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What is the definition of a High Value Man? (Page 2)
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I have yet to meet a woman who I feel is on my level and actually deserves me.
I don't know if that makes me high value, but it definitely makes me a narcissist
A man women value highly.
@kimmyschmit Unfortunately no. Women tend to only see value through what they want. To get a HV man other men of value have to respect you.
To get a HV man a HV man must see you as HV to them. Not just as some chick to pump & dump as you guys say.
@kimmyschmit A women can't be HV, her value is based on the quality of man she's able to retain.
If men value her highly she can be High Value. Like Taylor Swift or Sabrina Carpenter
@kimmyschmit Nah, woman have value for simply existing. Their value increases if they can retain a man of value. I don't know who Sabrina Carpenter is but if Taylor Swift can somehow keep Travis Kelce then it validates her value.
Taylor Swift is worth $2 billion and her career is on top and will continue to pocket money until the day she dies and will still be selling out concerts long after she retires. Travis Kelce is about to be replaced and retire with his $60 million.
@kimmyschmit I think I see your confusion. A woman's finances dont make her HV because men dont select women based on their money. If Taylor Swift had $2 and was sleeping in the street, she would have value as long as she's hot. Women however value men for their status and resources so for Travis Kelce to have built himself up to be worth 60 million dollars makes him a HV man.
If that's the case then Travis Kelce would be too low value for her.
@kimmyschmit Not really because he has both status and money. Once you rid yourself of this foolish belief that men and women are equal it will be easier for you to understand. Travis Kelce is a man who built himself up to do what less than 0.001% of all people on earth have done. He has money and status, as a result he's earned the right to sleep with as many young beautiful women that he wants, including but not limited to Taylor Swift. Her money only limits the options available to her.
Not so. Taylor has her pick of high status males. Including kelce.
@kimmyschmit Actually this is false because she has made so much money and has been penetrated by a professional athlete her pool of HV men actually goes down. Thats why someone like Beyonce stayed with Jay - Z after he banged other women, because she realized how difficult it would be to replace him. Use logic, why would a HV man want an aging woman who has already been run threw by a professional athlete?
Beyonce stayed with Jay Z because her solo career is basically a product of him. Could have been Kelly Roland who was crazy in love.
@kimmyschmit How is that remotely relevant to this conversation. Beyonce a woman who literally tells women to upgrade. Stayed with a man who was banging multiple woman. She did that because she understood how impossible it was for her to find another man of Jay Z caliber
Im sure Beyonce has her own pool boy while Jay z and Diddy are shafting the talents like usher and Bieber.
@kimmyschmit She doesn't thats the point. She understands that if she loses Jay Z she can't replace him, but he can replace her in a second. You're young so I get why you dont understand this but this is actually how the real world works. The pool boy and gardener fairy tales are simply things they tell you to sell to women's sensitive egos.
She no longer needs to replace him, she came finally be with more attractive men
@kimmyschmit Sh can't replace him because there are limited number of men w/ Jay Z's status and the ones with his status aren't going to wife up and older babies momma, of a HV man. They can just get a younger woman with less mileage.
You'd be surprised. Remember the billionaire that married Janet Jackson
@kimmyschmit You dont have much dating experience so its actually its you that would be surprised. Janet Jackson never got poenetrated by Jay Z, so your statement only validates my point.
But Justin Bieber did
@kimmyschmit I was not aware Justin Bieber had sex with Janet Jackson, but im confused as to what that has to do with anything.
No. They say Bieber was molested at 14 at the Diddy parties
@kimmyschmit You lost me. Who is they and what does this have to do with Beyoncé inability to replace Jay-z?
Beyonce could replace Jay Z tomorrow. there's a long line of guys lining up
@kimmyschmitt You're kind of flip flipping back and forth which I realize is a female trait, however the last time you brought this up. I asked you why a man of value would want an older woman with two kids. The fact that you are unable to provide an answer to that question proves the point.
Humble. Not egotistical. Looks out for partner’s self interest then their own. Charming but not douché.
@Boomchakalaca None if those things have anything to do w/ being a HV man.
Well if ur so sure then u already answered ur own question
@Boomchakalaca I answered in the original post all you had to do was read it.
A guy who has suffered through life that dresses well, is fit and doesn't bow to girls and doesn't take SH##!
and has a high salary or is focused on increasing his wealth. And has no issues walking away from hot women or saying no to them.
for more info please go to
www.milademjay.com
LoL... What a corporation defines as high value is not the same as what individuals define as high value.
A corporation is looking for a greedy, lying, fraudulent sack of sh$t. Cause a corporation doesn't have to live with that person.
An individual is not looking for a selfish. lying, fraudulent sack of sh$t.
Someone who strives to be more and more like Jesus. I'll give a few examples; Jim Elliot, Billy Graham, Joseph former prime minister of egypt, the famous moses, Boaz, George Farmer to name a few
Since everyone's values vary, everyone has something different in mind when it comes to a "High Value Man." Making this is so subjectively defined that it's almost not even worth thinking about too deeply.
Depends on who you ask. Personallly, I think a high value man is a man of God and does the will of God. But my opinion doesn't matter.
In todays society a high value man would be someone that is rich, fit, handsome, confident, has many women/options, masculine and intelligent.
I like this definition. It's simple, easy to understand, and in most situations, true.
I think most men are higher value than they are portrayed by others.
@Jltakk Interesting. Care to elaborate?
Your perception is your reality. Definition of a high value man is going to differ between PERSON not gender
@smashleyy Exactly. That's why the definition does not include the females opinion because we all understand that it will change by the second.
Nah. Not in the slightest. I never thought it was because of me. I think anyone high value has character. They're honest. Smart. Sure, they might be pretty on the outside. But what's inside?
I think the definition of HV man would absolutely depend on one's worldview. So if for someone a man playing online pokies and winning is high value, then it's one thing. If for a different woman a businessman who earns a lot of money and spends all the time working is the best option, we can respect her opinion.
He has a value if I see a value in him not he sees it in himself.
@freyared That's literally the opposite definition of a HV man.
Well, "High value man" and "high maintenance woman" make also a perfect match.
@freyared Interesting. High maintenance women are the most annoying in my opinion. Part of building your value is not having to deal w/ those kinds of women.
Intelligent, stable, good provider, respectful, adequately protective and chivalrous, sufficiently masculine. More I'm sure.
Usually a high value man is the complete opposite of what a man think it is. This is another reason why most men on here will remain single forever.
You should watch Kevin Samuels sir. He defines it in great detail.
A high value man.. shouldn’t exist 😆 sounds very… objectifying. I could think of many more ways a man would like to be complimented
no such thing as a person who is high value. we as people all inherently have value.
@gothbxtch That is false. Women are born w/ value and then it decreases as they age. Men have to work to earn their value and try to increase it. If what you are saying is true why doesn't every person make the exact same amount of money?
Just a dude who has his shit together and brings most things a woman would want to a relationship. Decent income, good skillset, maybe some nice respectable hobbies like piano.