Reasons Why I Think Women File for Divorce More Than Men/Why Relationships Fail (Page 2)

[Finchie40]

Good points , but this is how women treat guys as well , Bottom line Social media has damaged relationships period considering most people are glued to their phones and people don’t really value each other anymore , they live their lives thinking grass is always greener on the other side , when things don’t go right they turn to someone else easily before solving the issue with their partner and fixing it. People have more variety these days just by swiping left or right , people are way more judge mental everyone thinks they deserve perfect

[TruthBringer]

Absolutely! I've found that the best relationships are outside social media. My girlfriend and I do have social media, but we both use it just to get memes and not advertise ourselves or follow irrelevant people who we don't talk to (anymore). We live our lives outside social media and only share our moments with close friends and family. Social media has become a cancer to society and has ruined many

[Jjpayne]

I totally agree with this! Thank you!! Thank you for this! I think people need to be more patient in marriage because marriage is not meant to easy or always happy. "For better... Or worse" people always always always always forget the worst part and you have to expect that you won't be the better example, that you will both be different, you need and have to expect the bad times. Be ready to argue but also have the expectation that where that is, will not be permanent but merely a place you both have to work through together.

I personally think, more people need premarital counseling and if they had it, they marriages would be more healthy for it

[NoblesseObligeKK]

Girls are incentivized through the judicial process to file for divorce, whereas, guys are not. Thus, girls file for more divorces because they will more than likely win in both divorce and family courts.

Why relationships fail? Thats because of social media algorithms and hypergamy. When a girl can see a guy whose checked 800 of her 805 dreamsheet, she will make herself available for a guy who doesn't even want her.

In short, our society sucks and men who realize this date nonamericans.

[ohshee]

I think your right ,,, I have followed for a long time and I think. Your on a path and the road now has a fork in it. And one road lead to following some one you have been with and the other is a new beginning in away on your own or just new things I can feel you from here you don't want to hurt anyone you want to stay true. But in this AWAKENING your going through your feeling the same for you ... your afraid to stay on the path your on and looking back saying this is what I was,,, afraid of

And the other path is all up to you new start. New beginning in a lot of ways. New experience s in so many ways And how can you grow if you don't experience it. I think you smart. With a beautiful heart I know what way you will go. Because it's who you are it is your dream you have to take down the road block and make it about you this time sometimes it's ok to make others choose there path to remember there are many exit on the road

[ManOnFire]

No.4 is accurate to the max and what I've written about in the past too. This is a good post.

I also think women call it quits more often than men because for whatever reason women have more emptiness inside than they're willing to face. So they try to fill it up by spending time with their girlfriends, buying this, doing that, etc. so that they can feel fulfilled, when ultimately at the end of the day they will still have to face themselves at some point. Women tend to have more issues with knowing how to be content that they need to work on, and trying to cancel everything or everyone out won't solve it.

[Anonymous]

While I think there’s some truth to all of that the other big factor is that women anticipate keeping their kids and often house, though with increased financial stress, if they divorce while men often fear losing their kids entirely and consider it almost impossible to keep a similar home.

I seem to recall reading about one area in Scandinavian that was... very progressive. So progressive they thought alimony was absurd, Of course 50/50 child access should be the norm and no child support payments in most cases - each parent should be working and covering the costs of the children for the time they care for them. Women immediately started filing for divorce half as often as they dropped to match the rate men file at.

[Pete671]

Perfectly said,

[Oram52]

Any chance you might have link about Scandinavian part, I agree.

[Abtraction]

They can't commit, and the grass is greener. There's obviously exceptions, abuse, and men cheat too.
But there's also not much downside for the women, there is a huge downside for the kids and father. Also many women tend to use the state in to exact revenge through excessive child support or alimony, poison the kids, prevent visitations, and sometime move far away from the father.

I even think women marry a man for a while just to have kids and dump him later while extracting his wealth.

Other factors;
If they have had multiple partners prior to the husband.
If they grew-up in a divorce home.
Outside influences like social media and other women.

Men in general are just looking for a half-way decent looking gal, regular sex, and tolerable to be around, and if we want kids a good mom.

Unfortunately due to family laws, it's a huge risk to have a relationship, kids, or marriage. Which is why more and more men are opting out.

[Petra150]

Now I'd font know the word filing, but my experience is that far more of us women rather go for divorce than men who want to keep a good relationship rather than ruin a relationship, them guys are willing to fight for love , while we usually run away from love and responsibilities. Yet another embrassing thing about our gender

[Miristheiss]

Hmmm.
All are good points, however:

Point 1, I was say that sounds like a reason for men to file for divorce... not women... they think she isn't the "perfect woman".
Point 2, that sounds like an argument for never marrying, not divorcing.
Point 3, that also sounds like an argument for never marrying to begin with.

Point 4 does seem to be a logical point for divorcing.

All 4 seem to make compelling arguments. I wouldn't say all specifically address why women file more than men.

[Kaamraj]

Women file for divorce vast majority of the times because there are no repercussions. The courts are totally on their side. Be it alimony, division of property or child custody, men have nothing to gain from marriage. MGTOW

[worldscolide]

All of this is about right. People, not just women, are taught that the first time something goes wrong, you just throw it away... Even marriages.. Worst part of this, its not the man nor the woman that is hurt the most with this, Its any children that are involved.

[RingOfFire]

Don't have time atm to read the whole thing but read the bullet points for each item. I can already tell you nailed it.

Just one quick comment... this goes to a much larger topic still. It's about how cancel culture is trying to deny evolution and the millions of years of genetic selection that created distinctly different male and female roles.

Both men and women in younger generations today are suffering and self doubting because they somehow feel that their natural instincts are unacceptable and they have no worth unless they follow the politically correct path that "society" demands they follow. Their natural instincts are out of sync with societal pressure and this causes them severe stress. It's so bad that it is an existential threat to humanity and civilization. These expectations are created by a political agenda disguised as a liberation movement. They are anything but liberating.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Are you sure you are @ragequeen? More like reasoning queen 👸, well you have caught one of the source of issue..


While sometimes divorce is necessary in abusive cases, but other than that I think we have to adjust and comprehend with patience and love.

Others wise half of the life will be spent in search of the perfect partner who doesn't exist, I recently saw a post on Gag a girl asking should I break up with the guy he doesn't brush some days or something like that or taking bath I don't remember, and most people replied yes, people are ever ready to make someone break up there relationship which could be fixed with patience and love.

And corporate lawyers are already waiting for their buisness it doesn't matter they just see were there fees is coming from next.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Enjoying and not paying would be punishment enough right? 😂😂😂😂🌹

[Jamie05rhs]

"Since we have this prerogative from a young age, a lot of us may feel that we don`t need a man or partner to help us regulate family and/or personal finances." But you DON'T need a man to help you do that. Marriage is for companionship and love. And sex.


"Women may not want the drama, hard work, or money put into a relationship when they have to focus on their careers and educations.". If your relationship is drama, then dump the guy. Simple. And if he's taking your money, dump him! For God's sake, don't marry him!! I have no clue why you women keep putting up with toxic men.
... But yes, all relationships take hard work. (It just doesn't have to be THAT hard. Don't overthink it.)

[Jamie05rhs]

"Women who want to be at home are looked down upon when in reality, they have the strongest and healthiest relationships with their partners.". Not necessarily. A lot of them have strained relationships. Because the man has to work twice as hard for twice as many hours, giving him less time to attend to her needs. And good luck having him ever spend time with his children.

[Jamie05rhs]

But I do believe that men and women need each other. I believe that Section 3 is 100% correct.

Thank you for writing this, @ragequeen.

[Jamie05rhs]

Wow. I agree with Section 4, too.

[Prof_Don]

If women didn’t win the majority of assets in divorce and walk away from the marriage with nothing as the end result, women wouldn’t file for divorce so often.

Men usually have more to lose filing divorce, thus the idea of “cheaper to keep her”.

[HikerDude]

Number 3 is a big one, I think. Women increasingly act like men are meaningless to them, which is both sad and a repudiation of their basic biology. Men and women were created to need and want each other. Feminism has infected women with the belief that men are most just potential hindrances to female happiness and "empowerment."

[Dchrls78104]

This is what you get when you're a grown man and you take a child to bed instead of a grown woman who can actually take care of you. When she grows up she tires of seeing your grey hairs and decides she has no intention of watching you grow old while she's still young and she wants more from life than you can give her so she dumps you and moves on to another guy closer to her own age with whom she has more in common and she takes with her half the things you spent half your life and all of your blood, your sweat, and your fears working for.

[Dchrls78104]

Your tears*

[Swordnen]

For 1st point
Why men can marry a women with NO JOB but vise versa is not acceptable?
if the guy cries everyone makes fun of him
but instead if a girl is crying everyone will lend her a hand, why this discrimination?
Sure girls are in need to be indipendent but we guys have competition coz of girl

Even they watch porn and magazines and movies and they started to believe that there is an idea MEN
Who have:-
->Cars
->jobs
->fit body
->social
->Good in communications
->LOOKS
->Good at education
->good at sports
one men can not have all, might have more flaws than others but he still a human being. accept for who he is. You can not make a good cake with everything in a refrigerator. that would be a mess. SO STOP MAKING COMPETITION FOR MEN. WE DO NOT LIKE COMPETITION. YOU ALWAYS COMPARE WHO IS BETTER GUY...

[VanillaSalt]

I agree until I disagree. Competition is fine as long as expectations can be met by more then a few men in the world... give joe in accounting a chance I bet he’s more respectful then josh the ceo.

[Anonymous]

She got tired of your bullshit and the sex was getting boring. No girl wants to stay with a guy for too long that's why people do friends with benefits or friends fucking with each other. If she's really unhappy then the b**** will start demanding all of your properties and the estate. Oh.. did your mother give you your baby blanket when you were little oops!! that's goes the ex wife now. All your achievements from primary school you earned oops... that's the ex wife now. To be very honest all marriage is really is is a piece of paper telling the world that you're married 🙄 and it costs over $20,000 for the blood sucking lawyers to tear that piece of paper! 👎

[Jimbod37]

Social media does not help at and all you see is movies and stuff all over the internet that are fairy tales and has convinced poeple that it's real life and when relationships don't turn out that way poeple are disappointed Facebook does not help if u going through some set backs in a relationships and ever couple has them and it does not help when guys are hitting ladies up on facebook constantly feeding them a bunch of shit telling them I'd do this and that for u then it makes it easier for the women to give up when there feeding her these bullshit and lies and convince her to come to them