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I just love reading shit that blames women. You know what? There’s a reason women are urged to have a career. With no cash flow you are inviting women to be abused. Also I have no intention of not living up to my full potential. Men are also more likely to cheat too. They cause more severe harm when they hit women too than the other way around. To hell with you.
There isn’t fixing a wide beater. Once one always one.
I agree that it's a good thing for women to be encouraged to live to their full potential. I'm not sure if there is much evidence for men cheating more. Perhaps we might brag about it or get cought more - that I can believe. Definitely true that men can hit harder, but its also true women hit men more often than men hit women.
@kingofthellamas No not likely. That idea was brought about because of Johnny D. and Amber Heard. Hitting is never right, especially when you realize you could hospitalize someone. Men who beat women are scum.
Oh I do not disagree. My point is more about numbers. Women hit men more then men hit women. That's a sad truth. But when men do hit women we do more damage and that results in more successful prosecutions and some shocking images. It feels like men are more violent than women but it's more accurate to say violent man have morr physical impact. im it trying to justify either side or say one is better or worse than the other, just that they are different
"Men are more likely to cheat" let's also ignore the fact that they're also a lot of women who divorced to cheat. Afterall cheating is not against the law so statistics about cheating is not exactly recorded but those are anecdotes. You just don't really like it if anyone can say "there's a reason why men cheat" after all women don't face the same risk and consequence when they do and they're often not address https://youtu.be/zOP793671p0
No women are both more likely to cheat and more likely to abuse.
Absolutely no surprise anything like ''women who beat men are scum as well' was nowhere to be found in your statement.
Another reason women initiated so many divorces is that their husbands stop piping them down. Men tend to lose interest after a period of years, and women need sex at least every so often, so they eventually reach a breaking point when their men refuse to do anything about it.
Wow.
Read some statics it's opposite
@R4zor yeah, I'll have to check on those "statics" cause I hate getting shocked when I go to the fridge
Feelings creatures if the world revolved around you we'd extinct
Modern feminist is ruining everything to be honest and I had read articles on how to keep women being attractive to a guy and honestly. They are all dumb, my friend put that out to the text and dude failed miserably mostly about the make the girl wait 3 days to reply to a text is so stupid. I text the girl the same day even if it is once a day. Those advice people give online are so dumb and I can’t understand why people follow them.
No they are just changing the dynamic. Before women could never leave. I mean NEVER despite reason
What?
Personally I disagree, I think once committed it isn’t taken so lightly and it usually takes a lot for them to eventually give up. Typically I see it being mostly my betrayal by cheating that results in divorce. This is why I don’t take much notice of men when they moan about it because it’s practically defending a cheater. Like why should anyone be expected to stay in a contract when the other person broke it first? No chance.
umm many animal species pair bond and stay together as couples, like eagles, coyotes, and beavers. humans are toward the monogamous end of the spectrum but no where near the extreme end. An eagle who loses her mate just lives alone until death and would never think of finding a new male eagle.
Points 3 & 4 are the biggest issue but some foolish men have yet to realize that you can't have a real relationship with a "feminist" who's main goal in life is to compete with men.
Just because she works outside the home to help provide and doesn’t stay when he beats and cheats doesn’t mean she’s a feminist.
@Whitemeatchicken Thankfully no. And yet why are those who identify themselves as feminists are so radically different than my mom, family members and girlfriend? Nice gaslighting there, girl. But you clearly missed his point.
@Whitemeatchicken The article I'm replying to isn't about abuse victims.
@Menarepricks Your nickname pretty much sums everything up and shows why no one should take you seriously. Go take your loose pussy energy elsewhere, misandrist.
@Menarepricks Your attack demonstrates your need to have men feel something about you. All the bed hopping you've done has yet to do that. I get it but I'm just not interested. You could never excite me.
@hahahmm Her account got terminated. Shocker.
@TruthBringer Yeah. Probably drowning herself with a gallon of ice cream right now.
I usually see white families having high divorce rates in Europe and in the US if I compare it to divorce rates of Asian families. I often see both male and female Asian partners who often happen to be immigrants or second generation immigrants tend to both economically and socially successful. I believe white people tend to be more promiscuous and tend to cheat on their partners. Maybe there's something wrong with how white people look at relationships and marriages.
Hmmm, has anyone ever described you as being racist?
Grow up! I didn't even show any hatred. Just something I observed around me and many white people have told me the same lol your mind is so polluted @kingofthellamas
Your comment basically nsays white people sleep around. And for somehow link second generation business ownerships (true, but off topic) I'm sorry but that comes over as being racist
@kingofthellamas u mad bro. its true, anglos divorce at much higher rates. I believe its cause feminism is more likely to affect them.
I'm not disputing the numbers. Im saying that you can't say white people are promiscuous. There just being racist. It's then doubled down on the detriment to whites , confussingly, by the elevation of Asian by the second generation comment. It's a racist comment.
I think relationships fail is because people get into them too fast and for the wrong reasons. People needs to be clear about their expectations and relationship breakers. People don't communicate enough. I have seen people air their relationship problems on Social Media (Both men and women). People usually tell them to divorce rather than talk about it or seek counseling.
Women get pressurized to be money making machines too? That's news to me. Things I often heard around the environment I grew up in is upselling women. I'm not in these environments anymore.
Still better becoming a busy money making machine than rushing towards marriage and kids.
How about we give society the finger and do what makes us happy? 🤔
The biggest reason is because the courts favour women.
A man knows if it goes to court, he's going to lose his house, kids and a large portion of his income.
A woman goes to court and knows she's got an easy life coming up.
Harsh, but true.
I think
1. the stigma of being divorced is not that bad anymore
2. we feel it is ok to make a mistake and learn from it, just move on
3. there are examples of others who divorced even with kids who made it seem like it is possible to have a good or even better life than being married to someone who treats you very bad.
I agree with a lot of things you say, people should compromise and accept each other, for good and bad. I don't see the point of marriage anymore though, and career women are great as friends only, they don't have time for a relationship. But this can't mean for everyone. I see a lot of older women that are alone, but it's not my problem, it's the way society is too, feminism and more. It's too bad the way the world is, but we have to be happy for what we have.
The courts always side with the woman. I knew guys that had good paying jobs that ended up moving back in with their parents because after the settlement they didn't have enough left over to live.
I think most women are not seen as "that great" to men and men settle for them and obviously they treat them like just "ehh" because they aren't great wives and thats that. No surprise it doesn't work out.
I would never marry someone i didn't think was awesome and someone to be proud of because i know id treat them like shit eventually.
And i think most women just go around ruining themselves by following feminism stuff.
The real, statistically backed reason, is that that majority of women settle when they marry, due to the unrealistic standards women hold. When 80% of women only find 20% of men attractive. But men make up 50% of the population. What would you expect to happen?
Nah dude, it's 100% because harvesting a man's assets in divorce is very profitable and something only women can get away with.
Men aren't as money hungry.
That may be because they are the ones who have the vast majority of wealth in the world. Also I’ve see where wealthy women are taken advantage of just as quickly by men as the other way around. If yoh aren’t okay with sharing your lives now, there’s no reason to think you’d be suitable if it ever ended either. The fact that you’d rather see a housewife destitute for leaving an abusive husband that having to split half of what THEY made as a married couple, tells me you are selfish and don’t deserve a wife. You have no idea of that responsibility.
I believe what you make is yours and what he makes is his, keep your finances separate or suffer the consequences.
You have nobody to blame but yourself if you depend on another person like that.
Exactly so you think a housewife should be penniless if she ever tries to leave. Also, spouses are only entitled to half of what was made during the marriage. Shame on you for wanting mothers to be penniless, beaten and abused. They give up their life for their family. Shame on you.
Maybe your view of mothers is why you should stay alone.
"Shame on you for wanting mothers to be penniless, beaten and abused. They give up their life for their family."
Not what I said lol.
You said each should leave with what they have $$$ wise. Housewives don’t have any money. So what do you think is going to happen? Women are usually the ones who sacrifice careers and other things in life for family.
@Whitemeatchicken This isn't the 1950's anymore. Married couples BOTH work.
No not all do. Many times women only work part time or have restrictions due to childcare. Again shame on you.
Shame on you if you have kids without being financially secure.
I don’t have kids. That just shows you should be alone because you don’t understand how much women sacrifice to have them. In fact, you vilify women for doing so. Usually it’s the guy who asks the woman to stay home too. So she trusts him and stays home then he cheats.
Personally, I’ll work until I’m no longer able.
Actually a lot of men complain that women don’t stay home with the kids. At the same time they complain when the guy cheats or beats and she leaves because they don’t think assets should be split down the middle (not until it’s the other way around anyways). It’s a no win situation.
I don't want kids or marriage. I just think you should be wealthy before you have kids & prudes are annoying, especially since it's fakr.
*when it is fake
@Whitemeatchicken Shame on you for showing your begger side cuz unlike 1700's now you have option to earn your way BUT YOU CHOOSE TO BECOME HOUSEWIFE, it wasn't forced upon you !
You used your own right and free will to become housewife knowing the "consequences" and men don't have the pay the price for your stupidity or Decision... No we are not ruining a Foundation/organization here that we are responsible for woman livelihood and She could have though about that before going for divorce.
Shame on you for trying to justify your/woman begger nature based on her own decision to become house-wife and thank men for even allowinng you to have that option cuz society trash men for not earning their way inr elationship.
@AlphaGhost "and thank men for even allowinng you to have that option cuz society trash men for not earning their way inr elationship."
I KNOW RIGHT? AMEN!
Men and Women do not experience love the same way. We have differing biological imperatives. Men usually have more to lose financially, materially and in terms of access to their children. Re-entering the dating world is a lot more taxing for a larger percentage of men.
The only way for a man to win is not to play. No man should get married on this day in age.
I was expecting a hateful feminist rant of “Men have been oppressing us since the beginning of time so he therefore deserves to be left even though he himself didn’t do anything wrong” crap. Thank you for being a voice of reason.
I simply think women have been sold a bill of goods that they can always do better than where they are currently and impulsively act on it. Then when the regret hits and they want their guy back, the guy has moved on. Sad.