It absolutely blows my mind how women can do whatever and men can not. If that's not sexist, I don't know what it. Being attractive and attracting other to you, then shaming them for being attracted to you is a very perserve view of society. It's like saying "how dare you have a healthy libido" and "how dare you pay attention to me when I'm actively attracting attention"
You can't help to see people in your proximity so you're going to notice anyone in your eyes view. Staring is different. Staring is weird. If you notice a woman and you find her attractive that's human nature. Same with women noticing a man. No one should be shamed.
If you're gawking at someone while you're with your SO that's just not nice and we can control that.
I work as a flight attendant and sometimes I will unbutton a button or two, wear a pushup, adjust my bra strap etc. I understand guy may (will) look. Im okay if they want to look juust dont be a creep and stare.
It is kinda tough to not look a woman exposing her cleavage depending on what kind of outfit she wears let alone maintain direct eye contact and not be distracted by her breasts while talking to her. Henceforth, if she doesn't feel offended by guys staring at her while walking past her it's okay. Rule of thumb is you can look, but don't touch... Unless she feels comfortable with him around her.
Well this is intresting because it happens to be a fact that people has been to court for sexual harassment for less.. so i guess i understand people less and less.
Girls can wear mini skirts.. deep v cut in their shirts..
What's wrong with staring? If the woman is going to show them, why can't a guy stare? It's part of his innate biology 101. That's one of the points she makes in the video.
I've always just used my peripheral vision and not just out and out stare. Even though a girl may be dressed to show them off a little, It's shows how classy you are if you can't raise your eyes from her chest long enough to tell what color her eyes are.
You big-breasted babes should realize that at any age (I'm 70 and proudly ogle chesty chicks), we lads are going gaze at your spuds, but as in my case, a man should be discreet when looking at a lady's assets so as not to discomfit her or creep her out.
I would say it is always oke to look, and enjoy it (and to enjoy being looked at). But you just need to keep in mind not to do anything more, depending on the situation ofcourse.
It's definitely okay, that's the whole reason they do it.. What becomes a problem to them is when guys they are not attracted to check them out. Then it's like "ew don't look at me".. I mean it's not like women don't look..
When you show as much cleavage as you do, it is obvious that you enjoy being looked at. And with the looks you have, I am sure most guys love staring at it! :-)
that is why mirrored sunglasses were invented, so no one could see what you were looking at. If/when you started to drool might have been a dead giveaway. I don't get it, they are boobs, they don't so much except feed a kid. You think those things would just be a pain in the back to carry around and get in the way a lot. But for those that have a boob fetish one would think that women out them on display for some good reason.
As a white collar man I definitely find it interesting that there is a debate on how much cleavage women can show at work and this idea that women are still somehow controlled on what they can wear (because of men).
Meanwhile it is absolutely unacceptable for me as a man to show even calves or upper arm at work.
You need to distinguish between noticing, appreciating in a healthy way, and ogling. It's also a separate conversation to ask what woman should wear, or what kind of behavior they should expect based on what they wear.
I told my ex-fiance shortly after we started seeing each other that I'll look at women all the time but, I'm NOT doing it to see if I can find anything better! I've got you and that's it! To me, the others that I look at are like beautiful works of art that I just like to admire for the moment. Before long, she was even pointing out more of them for me that I might've missed! But, she was plenty for me so, I certainly wasn't window shopping.
Maybe if women WERE allowed to walk around topless, as they are in New York, men would get so used to seeing naked tits that it would no longer be something we'd need to look at.
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Yes it is ok to look and let me tell you why
it’s natural. Men look at women Women look at Men we are human beings and we are attracted to one another
I was dared to run into the girls weight room buttnaked in highschool and my asshole team mates looked me in there with them
so I know from experience that there are only two types of women :
1. Ones who look directly at it
2. Ones who look everywhere else but
If you look at a woman to lust for her you've committed adultery with her in your heart did Jesus
@Lara_Croft this is why we are supposed to flee from sexual immorality because we can’t resist it
@Lara_Croft Is that Shakespeare?
@bobinnes00 No it's by Jesus Matthew 5 vs 28
It absolutely blows my mind how women can do whatever and men can not. If that's not sexist, I don't know what it. Being attractive and attracting other to you, then shaming them for being attracted to you is a very perserve view of society. It's like saying "how dare you have a healthy libido" and "how dare you pay attention to me when I'm actively attracting attention"
You can't help to see people in your proximity so you're going to notice anyone in your eyes view. Staring is different. Staring is weird. If you notice a woman and you find her attractive that's human nature. Same with women noticing a man. No one should be shamed.
If you're gawking at someone while you're with your SO that's just not nice and we can control that.
I work as a flight attendant and sometimes I will unbutton a button or two, wear a pushup, adjust my bra strap etc. I understand guy may (will) look. Im okay if they want to look juust dont be a creep and stare.
But a woman would be the creep of ages showcasing her business for the whole world to see as well
@Lara_Croft There is a difference between being flirtacous/self confident and being a slut
and what is that line and who gets to choose it thats the fucked up issue
1s look
5s look
30s look
1 min look
5 mins looking
how long is a stare and how long is allowed between a glance and another glance and another glance and how many glances are allowed!
If all those options are intentionally showing their business. Il n'ya pas un difference. You can flirt without your boobs
@Lara_Croft I agree
It is kinda tough to not look a woman exposing her cleavage depending on what kind of outfit she wears let alone maintain direct eye contact and not be distracted by her breasts while talking to her. Henceforth, if she doesn't feel offended by guys staring at her while walking past her it's okay. Rule of thumb is you can look, but don't touch... Unless she feels comfortable with him around her.
Well this is intresting because it happens to be a fact that people has been to court for sexual harassment for less.. so i guess i understand people less and less.
Girls can wear mini skirts.. deep v cut in their shirts..
But if we man look for a moment we are fucked. 🤔
The world is getting crazier by the day. 😂
Looking as in glancing then sure. But you can't stare. That's rude.
What's wrong with staring? If the woman is going to show them, why can't a guy stare? It's part of his innate biology 101. That's one of the points she makes in the video.
If its in a strip club then go ahead. But any where else, then stare beware.
I agree here. It’s ok to look once but outwardly starting is almost on the creepy, pervert side.
Starring
@Amy10223 try again, lol! :D
@bobinnes00 Staring :D
I've always just used my peripheral vision and not just out and out stare. Even though a girl may be dressed to show them off a little, It's shows how classy you are if you can't raise your eyes from her chest long enough to tell what color her eyes are.
This will splain it.
You big-breasted babes should realize that at any age (I'm 70 and proudly ogle chesty chicks), we lads are going gaze at your spuds, but as in my case, a man should be discreet when looking at a lady's assets so as not to discomfit her or creep her out.
I would say it is always oke to look, and enjoy it (and to enjoy being looked at). But you just need to keep in mind not to do anything more, depending on the situation ofcourse.
I very lovely, early Denise Richards...
Peeking and poking...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/-gl7IXuxSSkhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AqWNmk7pH3s
It's definitely okay, that's the whole reason they do it.. What becomes a problem to them is when guys they are not attracted to check them out. Then it's like "ew don't look at me".. I mean it's not like women don't look..
Guys are crazy for boobs. I don't really understand it, I mean they are just soft round things
@orangecherry Guys also have some soft round things... and women seem to like them. 😎
When you show as much cleavage as I do I can't complain if its stared at lol.
Nice 🙂
When you show as much cleavage as you do, it is obvious that you enjoy being looked at. And with the looks you have, I am sure most guys love staring at it! :-)
@staceyxox I know I’d be looking…. Hopefully titty fucking you later on! 😉
I mean the expression "look, dont touch" is still relevant
that is why mirrored sunglasses were invented, so no one could see what you were looking at.
If/when you started to drool might have been a dead giveaway.
I don't get it, they are boobs, they don't so much except feed a kid.
You think those things would just be a pain in the back to carry around and get in the way a lot.
But for those that have a boob fetish one would think that women out them on display for some good reason.
As a white collar man I definitely find it interesting that there is a debate on how much cleavage women can show at work and this idea that women are still somehow controlled on what they can wear (because of men).
Meanwhile it is absolutely unacceptable for me as a man to show even calves or upper arm at work.
You need to distinguish between noticing, appreciating in a healthy way, and ogling. It's also a separate conversation to ask what woman should wear, or what kind of behavior they should expect based on what they wear.
I told my ex-fiance shortly after we started seeing each other that I'll look at women all the time but, I'm NOT doing it to see if I can find anything better! I've got you and that's it! To me, the others that I look at are like beautiful works of art that I just like to admire for the moment. Before long, she was even pointing out more of them for me that I might've missed! But, she was plenty for me so, I certainly wasn't window shopping.
Maybe if women WERE allowed to walk around topless, as they are in New York, men would get so used to seeing naked tits that it would no longer be something we'd need to look at.