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Why being attractive as a girl isn't all that it seems (Page 3)
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"Bosses joke that they like having my photo on their website. He says, "Gets clients." " -- Well if you don't want to benefit from your looks then stop using your looks to get a job. Make a scowl/twisted lip face whenever you're applying for a job & when you take pictures. Some people look like that after a stroke so it's a legit way to look.
Oh, wait, it might not be fun not being able to take advantage of your looks.
I'm sorry that happened to you but I can guarantee you your not alone with average to ugly girls. I have a lot friends taken advantage of just for being friendly. Some guys are pigs with most women.
Best thing you can do is take self defense classes and stand tall and do not allow others to disrespect you.
Hope things look up for you. ❤️
@JustAnj
"I have a lot friends taken advantage of just for being friendly. Some guys are pigs with most women."
Us blue fonts can say the same thing about you pink fonts. A lot of women are total bitches with most men.
@joeblow123
Your point?
Women aren't total bitches either a lot are just taken that way and the better word would be rude.
You can't base your experiences on simply how others react but how you approach and if someone is being rude to you move on or else your the one with a problem not the ones who have offended you.
@JustAnj
The OP who wrote this take was talking about problems with other women.
What does your misandric statement have to do with OP's take?
@joeblow123
My opinion in regards to her take is through understanding that this is more than a I'm beautiful problem and is actually a issue of all kinds of women.
If your offended by my opinion it begs to question are you the SOME guys that need to grow up and learn to respect others or are you just a person who likes to criticize women through your own personal experiences?
I don't understand your comment towards women other then hate, what I am say of SOME men is fact. You really don't need much to see that.
@JustAnj
You wag your finger at me yet you are engaging in the same behavior that you admonish me for. Hypocrite much.
@joeblow123
I honestly don't care for hypocrisy in the end we have some but how you use that form is important I'm not hypocrite in the form of stating the truth but can be seen as one if you view my projection as angry when it's not. So no I'm not a hypocrite it's not hate it's reality, you don't like it then I'm sorry for you.
Would you prefer I make it less "pig" and more some men will always objectify women and view them sexually? Will that make you less offended by your projection?
Overall I was lazy don't care to offend men who are essentially disgusting to me and if you are this kind of man seek help.
I will not continue to engage in a pointless conversation with someone who seeks out negative attention in the form of defensiveness just because your a man.
Perhaps consider valuable conversation instead of bantering.
it's a complex issue, I don't see there being a simple answer although I just assume everybody has problems and humans in general are all too often self absorbed sacks of feces that can't help but see the grass as being greener in somebody else's shoes.
I'm no Quasimoto but then I'm no George Cloony either~ Regardless of gender, I figure it all boils down to confidence and attitude. The rest is window dressing.
Not all guys are assholes.
There was a girl in my homeroom when I was i high school that I thought was the hottest girl in the school. She was not in any of the groups. She was not a cheerleader. I don't really think she had a lot of friends and I just assumed she dated older guys. I tried to talk to her a couple of times but never got anywhere.
Later I talked to the guy that lived near her and he told me that most of the time she just stayed home.
I'm considered attractive and was the same in high school. I still do stay home lol. I don't have many friends and don't get asked out a lot.
@anona14 A lot of guys maybe don't bother because they assume they will be shot down. I have been married for 25 years but looking back on the whole being single thing and it was really weird. No rhyme or reason to any of it.
Haha so many bitter men in the replies just prove your points even further.
How so? I don't see many bitter comments, just disagreements. Maybe projecting a little?
@MarkusCopeland i mean comments who trying to downplay the points in the post trying to 'one up' op like this is some competition of who suffers more
Like your "my take", it is good and shows some often overseen perspectives.
We all have our issues, although some are worse off than others. But we ALL have issues and believing other people's lives are just a cakewalk because they are beautiful, white, males, rich or famous is just ridiculous.
Very well said. It's interesting how bad we can all be to each other in so many different ways and from different perspectives. This perspective is something I've always wondered about but never wanted to start a conversation with so... You're pretty tell me all the dumb things you deal with just for that lol. I've always been curious but as a guy I thought it would be weird to ask that so I reserve those types of questions for only close friends I've build rapport with.
I think that you're an interesting person. Attractive and why did you see things the way that you've pulled us apart. Almost going to make fun of you for it because you're trying to make a negative so much into a positive that you've really thought it out. But it's that in itself that makes you attractive. Don't cut yourself short. People are shallow and they're not worth it anyway. Somebody you'll see. They will see who you are seeing in these attractive people
That was hopelessly hard to understand because I'm speaking into the phone. The first part should say the way that you see things you've really pulled it open and analyzed it to such an extent that it's makes me laugh in a good way. But I'm a weirdo. I think that you're attractive soul is not so much more important. This isn't a pitch to try to you know cuz I simply just don't care about those things kind of things anymore. It's just a reply my motives are usually pretty clear. I am the score keeper. But more so the bastard. Take care
Absolutely agree with this post. And we also get men who only want one thing all the time
@joeblow123 I would never take advice from a 39 year old man with no wife, kids, nor girlfriend. Nice try weirdo
The problem is most women think they are more attractive than they really are.
Average and ugly women have their troubles too.
Beautiful women don't have it perfect for sure, but it sure beats the alternatives.😗
actually I would argue that most women would think that they are less attractive then they really are.
No they aren't.
Based on most guys dating experiences and such women are acting more entitled than ever before.
Those women are acting entitled because they are insecure. It is, "i dont thinj im peetty and i might not get a date again so im going to maximize my oppoetunitiea and get this guy to fulfill my fantasies."
*think *opportunities
@Subarugirl Nah. Hot girls know they're hot. They are reminded every day. If you're not receiving that input, you're not a hot girl, and aren't more attractive than you don't think you are. If you were more attractive than you think you are, you'd find out otherwise real quick and that would be the end of that.
@Subarugirl I think humility is very attractive in a woman! I've seen too many beautiful women with an ugly arrogant attitude.
@gag2021 I agree but the same could be said for men too unfortunately. It’s the human condition :/
@Subarugirl I think women who are humble think they are less attractive than they really are, and that character trait is very attractive to me!
So what's the implication of this? It's better to be less attractive? If that's true then just dress down. Or is the point NOT that it's better to be less attractive, but that attractive people have challenges and less attractive people have different challenges? If that's the case, figure out how to deal with the challenges you've outlined above. What can you do about it?
I hear ya sister, and for the most part, I agree. Honestly, I'm glad that my background doesn't encourage extra-marital relating... I had a narrow escape from similar dangers as you've mentioned; could've been in a HELL LOT of trouble otherwise, So thank Goodness for that.
From all I've been through, I got that I can't control how others respond to me, BUT I have power over how I respond to them.
Faced accusations and rumors, too. Now I basically avoid talking to guys except strictly business-like, ignore those who approach me. No guys, no jealous girls, no rumors.
Dating is overrated. It's no surprise that older married family members can make better, more mature choices for a person, as opposed to one's hormones making those choices.
Oh woe is me and my vagina.
A bunch of simps got butthurt
@ThisDudeHere
LMFAO
Yeah, I agree that being attractive has its own set of problems that don't come with being unattractive.
But being unattractive is still worse in my opinion, this is a personal thing.
I believe that all of these abuses amount to a form of racism. Only intelligent people are able to create a beautiful body and mind over the generations. Id suggest just sticking with people who are like you. Not just beautiful, but living up to their ancestors sacrifice and wisdom that made it possible.
All the people of this Earth have struggled, only some are also attractive!
What?
well many people believe that attractive women simply just have to be pretty and just go out and show up or simply just be there, they can be socially-inept or socially-awkward, not have much going for them, and still be able to get a boyfriend, not so much the other way around though.
it bothers and enrages me a lot when people say that women need skills to get a date or get a boyfriend when women normally play a passive role
Yea some of it I can relate a tad.
I am not excessively attractive, but rare are the guys that approach me on their own.
If I don't make it very clear that I am interested, they don't reciprocate.
And yes people assume I get special treatment in work or school because of my looks and being a female.
In the eno I can't control other's people behaviour.
This happens to me, but imagine not just other people but your own family doing all of this to you. Jealousy/isolation doesn't only happen from the people outside, but it's the people inside your family that are the ones jealous of you the most.
The benefits must outweigh the negatives because make up and cosmetic surgery is a multibillion-dollar industry.
Show me a woman that complains about being too attractive, and I'll show you one that still wears makeup, sexy clothes, and posts herself on social media regularly, looking for an ego boost. If a woman wants to be less attractive, it is not hard to accomplish.
I always find these notions hard to believe when such women choose to continue being attractive. They say "it's not all that" but it's obviously "much more that" than alternative, so all this kind of rings hollow compared to not being attractive. Sorry.