Girls who feel bad about their bodies.

[Preeti161101]

For girls who feel bad about their bodies,
An intelligent man does not like the woman with the most beautiful and attractive body, the woman who helps him to advance in life as a person, who helps him climb to the top of success. Every happiness always gives support in times of sorrow, this is what he likes!
A woman should not waste time on whether she is physically fit or physically fit just to please others... better focus on yourself and live your life as a great woman. do...

[Sugar100]

I have weird skinny arms like a stick. Never get fat on them. I want short sexy chubby arms. I’m not tall. I have little girl squeaky voice sound like I’m 5 and not 25. I want bigger butt and boobs. I have big bump on nose.

[ghstbade23]

thats fine you dont need to think so much about it, fat in your arms will come one day or maybe not but people will accept you for who you are and love you as well, now if its for yourself you will learn how to accept who you are what you like with time and realise that nobody is perfect and we dont always get what we want.

[Tileana]

lol why would you want fat arms? yer a pixie. pixies are cute. <3 be yourself and don't worry too much.

[Debbie14217]

i look fat

[Red_Arrow]

I don't think so!

[Debbie14217]

@Red_Arrow thanks!

[DrewJohnson]

I'm sorry you feel that way. I disagree! You look sexy!

[Lee1515]

no your not your hot looking

[Lonerup]

Start working out then

[Pohjolan]

Start doing crossfit and drop any extra sugar.

[rtj1211]

This post seems to veer between two extremes: all about body or zilch about body.

The reality is that individual men who have grown beyond 15 year old adolescent thoughts see an individual woman's body as either attractive enough or not and, having decided to talk to a women whose body IS attractive enough for them, then what a man values from then on tends to not be focussed on the body (although they will value that woman keeping her body in shape, eating healthily etc etc).

Basically, if a man starts chatting/flirting with you as a woman, he's telling you non-verbally that he finds your body physically attractive. So you can stop worrying in the short-term and just get on flirting with him to find out if you both like each other.

Men don't bother flirting with women they wouldn't want to have uninvolved physical sex with. They just don't.

It's just that first filter of CVs for a job application - the long list vs those binned.

If a man's binned you, you won't even get to chat with him. If he chats with you, you've reached the status of being on the long-list of potential appointees.

At which point, it's not down to your physical characteristics, it's down to your character, your sexiness in the bedroom and whether the two of you are compatible as long-term partners.

Obviously, if you then spend the next three years drinking far too much, stuffing yourself with junk food and end up looking a podgy, greasy overweight heffalump, then he may change his opinion on your body.

But that's down to you, not down to him.

[EpicNate]

I disagree with the aforementioned statements, go for the looks but stay for the personality. It doesn't matter and remains irrelevant if a woman helps me to advance in life as a person and climb to the top of success if there is no physical attraction which ties these traits together.

If someone possesses these characteristics however there is no physical attraction whatsoever, then I see potential for them as a friend but nothing more. There are definitely guys who prefer a woman's personality as opposed to physical appearance, however many men do prefer looks at-least in the context of potential romantic or sexual relationships.

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

While I agree I also feel this is fantasy. The reality is men are physical creatures and very visual. While they may prefer a woman with realistic and ideal qualities (help him advance, give him peace, etc ) the reality is they are absolutely going to ideally prefer eye candy and you will end up feeling very insecure with their wandering eyes if you don't find a way to be happy with yourself. I know this because I have very bad image issues. It isn't my partners burden but I would be lying if I said it didn't hurt to not look like the IG models he clearly is attracted to (which look nothing like me at all) knowing what I offer and give.

[Anonymous]

I agree with you here on some levels. Looks are not everything, that is certainly true. I find myself attracted to many women who would not necessarily meet the description of classically attractive.

Helps him climb to the top of success? Hmm, not so much. I like like a woman who whose company I enjoy and who supports me as a partner, but she will not help me climb to the top of success. That is up to me. But her support as a partner and a lover are obviously very important.

A woman should not waste time on whether she is physically fit? Sorry, but this is terrible advice. Being healthy and physically fit is very important, for both sexes. If it makes you feel better to think you are only taking care of yourself for you, then that's fine, as long as you do it.

[Shiface92]

That picture portrays the body types wrong…. Inverted triangles don’t really have hips like that, regular triangle do though because they are similar to pear except more fit with bigger butt….

inverted Triangle on the other hand they have broad shoulders and chest with tiny hips …

[USLegionary]

Guys don't want the perfect woman but do want a woman who takes care of herself and isn't fat or obese. Like with men woman should also strive to be the best they can be physically and mentally. If you want a high quality man you have to be a high quality woman.

This fat acceptance crap needs to stop. 40% of women in America are obese.

https://youtu.be/s-kdRdzxdZQ

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

There is a number of reasons why some people may be overweight, it's unfair for someone to think like that. What if women felt like balding men are a problem?

[USLegionary]

@Ukrainianbuddafly no1 reason people are fat is overeating and eating unhealthy foods. Plus lack of exercise. Let's not pretend that this is not the case.

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

Are you a doctor or scientist? Have you polled those people to see their findings because I'm just curious how you would know that especially since a lot of things can go undiagnosed

[USLegionary]

@Ukrainianbuddafly you can find it in any medical journal or scientific study related to obesity. I mean you don't see much obesity in Ukraine or Russia

"As for what is driving America's chronic weight problem, there are no definite answers. Scientific studies often reach conflicting conclusions, meaning many theories are out there, but the preponderance of evidence points to the two causes most people already suspect: too much food and too little exercise.31 Aug 2022"

[Deed211]

I say, embrace your body!!!

I speak from experience, I as guy have a naturally pear shape body, (small/thin top but a really big bottom (butt)) and eventually, after being bullied by a lot of peeps back in the day. I eventually started to grow into it.

I grew to love my bum and how a lot of peeps touch it also. My past girlfriend touched my butt more than I touched hers. And we dont more butt stuff in the bedroom too.🥰🍑.

Did my reply help?

[fonduegirl]

Good take. I just want to say, as someone who recently got checked for eating disorder, depression, and related stuff... This isn't about dating. People who feel bad about their bodies usually think they won't get any positive attention like ever, they compare themselves too much with their ideals, and they think their apparent ugliness defines who they are. Before I turned 18, I was like that. It's not about if guys like us or not.

[BJP21]

Im going to say this repeatedly to any girl who feels bad about they body, flaunt your shit. It's the biggest turn on I promise you. Any guy will go nuts. Id rather date the imperfect girl twerking on the dance floor not giving a shit than to have the attractive girl who's bottled up and insecure over guys seeing a few fat rolls.

[Vegasrunner]

This is terrible advice for women. Women always make the mistake of believing that what they want is congruent w/ what men want. It is not. Successful men dont care about a womens ability to help him advance because they understand that they need to do that on their own in order to survive. Your main value is your beauty, take advantage of it while you can.

[artgorgeous]

Girls depicted on the example, are all having good bodies. More of a concern when these bodies become morbidly obese... That is when they need to start feeling bad about this and do something, because its not healthy and not attractive at all.

[CateM]

Finally a post like this! I was skinny growing up, but am now a top hourglass. I used to hate my body, those days are over now. I say for both sexes, embrace your body!

[D_Bone_Steak]

Everyone of those cartoon chicks can get laid easy. Show me those big fat obese ma ma hog land whale motherfuckers. Then I'll compare.

[Guy13]

All girls feel bad about their bodies. And the models are the worse ones.

[Petedavidsonfan]

I’m fat and have acne. I have horrible self esteem.

[ghstbade23]

those problems can be solved with time, fat with exercise when you are ready to do so, acne with a treatment or just time, self esteem is built with time, the more you experience, the more people you meet the more confident you become, self esteem can also be because of your entourage, stay with the right people and your self esteem will sky rocket, if the people around you are causing your self esteem then cut them off and find new people. `of course this won't be easy but you will get through it.

[Raaj4you]

Absolutely, we don't need your super model looks. We need your inner beauty so that we can lead a happy life together. Beauty fades character remains.

[Caliguy88]

All guys like different body types. Sure the typical skinny, big boobs blonde is always pretty hot, but I think girls are more about body when it comes to demanding that than guys are.

[TroyDT2]

Unless it is something that she should be able to control like obesity, I do not reject any lady because of her body.

[AsaKyo]

I just feel like I'm too curvy, and kinda wish I was skinny as a rail with no tits or ass lmao

[Samantha_17]

I would be happy with my body as long as I could wear whatever I want :)