed”. They’re doing quite well on many levels.
It seems as though you’d rather they settle for less. I think you wish that women still felt they were dependent on men, that they had to settle for a life of staying home to raise kids and cook dinner.
Most of your sources are not even directly related to what you claiming. It’s all speculation. And “happiness” is not what any wise person should be aiming for in their life. Happiness is fleeting and it falls apart with tragedy. Meaning is what people should aim for. Something that makes a difference.
Tell us what you think “the truth” is about women, don’t just skirt around it. You’re an insecure, woman hating little boy who doesn’t have a clue. It would be for the best if you and your ilk would just get the fuck over it and stop whining.
“Doing quite well” is easy when all difficulties are removed to assist in filling quotas.
Here this is for you. A study about the decline of female happiness in regard to not being able to meet expectations.
https://www.nber.org/papers/w14969
I don’t “feel” anything about the topic. I see a society of pampered spoiled children acting like they are strong and independent under the false belief that they are doing it on their own and becoming entitled assholes towards the people who are making it so easy for them.
Your attempts to disregard the sources don’t make them invalid. They are not “speculation”, that is just a scapegoat people like yourself use to ignore data.
Speculation is what you are doing about what you think I believe women should be.
Your closing shaming tactics are nothing more than pathetic. Virtue signalling in hopes of winning pussy points with women. It’s the white knight soy male types who need to get over your pathetic need to impress women.
YOU believe that women need a helping hand, YOU believe the way society kid gloves them is ok because they are “fragile” and need to be coddled.
I feel they should actually be strong and independent and society should stop giving them a false sense of strength and achievement.
It’s your type that isn’t helping. Not mine.
Well now you are speculating right back, aren't you? I have this point of view, therefor you're going to tell my why I do. You're doing the same thing.
Nobody is even looking at this flop of a take, and I doubt they will see this. This exchange is merely between you and I, and what I see is an insecure, arrogant parrot who's latched onto a popular idea and is regurgitating it, although failing to even do a decent job at that. You call yourself "logic bomber" for fucks sake. This is an identity for you, this is a lifestyle. It really doesn't look good for you, sorry to say. It looks really pathetic. Your profile tells all.
Believe me, I don't impress women. I don't want to be seen as nice, because I'm not fucking nice. I'm not trying to help shit. But I know when to leave well enough alone, but I'm not a complete asshole, and I'm not a self-important pseudo-intellectual with a crisis of identity.
I have no problem with efforts to build up self-confidence in women. I also have no problem with them failing, and learning whatever life lessons they need to learn. It's not my job to police them, it's not my job to nanny or nurse society, and it's not my job to tell them what they should do or what would make them "happy". Happiness is bullshit. They do what they want, they use whatever support system they want, and if it does or doesn't work out. Oh well. I'm not effected by it. I'm not threatened by it, I'm not bothered by it.
If you weren't such a whiny little baby, you wouldn't be either.
Haha.
You are definitely no sleuth.
I will skip the fake alpha rant.
The statement about it not affecting you is simply ignorant. As much as you don’t want to see it or believe it, the gynocentric bullshit actually does affect you and all men.
Quota’s put less qualified people in positions. Men lose out.
Mens lives being destroyed because false allegations are taken as truth.
The list goes on.
Until a female uses societies bias to destroy you, you will always believe the things you do.
You will skip anything of substance, because you are ridiculous and indefensible and you know it.
I've never heard of men loosing out of anything they actual deserved. If you aren't being a dumbass and living the lifestyle of such, you will never be put into a compromising situation as a man. I've never been turned down based on gender before. But I also don't feel like I'm entitled to anything. If I was discriminated against, I'd fight that battle. But I wouldn't go about whining because "girl power" is a thing. Trust me, nothing has effected me. Nothing has ever held me back, except myself refusing to do better. Everyone else can have all the back doors they want, I don't need a hand-out. That's not being alpha, either. I am not alpha, I'm zeta. I don't give a fuck about these mindless games. I do my own thing, I fight my own battles.
You have never seen a battle. Which is why it’s so easy for you to act like it isn’t a big deal.
When you have your job and life destroyed by “cancel culture” because you have a dick... you will know what a battle is.
Canceling happens to EVERYone when they say something shitty, or maybe even just risque. They put themselves in that position, this is a nanny society right now. So think before you speak, and be precise. Pick your battles wisely and don't choose to die on a hill like "girl power", that doesn't even matter. You seem to want to have something to prove, but you don't actually have anything. I suggest you quit digging yourself unneccasry holes.
Cancel culture is propagated mainly by white leftest females. And MOST of the time it isn’t for anything other than triggering a Karen.
Speaking of “unnecessary holes”.
Girl power is a farce. It is only a branch on the tree of female entitlement. Your incessant need to keep arguing the matter is mainly because your been breast fed the bullshit since a young age.
There is no point trying to explain the basic destruction of the idea to a male like yourself. You need to virtue signal is to strong.
Someday you will have kids and understand destructive nature for both sexes.
I'm only virtue signaling so long as I'm disagreeing with you. Some day I won't have kids, so take that notion and shove it. You can't explain anything because you have nothing. You've got per-scripted talking points you stole from someone else. You have no real-world examples of supposed destruction that you can link directly to some cheesy marketing campaign of "girl power". Because it doesn't exist. You are liar!
I don't think women are doing "quite well". I also don't believe that we have to lower our expectations, but all in all this system is pretty unfair. We are told that only a traditionally male life is worth living, so we have to be traditionally masculine to have value. We have to be powerful, successfull in business, we have to be brave and strong. Underlying this is a narrative that says that traditionally feminine is not worthy enough, see? Also, we will never be able to live the same life as men because there is simply no way that a woman can have kids and be in business without a greater deal of stress, because of how our brains are wired. So society is asking us to live a male life with a female mind and with a female body that hurts every month, but we are also asked to shut that up, to deny our hormones (cause emotions are also bad, we need to shut them up as well). It is worth rethinking, for sure.
@xxanzza The list of expectations reduced to make things easier for women is easily attainable.
Any job you apply for will have a priority selection process for “female”
The court system is bias in your favor in ever aspect, including punishment for crimes, custody, and everything else.
You have 100% parental rights.
There are 250 scholarships for female only and only 3 for male only.
Men are expected to put their lives second to women in every situation. “Women and children first”.
You idea that you are expected to live up to masculine standards is exactly what I was stating. You shouldn’t be held to that standard. The reason womens happiness has declined over the last 50 years is because women can’t live up to this yet feminism tells them they can and should.
All I know is that as a woman I want a family a kids. I find the idea of being the spouse who fulfills the domestic rolls really appealing. It’s always been this way. AND I’ve always known I could never tell anyone because that is definitely 100% unacceptable. My simple wish is that in opening up opportunities for women, we didn’t also close down opportunities. But we did.
The problem with feminism is that it’s a dictatorship that expects even females to adhere to their idea only. Which are never actually beneficial to women.